Getting out of the friend zone and into...

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is a lot of risk moving beyond the friend zone but if you know someone really well it can be worth the risk. Most relationships start out hot and then fade once you get to really know someone. We took the risk of moving out of the friends zone and once we realized that we were very sexually compatible it became a very easy relationship. It did help that he had briefly dated a good friend of mine who freely described her sex life so I was intrigued.


What did she share that helped pique your interest?


Let's just say he was like the Energizer bunny!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is a lot of risk moving beyond the friend zone but if you know someone really well it can be worth the risk. Most relationships start out hot and then fade once you get to really know someone. We took the risk of moving out of the friends zone and once we realized that we were very sexually compatible it became a very easy relationship. It did help that he had briefly dated a good friend of mine who freely described her sex life so I was intrigued.


What did she share that helped pique your interest?


Let's just say he was like the Energizer bunny!


Hahaha! Or the Energizer Donkey! 🫏
Anonymous
I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.
Anonymous
In my mid 20s I had a guy friend who was definitely just a friend but we’d periodically go on trips together, share a room and have sex. This went on for a couple of years and except for the trips we stayed in the friend zone. Neither of us ever said anything about wanting more. Looking back it was a pretty weird relationship and he wasn’t a FWB. 20 years later he is still a friend but we never talk about the trips.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.

Rapists have no shame I guess.
Anonymous
I have female friends but generally they cannot match my male friends in terms of sense of humor. The women aren't funny meme is kind of true. Women are better than men on other things but being funny ain't one.

Being good platonic friends is a lot about sense of humor, easy banter, and outlook.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.

Rapists have no shame I guess.


BS. Just because she had too much to drink to be able to drive home doesn’t mean she didn’t know exactly what was going on. If you read closer, SHE was the one making sexual comments. She knew exactly what she was doing.
Anonymous
I didn't rape anybody. Saying that is borderline nuts. The woman said she didn't want to drive home. That doesn't mean she couldn't consent to sex. I offered the couch. She asked to sleep in my bed and then told me she wanted to have sex. And in the morning she wanted to do it again. And when she saw me a few weeks later she said she wanted to do it again. A year later, when she got a serious BF, she said she wanted to introduce me and said she had told him about our night together.

Lots of people drink before consensual sex

Accusing me of rape in that totally ordinary situation is insulting to me but it's also is bad for actual victims of rape. People shouldn't throw around accusations like that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I didn't rape anybody. Saying that is borderline nuts. The woman said she didn't want to drive home. That doesn't mean she couldn't consent to sex. I offered the couch. She asked to sleep in my bed and then told me she wanted to have sex. And in the morning she wanted to do it again. And when she saw me a few weeks later she said she wanted to do it again. A year later, when she got a serious BF, she said she wanted to introduce me and said she had told him about our night together.

Lots of people drink before consensual sex

Accusing me of rape in that totally ordinary situation is insulting to me but it's also is bad for actual victims of rape. People shouldn't throw around accusations like that.

You need to learn what consent is. How many other women have you raped?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I didn't rape anybody. Saying that is borderline nuts. The woman said she didn't want to drive home. That doesn't mean she couldn't consent to sex. I offered the couch. She asked to sleep in my bed and then told me she wanted to have sex. And in the morning she wanted to do it again. And when she saw me a few weeks later she said she wanted to do it again. A year later, when she got a serious BF, she said she wanted to introduce me and said she had told him about our night together.

Lots of people drink before consensual sex

Accusing me of rape in that totally ordinary situation is insulting to me but it's also is bad for actual victims of rape. People shouldn't throw around accusations like that.

You need to learn what consent is. How many other women have you raped?


Poor reading comprehension right there, or a lefty troll.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.

Rapists have no shame I guess.


BS. Just because she had too much to drink to be able to drive home doesn’t mean she didn’t know exactly what was going on. If you read closer, SHE was the one making sexual comments. She knew exactly what she was doing.

You a rapist too? Rapists would be the first ones to defend other rapists. The Brock Turners of the world are so disgusting.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I didn't rape anybody. Saying that is borderline nuts. The woman said she didn't want to drive home. That doesn't mean she couldn't consent to sex. I offered the couch. She asked to sleep in my bed and then told me she wanted to have sex. And in the morning she wanted to do it again. And when she saw me a few weeks later she said she wanted to do it again. A year later, when she got a serious BF, she said she wanted to introduce me and said she had told him about our night together.

Lots of people drink before consensual sex

Accusing me of rape in that totally ordinary situation is insulting to me but it's also is bad for actual victims of rape. People shouldn't throw around accusations like that.

You need to learn what consent is. How many other women have you raped?


Poor reading comprehension right there, or a lefty troll.

So anyone who abhors rape is a liberal? What does that say about people who condone and perform rape? All republicans? Probably not wrong honestly.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.

Rapists have no shame I guess.


BS. Just because she had too much to drink to be able to drive home doesn’t mean she didn’t know exactly what was going on. If you read closer, SHE was the one making sexual comments. She knew exactly what she was doing.

You a rapist too? Rapists would be the first ones to defend other rapists. The Brock Turners of the world are so disgusting.


Your reading comprehension is as poor as your lefty friend.
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