What is SIL's problem with me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, both you and SIL are playing a sad game.

What game is that? I wasn't playing any game. I just wanted to help FIL as I felt bad for it. Also I thought it would be efficient.

Oh PLEASE. You were outdoing yourself to be the Gallant to her Goofus. You were overplaying Good Daughter and she was acting up as Spoiled Brat. You were both making quite the spectacle of yourselves, and pulling the focus away from what it should be: a pleasant holiday.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, both you and SIL are playing a sad game.

What game is that? I wasn't playing any game. I just wanted to help FIL as I felt bad for it. Also I thought it would be efficient.

Oh PLEASE. You were outdoing yourself to be the Gallant to her Goofus. You were overplaying Good Daughter and she was acting up as Spoiled Brat. You were both making quite the spectacle of yourselves, and pulling the focus away from what it should be: a pleasant holiday.

Buffet!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, both you and SIL are playing a sad game.

What game is that? I wasn't playing any game. I just wanted to help FIL as I felt bad for it. Also I thought it would be efficient.

Oh PLEASE. You were outdoing yourself to be the Gallant to her Goofus. You were overplaying Good Daughter and she was acting up as Spoiled Brat. You were both making quite the spectacle of yourselves, and pulling the focus away from what it should be: a pleasant holiday.

Yes. If you can't see that, OP, you're just as much to blame as your SIL.

[Anonymous]

I really don’t see why people can’t serve themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, both you and SIL are playing a sad game.

What game is that? I wasn't playing any game. I just wanted to help FIL as I felt bad for it. Also I thought it would be efficient.

Oh PLEASE. You were outdoing yourself to be the Gallant to her Goofus. You were overplaying Good Daughter and she was acting up as Spoiled Brat. You were both making quite the spectacle of yourselves, and pulling the focus away from what it should be: a pleasant holiday.

Perfectly said. I especially love how every time you spoke it was “gently”. Lol.

[Anonymous]

Ignore the crazy, what else can we tell you? She is nuts, recognize her illness and petulant toddler behavior, and avoid, avoid, avoid.

[Anonymous]

Of course OP should talk gently to mentally ill SIL! Plus, many point to OP for treating SIL as a toddler, you act like one you get treated like one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OMG you sound like the most passive aggressive bunch of nutjobs. Putting food on plates shouldn't require this much debate or drama.

...how did I create the drama?

This. You shamed her. "I look at SIL and say gently, "Britney you should be proud your brother is being a good husband." "

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OMG you sound like the most passive aggressive bunch of nutjobs. Putting food on plates shouldn't require this much debate or drama.

...how did I create the drama?

This. You shamed her. "I look at SIL and say gently, "Britney you should be proud your brother is being a good husband." "

Lol. Britney was being a complete brat but that little comment above takes the cake, Op. Could you have been more pretentious, Op?

[Anonymous]

You are all way too full of yourselves to eat at the same table - buffet from here on out!

[Anonymous]

OP, ignore those who are dismissive. I would have been peeved by the exchange that you described. I am sorry she is such a brat.

[Anonymous]

OP was trying to do something helpful. If everyone who commented says that's drama then wtf to you too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, ignore those who are dismissive. I would have been peeved by the exchange that you described. I am sorry she is such a brat.

Britney was an obnoxious, inconsiderate brat. But Op was egging Britney's bad behavior on by doing the Good Daughter and Good little Wifie routine. The sugary way she spoke to Britney was gag inducing. I hope no one vomited right onto their plate or fell into sugar shock.

It was appropriate to be helpful but the "Oh, what a good husband" and "what a thoughtful wife" thing was too much. Op jumped the shark.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, ignore those who are dismissive. I would have been peeved by the exchange that you described. I am sorry she is such a brat.

Britney was an obnoxious, inconsiderate brat. But Op was egging Britney's bad behavior on by doing the Good Daughter and Good little Wifie routine. The sugary way she spoke to Britney was gag inducing. I hope no one vomited right onto their plate or fell into sugar shock.

It was appropriate to be helpful but the "Oh, what a good husband" and "what a thoughtful wife" thing was too much. Op jumped the shark.

It's either that or curse at them back. OP chose to kill with kindness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, ignore those who are dismissive. I would have been peeved by the exchange that you described. I am sorry she is such a brat.

Britney was an obnoxious, inconsiderate brat. But Op was egging Britney's bad behavior on by doing the Good Daughter and Good little Wifie routine. The sugary way she spoke to Britney was gag inducing. I hope no one vomited right onto their plate or fell into sugar shock.

It was appropriate to be helpful but the "Oh, what a good husband" and "what a thoughtful wife" thing was too much. Op jumped the shark.

It's either that or curse at them back. OP chose to kill with kindness.

Nah, that was a beautiful show of passive aggressive bullsh*t. Generally, it is not polite to dump bullsh*t on someone else's holiday table. No one feels like getting out the shovel at Thanksgiving dinner.

Can the crap. Be nice and ignore SIL.