Is it cheating to have a conference husband?

[Anonymous]

Oh please she's not going to run off with the guy. enjoy yourself, sometimes you need it.

[Anonymous]

How would you feel if DH was present? That is your answer.

[Anonymous]

If you can't tell your DH about this "boozy, flirty" dinner, it is cheating. You are going out on a date with this guy. And you know it.

Cheater.

[Anonymous]

You might fall for him one of these years... he might get harder to shake off from your mind after you return to your normal life. Then what?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You already made your decision to sleep with him next month. You realize that, no?

I'm not sure he would sleep with me. This has been going on for a few years and he hasn't tried to take it to that next step (nor have I). He's married too, and not a leering and lecherous guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You already made your decision to sleep with him next month. You realize that, no?

I'm not sure he would sleep with me. This has been going on for a few years and he hasn't tried to take it to that next step (nor have I). He's married too, and not a leering and lecherous guy.

Well then enjoy your time and don't overanalzye it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You might fall for him one of these years... he might get harder to shake off from your mind after you return to your normal life. Then what?

OP here. Hasn't happened so far. I'm not as worried about the slippery slope as everyone else seems to be. If we were pouring our hearts out to each other the rest of the year, I agree it is more dangerous. But we seem to have an understanding that it is only for that one week.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's cheating. Life is short, what are you suggesting her to do, hide in her room drinking alone? She's having fun with good drinks and conversation.she has a Fantasy maybe but not relevant unless she tries to make a move

[Anonymous]

Grow up and get over your crush. If your husband was behaving the same way you'd be pissed.

[Anonymous]

Sounds fun. Enjoy OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You already made your decision to sleep with him next month. You realize that, no?

This.

[Anonymous]

It's def a crush and telling that you haven't told your dh of this guys existance.

[Anonymous]

Can't wait for OP to come back and say she slept with him. "But it just . . . happened!"

Don't say you weren't warned.

[Anonymous]

OP, if you are so convinced that nothing is wrong with you are doing, and that we are all going too far in what we think, why even ask the question? If you are certain that it isn't cheating and you are certain you are not doing anything wrong, why even post this thread?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have a crush. Cut contact, and certainly don't go out to any boozy dinners. Fix your marriage. You're not in your 20s and single, and that's a good thing. So much you could lose, and not much at all to gain in the long term, ESPECIALLY if there are kids involved on either side.

OP here. Yes, it's a crush. I don't think a crush is as dangerous as you think it is. It's not like I'm in love or anything. It's a crush.

Crush + drinks + out of town = opportunity = huge mess down the road. PLEASE do not continue down that road.