My partner eyes up other women - am I too sensitive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We all notice the hot girls, we just do. But the rule is "don't get caught looking" as a matter of showing respect to your wife but also denying satisfaction to the young tart.

The fact that you are able to catch him looking means he is an absolute slob and a boor.

All men look. Decent men are discreet, always.

This.

[Anonymous]

Why are you all so insecure in your 40s!
I’m a DW and notice good looking guys, and - I know if they are checking me out.
DH will notice a good looking gal. Sometimes I’ll jokingly comment that I’d do her too
Respect and love your partner always. A glance is just human. Ogling is disrespectful. Know the difference.

[Anonymous]

When he was banging you later that night, he was thinking of her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When he was banging you later that night, he was thinking of her.

You must be a woman. As soon as an attractive woman is out of eyesight they are forgotten. Think of it like a sunset or a piece of art. You admire and then go about your day.

[Anonymous]

I deal with my husband doing this in a creative way - he has a fetish for a certain kind of punishment, and when I catch him ogling I tell him that he will be punished when we get home, and then I carry it out the minute we walk in the door. it turns him on like crazy, and focuses his attention back on me where it belongs. problem solved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone notices attractive people. If he's breaking his neck to ogle it's gross, creepy and very disrespectful.

+1

Disrespectful to the other woman too.

[Anonymous]

Most men learn the art of checking out a hot female without being too obvious. You move your eyes from side to side but keep your head movement limited. It’s so much easier when they are walking straight towards you as you make a head move but keep your eyes on her.

[Anonymous]

I'm a woman and I check out guys. My husband knows. He checks out women. We aren't staring and drooling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everyone notices attractive people. If he's breaking his neck to ogle it's gross, creepy and very disrespectful.

This. He’s embarrassing himself. Sad that he can’t be subtle.

[Anonymous]

I’m a guy. I look at all women and think in my head if they are hot or not. That’s all it is and I don’t continue thinking about them all day if I’m in a relationship and care about my GF.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When he was banging you later that night, he was thinking of her.

I really hope not

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everyone notices attractive people. If he's breaking his neck to ogle it's gross, creepy and very disrespectful.

This. The decent men are so subtle about it, you'd never know they were looking. Your "partner" sounds like a pervy disrespectful piece of shot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We all notice the hot girls, we just do. But the rule is "don't get caught looking" as a matter of showing respect to your wife but also denying satisfaction to the young tart.

The fact that you are able to catch him looking means he is an absolute slob and a boor.

All men look. Decent men are discreet, always.

Decent men don't refer to women as tarts. She didn't get dressed for you old prigs.

[Anonymous]

Disgusting. Get a new partner. I'm often eyed up by gross men 40+ when their partners are right next to them. It feels violating and awful to me and their girlfriends

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Disgusting. Get a new partner. I'm often eyed up by gross men 40+ when their partners are right next to them. It feels violating and awful to me and their girlfriends

+1. Same. Some women are thirsty for attention, but most women would be grossed out by any guy doing this.

If they do it with you, they will do it to you. No thanks.