Who are all these people getting divorced?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People with graduate degrees who get married for the first time after the age of thirty only have a fifteen percent chance of getting divorced.

Hmmm, interesting.
This might be why our circle is (so far) divorce free.

[Anonymous]

When your kids are in high school or college lots divorce. The men that are the most financially successful are often the first ones to divorce and/or cheat.

[Anonymous]

Most CEO's are divorced and multiple wives.

[Anonymous]

Jim Edmonds on his third wife at age 44 with 4 kids and a 30 year old wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old are you? The first wave of divorces come between 35 and 45.

LOL. In my group, the first wave of marriages happened between 35 and 45. I'm guessing the first wave of divorces will happen after kids go to college -- which will be when people are in their 60s!

[Anonymous]

My BIL and SIL are divorcing. They are both early 40's, got married in their late 20's. It makes me sad. I can see both sides, but I really think if SIL understood how important it is for men to feel appreciated, this could be avoided. BIL says he feels like an underappreciated employee and it's not hard to imagine, knowing SIL.

They're the only ones in my circle so far.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People with graduate degrees who get married for the first time after the age of thirty only have a fifteen percent chance of getting divorced.

I couldn't find the data to support this assertion of 15%. Do you have a source? The Bureau of Labor Statistics doesn't quantify using these categories at this time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People with graduate degrees who get married for the first time after the age of thirty only have a fifteen percent chance of getting divorced.

Can you post any links on this? I grew up hearing the 50% statistic and frankly, it factored into my decision to wait until my mid-thirties. I was surprised when I first heard the gigantic discrepancies on divorce rates based on educational level, religious affiliation, age, etc. I don't think it's helpful to group everyone together because it skews perception.

[Anonymous]

OP, my circle is mid to upper 30's, with kids late preschool and elementary. Maybe 60% have graduate degrees, UMC.

[Anonymous]

17:24 ^^^ is the OP.

[Anonymous]

I know three women that are divorced, they never speak about their divorces and only say they are single. It was only after years of knowing these women that I found out they had been married before. No kids came from these unions so it's easy to pretend they never happened.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know three women that are divorced, they never speak about their divorces and only say they are single. It was only after years of knowing these women that I found out they had been married before. No kids came from these unions so it's easy to pretend they never happened.

OP here. You just reminded me that I know 2 people whose husbands were previously married (no kids in first marriage.)

But it so uncommon that it's remarked upon and surprising. Sounds like we are on the young end for divorcing. I thought the statistic was a big chunk of divorces happen in the first 2 years.

[Anonymous]

The men that are the most financially successful are often the first ones to divorce and/or cheat.

Cite, please?

[Anonymous]

Also, the 50% divorce rate includes all marriages. The rate for first marriages is lower, because the rates for second, third, etc. marriages is sky high.

[Anonymous]

I was neither an evangelical or a shot gun wedded 20 year old. I thought I was divorce proof. My husband's mental illness put me and my kids at risk.