My partner eyes up other women - am I too sensitive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With my husband, I point out the attractive woman.

My wife does this too. She knows exactly what I like and she's better at spotting them than I am. She will quietly say, "you're missing her." It's fun. I don't point out hot guys to her because it's less obvious to me what she finds hot. So I've asked her to tell me when she sees a guy she likes and I'm often surprised. It's no threat to our relationship at all.

I hope all of you couple lurkers at least try to keep it discreet. I know a couple who does this and it is 100% uncomfortable to watch them checking out young women or to be on the receiving end of their creepy looks.

Like first you’ve got the creepy older guy looking but now his creepy old wife has joined in, too? Good grief.