Getting out of the friend zone and into...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Why am I disgusting? She’s the one who changed her mind after finding out I’m well endowed. She’s the one who made the first move and made it sexual. It really wasn’t much more than a social experiment on my part.

Meh, trashy girl cheat on her bf with trashy guy. More at 6.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Happened to me once. It really was that I just matured and realized what a good boyfriend he would make. I'd dated the hot but bad guys in college. We dated from 22-24 but then realized our plans for the future were just too different. Met DH a year later and there was no looking back. There was no tricking or anything. He was genuinely a nice guy and for whatever reason didn't give up on wanting to date me.

That isn’t a friend. That is a dude not giving up on trying to bang you.

I feel like these men have never had real friends.

Oh whatever the same could be said of her, it's the basis of nearly every romcom.

No. There is a difference between people who are friends to be friends, and people who keep women in their orbit hoping they can trick them into f***ing.

I don't know who you thought you were replying to, but PP literally said there was no trick.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Happened to me once. It really was that I just matured and realized what a good boyfriend he would make. I'd dated the hot but bad guys in college. We dated from 22-24 but then realized our plans for the future were just too different. Met DH a year later and there was no looking back. There was no tricking or anything. He was genuinely a nice guy and for whatever reason didn't give up on wanting to date me.

That isn’t a friend. That is a dude not giving up on trying to bang you.

I feel like these men have never had real friends.

Oh whatever the same could be said of her, it's the basis of nearly every romcom.

No. There is a difference between people who are friends to be friends, and people who keep women in their orbit hoping they can trick them into f***ing.

I don't know who you thought you were replying to, but PP literally said there was no trick.

“He never stopped trying to date me” is not a friend. Trick or no trick. Just saying, that wasn’t someone who was a friend, it was someone who was actively pursuing a romantic relationship. Not a friend ship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe this needs to be said, but if you have to convince, trick, coerce, browbeat, intoxicate or otherwise to get someone to sleep with you, it’s rape.

If you are only friends with women because you think you can f*** them, definitely do us all a favor and leave us alone. Women want actual friends, not fake losers who have to trick women into sleeping with them.

She wasn’t tricked. She found out I had a big d and wanted to sleep with me. And she made it happen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Happened to me once. It really was that I just matured and realized what a good boyfriend he would make. I'd dated the hot but bad guys in college. We dated from 22-24 but then realized our plans for the future were just too different. Met DH a year later and there was no looking back. There was no tricking or anything. He was genuinely a nice guy and for whatever reason didn't give up on wanting to date me.

That isn’t a friend. That is a dude not giving up on trying to bang you.

I feel like these men have never had real friends.

Oh whatever the same could be said of her, it's the basis of nearly every romcom.

No. There is a difference between people who are friends to be friends, and people who keep women in their orbit hoping they can trick them into f***ing.

I don't know who you thought you were replying to, but PP literally said there was no trick.

“He never stopped trying to date me” is not a friend. Trick or no trick. Just saying, that wasn’t someone who was a friend, it was someone who was actively pursuing a romantic relationship. Not a friend ship.

DP. He “didn’t give up on wanting to date” is not necessarily active pursuit. Just leaving the door open to possibility.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe this needs to be said, but if you have to convince, trick, coerce, browbeat, intoxicate or otherwise to get someone to sleep with you, it’s rape.

If you are only friends with women because you think you can f*** them, definitely do us all a favor and leave us alone. Women want actual friends, not fake losers who have to trick women into sleeping with them.

Where is anyone discussing any of those things on this thread?

[Anonymous]

It’s happened a few times for me but it was in my 20’s and maybe the girls I was friends with didn’t fully cement me into the role of friend. The jailbreak was never my idea, the girls made the first move, I was just being my fun self and never tried anything even while drinking or sharing a bed. They were all in the same friend group so maybe it was a competition thing. I married one of them btw, we were friends for 5 years with only one drunk kiss that happened early on.

I’m handsome and charming but I know I’m powerless against the friend title unless she resets it. Just be you, don’t be self serving, be a real friend without looking for more, don’t try to help her through a breakup, don’t dump your emotions on her, it is repelling and you’ll lose what could be an amazing friend.

You can’t get yourself out of the friend zone, it has to be their idea so don’t bother trying,

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s happened a few times for me but it was in my 20’s and maybe the girls I was friends with didn’t fully cement me into the role of friend. The jailbreak was never my idea, the girls made the first move, I was just being my fun self and never tried anything even while drinking or sharing a bed. They were all in the same friend group so maybe it was a competition thing. I married one of them btw, we were friends for 5 years with only one drunk kiss that happened early on.

I’m handsome and charming but I know I’m powerless against the friend title unless she resets it. Just be you, don’t be self serving, be a real friend without looking for more, don’t try to help her through a breakup, don’t dump your emotions on her, it is repelling and you’ll lose what could be an amazing friend.

You can’t get yourself out of the friend zone, it has to be their idea so don’t bother trying,

The previous poster above figured out a way out. Lol.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just no. Leave her alone. Why isn’t she good enough as a friend?

She might be good enough as a friend, but if the attraction is strong and the affection is genuine, staying just friends can be tough.

But if you know you’re not compatible then you are just wasting everyones time and energy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Why? This is how it's done.

What’s the tricking part. You’re not XL?

Can I just note here that not every woman seeks out that sort of size. We're all made differently and some of us need smaller sizes. Just in case another man reading this gets some weird idea that leaving a box of XL condoms lying around is a selling point for all women...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Why? This is how it's done.

What’s the tricking part. You’re not XL?

Can I just note here that not every woman seeks out that sort of size. We're all made differently and some of us need smaller sizes. Just in case another man reading this gets some weird idea that leaving a box of XL condoms lying around is a selling point for all women...

Of course not. The woman from the story above was probably just young, horny and knew she couldn’t get caught or word wouldn’t get out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe this needs to be said, but if you have to convince, trick, coerce, browbeat, intoxicate or otherwise to get someone to sleep with you, it’s rape.

If you are only friends with women because you think you can f*** them, definitely do us all a favor and leave us alone. Women want actual friends, not fake losers who have to trick women into sleeping with them.

So the woman is “tricked” into sex by a box of large condoms laying around ? Seems she is as shallow as PP if that is all it takes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Don’t worry, it’s a fake story. Women don’t magically want to sleep with men just because they see large condoms.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Happened to me once. It really was that I just matured and realized what a good boyfriend he would make. I'd dated the hot but bad guys in college. We dated from 22-24 but then realized our plans for the future were just too different. Met DH a year later and there was no looking back. There was no tricking or anything. He was genuinely a nice guy and for whatever reason didn't give up on wanting to date me.

That isn’t a friend. That is a dude not giving up on trying to bang you.

I feel like these men have never had real friends.

Oh whatever the same could be said of her, it's the basis of nearly every romcom.

No. There is a difference between people who are friends to be friends, and people who keep women in their orbit hoping they can trick them into f***ing.

I don't know who you thought you were replying to, but PP literally said there was no trick.

“He never stopped trying to date me” is not a friend. Trick or no trick. Just saying, that wasn’t someone who was a friend, it was someone who was actively pursuing a romantic relationship. Not a friend ship.

DP. He “didn’t give up on wanting to date” is not necessarily active pursuit. Just leaving the door open to possibility.

I'm the PP. I probably should have worded it better. It was just leaving the door open. He dated other people in the time we were friends. It's not like he was constantly hitting on me or asking me out. He was just there, being a good guy and friends and eventually I realized how great a boyfriend he would be. Just meant I was surprised that he actually still wanted to date me after being friend zoned for so long and was still interested in me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Don’t worry, it’s a fake story. Women don’t magically want to sleep with men just because they see large condoms.

I’m the PP who posted that story and its 100% true. Looking back, its not my finest moment but it is true. And, I’ll add she was 24 so being young and curious may have had something to do with it.