Why do people feel entitled to not live with roommates?

[Anonymous]

Home is a private space only to be shared with your loved ones.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s normal to expect a full time job to pay for a separate accommodation (however small) and a car that’s not a beater at least, preferably newish.
I mean why slave away otherwise?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s normal to expect a full time job to pay for a separate accommodation (however small) and a car that’s not a beater at least, preferably newish.
I mean why slave away otherwise?

Well, yeah, but these are not the times we are living in. A full time job used to support a SAHW, kids and vacations.

Meanwhile, the poor have always lived in tenements, boarding houses and even shared bathrooms with entire hallways of strangers.

[Anonymous]

We should pass a law enforcing minimum household sizes or heavily tax single occupancy dwellings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most families only have 1-2 kids now and don't grow up sharing a room. So suddenly having to do so as an adult is a real contrast to the way they were raised.

No one is asking adults to share a room. Roommates mean they're sharing an APARTMENT.

I personally loved roommates in my 20s (for most of my 20s, it was my townhouse and I rented it out to close friends) and then I lived with DH after marriage. I don't think I missed out on anything by not having my own place.

[Anonymous]

Roommates are gross, to start with.

[Anonymous]

We are no-roommate people.
college kids have singles, parent lives alone in 5 bedroom house and I live in a four bedroom.
I’d rather scrimp on something else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s normal to expect a full time job to pay for a separate accommodation (however small) and a car that’s not a beater at least, preferably newish.
I mean why slave away otherwise?

Well, yeah, but these are not the times we are living in. A full time job used to support a SAHW, kids and vacations.

Meanwhile, the poor have always lived in tenements, boarding houses and even shared bathrooms with entire hallways of strangers.

Right, I get it, we can’t expect ownership on two incomes, let alone one. Kids are still debatable.
But a friggin studio and a Toyota Corolla?!

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s normal to expect a full time job to pay for a separate accommodation (however small) and a car that’s not a beater at least, preferably newish.
I mean why slave away otherwise?

Well, yeah, but these are not the times we are living in. A full time job used to support a SAHW, kids and vacations.

Meanwhile, the poor have always lived in tenements, boarding houses and even shared bathrooms with entire hallways of strangers.

The way things are headed, the middle class will soon be doing that too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We should pass a law enforcing minimum household sizes or heavily tax single occupancy dwellings.

Or look at the early years of Soviet Russia, force the rich to give up extra rooms in their homes to house the unhoused!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s normal to expect a full time job to pay for a separate accommodation (however small) and a car that’s not a beater at least, preferably newish.
I mean why slave away otherwise?

Well, yeah, but these are not the times we are living in. A full time job used to support a SAHW, kids and vacations.

Meanwhile, the poor have always lived in tenements, boarding houses and even shared bathrooms with entire hallways of strangers.

The way things are headed, the middle class will soon be doing that too.

Didn’t you hear? Trump is going to sell our pristine federal lands for housing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s normal to expect a full time job to pay for a separate accommodation (however small) and a car that’s not a beater at least, preferably newish.
I mean why slave away otherwise?

Well, yeah, but these are not the times we are living in. A full time job used to support a SAHW, kids and vacations.

Meanwhile, the poor have always lived in tenements, boarding houses and even shared bathrooms with entire hallways of strangers.

The way things are headed, the middle class will soon be doing that too.

Jokes aside I was recently thinking how SFH ownership is not to be expected as part of American dream anymore!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s normal to expect a full time job to pay for a separate accommodation (however small) and a car that’s not a beater at least, preferably newish.
I mean why slave away otherwise?

Well, yeah, but these are not the times we are living in. A full time job used to support a SAHW, kids and vacations.

Meanwhile, the poor have always lived in tenements, boarding houses and even shared bathrooms with entire hallways of strangers.

The way things are headed, the middle class will soon be doing that too.

Didn’t you hear? Trump is going to sell our pristine federal lands for housing.

To China, of course.

[Anonymous]

I only had roommates one year in college. I’ve not had roommates on a much lower salary than 65k. You can always find ways. I don’t trust random people with my person, my pets and my things, and like my own space and quiet.