Ex husband asked me to stop calling his mom when our child is visiting

[Anonymous]

Omg, you was kid will be fine for a week without hearing from you. If that concerned, just text or call dad to check in on her and ask for a time to talk to her that is at mil convenience. No need to create drama when mil is doing something nice and sweet for your daughter and you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You MIL is out of line to expect her grandchild have no contact with her MOTHER for a week. That’s outrageous and I’d shit that down now or no more can visits with grandma.

+1

Uh, you can’t do anything about visits with grandma during the other parent’s custodial time. Guess what - when you get divorced you lose the control.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You MIL is out of line to expect her grandchild have no contact with her MOTHER for a week. That’s outrageous and I’d shit that down now or no more can visits with grandma.

+1

Uh, you can’t do anything about visits with grandma during the other parent’s custodial time. Guess what - when you get divorced you lose the control.

It's still totally inappropriate and bad for the child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Omg, you was kid will be fine for a week without hearing from you. If that concerned, just text or call dad to check in on her and ask for a time to talk to her that is at mil convenience. No need to create drama when mil is doing something nice and sweet for your daughter and you

the MIL is creating the drama.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You MIL is out of line to expect her grandchild have no contact with her MOTHER for a week. That’s outrageous and I’d shit that down now or no more can visits with grandma.

You don’t get to make the rules when it’s Dads week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s his time, not yours. He makes the rules during that time.

That's not the way for kids to feel secure. At all. We see so many kids at school experiencing his anxiety and stress due to these types of situations. Grow up, parents.

[Anonymous]

It's unacceptable. The kids should have access to both parents at all times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You MIL is out of line to expect her grandchild have no contact with her MOTHER for a week. That’s outrageous and I’d shit that down now or no more can visits with grandma.

You don’t get to make the rules when it’s Dads week.

Put the child first, not the parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's unacceptable. The kids should have access to both parents at all times.

+ 1 absurd to think otherwise

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You MIL is out of line to expect her grandchild have no contact with her MOTHER for a week. That’s outrageous and I’d shit that down now or no more can visits with grandma.

You don’t get to make the rules when it’s Dads week.

Put the child first, not the parents.

This. Poor kid is bounced around from Dad to Grandma and Grandma doesn't even want her talking to her own mother once a day. That's just not right. Shame on Grandma and Dad.

[Anonymous]

Absurd, and I would not agree. If the child wants to speak to her mother - and I'm sure she does - it is absolutely not the MIL's place to deny her that. What a horrible person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Absurd, and I would not agree. If the child wants to speak to her mother - and I'm sure she does - it is absolutely not the MIL's place to deny her that. What a horrible person.

^ Ex-MIL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You MIL is out of line to expect her grandchild have no contact with her MOTHER for a week. That’s outrageous and I’d shit that down now or no more can visits with grandma.

You don’t get to make the rules when it’s Dads week.

Put the child first, not the parents.

This. Poor kid is bounced around from Dad to Grandma and Grandma doesn't even want her talking to her own mother once a day. That's just not right. Shame on Grandma and Dad.

+1 The kid is 7 years old! Let her talk to her mother. ex MIL is way way out of line.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's unacceptable. The kids should have access to both parents at all times.

+ 1 absurd to think otherwise

If the kid wants to call Mom, fine. Mom can not just demand time with the kid anymore than Dad can when it’s not his week. If the roles were reversed, people here would be telling Dad to stop calling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's unacceptable. The kids should have access to both parents at all times.

+ 1 absurd to think otherwise

If the kid wants to call Mom, fine. Mom can not just demand time with the kid anymore than Dad can when it’s not his week. If the roles were reversed, people here would be telling Dad to stop calling.

PP here. Nope, not me. I think it's very sad the way some parents view divorce, and moving on, and "their" rights, etc. Kids are left to "just deal." It's wrong and not in their best interests.