Getting out of the friend zone and into...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Don’t worry, it’s a fake story. Women don’t magically want to sleep with men just because they see large condoms.

I’m the PP who posted that story and its 100% true. Looking back, its not my finest moment but it is true. And, I’ll add she was 24 so being young and curious may have had something to do with it.

How many posts are you going to make about your size? *yawn*

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Don’t worry, it’s a fake story. Women don’t magically want to sleep with men just because they see large condoms.

I’m the PP who posted that story and its 100% true. Looking back, its not my finest moment but it is true. And, I’ll add she was 24 so being young and curious may have had something to do with it.

How many posts are you going to make about your size? *yawn*

Well, its an anonymous forum so not sure what I get out of it, and, I haven’t disclosed my size nor do I plan to.

[Anonymous]

Most guys aren't going to get out of the friend zone by showing a woman a box of magnums and most women aren't going to change their minds based on that. But it still happens.

[Anonymous]

I had a woman tell me she just wanted to be just friends but then she had a health scare and she came over to my place and asked me to hold her. She didn't use any words but she obviously wanted to sleep with me. We did and it was nice. I know she planned it because she was wearing sexy lingerie underneath her regular clothes. That kind of thing happened a few more times when she was under a lot of stress but we never started an exclusive relationship, mostly because I didn't think we were compatible after I got to know her. We still talk once in a while. We actually are just friends at this point, but we have a past history together that's pretty interesting.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Don’t worry, it’s a fake story. Women don’t magically want to sleep with men just because they see large condoms.

I’m the PP who posted that story and its 100% true. Looking back, its not my finest moment but it is true. And, I’ll add she was 24 so being young and curious may have had something to do with it.

How many posts are you going to make about your size? *yawn*

Well, it’s an anonymous forum so not sure what I get out of it, and, I haven’t disclosed my size nor do I plan to.

Dp, but dude, you’ve made at least 3 posts about it. Maybe that’s how you get your jollies on the internet but you should stop :/

[Anonymous]

I was in the friend zone with a guy for about three years and during that time he never gave a hint that he wanted anything more and we were both dating other people. Then we both were “single” but he didn’t try to move out of the friend zone. Later on he said he didn’t want to wreck a nice friendship. So I made the first move and told him I had this great new recipe I wanted to try out on him but his kitchen was nicer so I’d prepare it there. I ended up spending the night and the sex was awesome and we’ve never looked back. That was over 28 years ago. I suppose I could have wrecked the relationship but it was worth taking the risk. I had never been the pursuer before so it was a crazy move on my part.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Don’t worry, it’s a fake story. Women don’t magically want to sleep with men just because they see large condoms.

I’m the PP who posted that story and its 100% true. Looking back, its not my finest moment but it is true. And, I’ll add she was 24 so being young and curious may have had something to do with it.

How many posts are you going to make about your size? *yawn*

I thought the post about the woman rubbing her butt in public was a lot. Can someone educate me? I don’t think I’ve seen this.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Don’t worry, it’s a fake story. Women don’t magically want to sleep with men just because they see large condoms.

I’m the PP who posted that story and its 100% true. Looking back, its not my finest moment but it is true. And, I’ll add she was 24 so being young and curious may have had something to do with it.

How many posts are you going to make about your size? *yawn*

Well, it’s an anonymous forum so not sure what I get out of it, and, I haven’t disclosed my size nor do I plan to.

Dp, but dude, you’ve made at least 3 posts about it. Maybe that’s how you get your jollies on the internet but you should stop :/

DP here, but dude, he was just defending himself after basically being called a troll.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m the guy who posted in the other forum about getting out of the friendzone. I was squarely in the friendzone and she was staying with me for a few days and then going back home. Her bf and friends had even dropped her off at my place and spent the night before heading off on the rest of their trip. She had been hanging out for days didn’t seem to have any interest in me. Plus, she did kinda have a boyfriend.

I guess I kind of tricked her. I set it up where she would happen upon some extra large condoms while going through my things. That night we went out to a clube and when we went to the bar I noticed she was rubbing her booty. Like it was pretty blatant but I had forgotten about the condom thing from earlier. Then when we left and got to my car she prettt much jammed her tongue doen my throat. After that is was on. So, not proud of it because I tricked her but she was a gorgeous girl and was amazing in bed.

Wow. You are disgusting.

Don’t worry, it’s a fake story. Women don’t magically want to sleep with men just because they see large condoms.

I’m the PP who posted that story and its 100% true. Looking back, its not my finest moment but it is true. And, I’ll add she was 24 so being young and curious may have had something to do with it.

How many posts are you going to make about your size? *yawn*

I thought the post about the woman rubbing her butt in public was a lot. Can someone educate me? I don’t think I’ve seen this.

Agreed. Even more troll like…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was in the friend zone with a guy for about three years and during that time he never gave a hint that he wanted anything more and we were both dating other people. Then we both were “single” but he didn’t try to move out of the friend zone. Later on he said he didn’t want to wreck a nice friendship. So I made the first move and told him I had this great new recipe I wanted to try out on him but his kitchen was nicer so I’d prepare it there. I ended up spending the night and the sex was awesome and we’ve never looked back. That was over 28 years ago. I suppose I could have wrecked the relationship but it was worth taking the risk. I had never been the pursuer before so it was a crazy move on my part.

That's a nice story!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Happened to me once. It really was that I just matured and realized what a good boyfriend he would make. I'd dated the hot but bad guys in college. We dated from 22-24 but then realized our plans for the future were just too different. Met DH a year later and there was no looking back. There was no tricking or anything. He was genuinely a nice guy and for whatever reason didn't give up on wanting to date me.

That isn’t a friend. That is a dude not giving up on trying to bang you.

I feel like these men have never had real friends.

PP, you don’t understand. Men have placenta of friends. They don’t need more. Or, if they want more, they seek them out and they’re generally not women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Happened to me once. It really was that I just matured and realized what a good boyfriend he would make. I'd dated the hot but bad guys in college. We dated from 22-24 but then realized our plans for the future were just too different. Met DH a year later and there was no looking back. There was no tricking or anything. He was genuinely a nice guy and for whatever reason didn't give up on wanting to date me.

That isn’t a friend. That is a dude not giving up on trying to bang you.

I feel like these men have never had real friends.

PP, you don’t understand. Men have placenta of friends. They don’t need more. Or, if they want more, they seek them out and they’re generally not women.

Uh right. That’s why there is a “male loneliness epidemic”, because men have too many friends. Bffr.

[Anonymous]

There is a lot of risk moving beyond the friend zone but if you know someone really well it can be worth the risk. Most relationships start out hot and then fade once you get to really know someone. We took the risk of moving out of the friends zone and once we realized that we were very sexually compatible it became a very easy relationship. It did help that he had briefly dated a good friend of mine who freely described her sex life so I was intrigued.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is a lot of risk moving beyond the friend zone but if you know someone really well it can be worth the risk. Most relationships start out hot and then fade once you get to really know someone. We took the risk of moving out of the friends zone and once we realized that we were very sexually compatible it became a very easy relationship. It did help that he had briefly dated a good friend of mine who freely described her sex life so I was intrigued.

How often does this happen?

As I get older, I hear about women "recommending" a guy to their girlfriends based on his past performance.

Whereas when we were younger (20s), women often got jealous or strained the friendship if Girl B was interested in a guy that Girl A previously dated/hooked up with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is a lot of risk moving beyond the friend zone but if you know someone really well it can be worth the risk. Most relationships start out hot and then fade once you get to really know someone. We took the risk of moving out of the friends zone and once we realized that we were very sexually compatible it became a very easy relationship. It did help that he had briefly dated a good friend of mine who freely described her sex life so I was intrigued.

What did she share that helped pique your interest?