I am taking the private school magnet decal off my suv because…

[Anonymous]

Rude is low class. Not wanting to spend 40K/year on isn't but should never be mentioned.

Op, your bigger problem is - this woman thought she could discuss things going on in each other's lives. She may think you're a friend. Friends tease. But it's always a slippery slope;

[Anonymous]

I put it on my car so other drivers know why I’m waiting in line and taking this weird route in traffic.

[Anonymous]

You got what you asked for but not exactly what you wanted to get.

[Anonymous]

I think your response was fine. This coworker obviously has certain feelings and trying to engage, even if to explain your priorities (which you don’t owe her), could backfire.

simple “wow” a la Carolyn Hax is always a good one, too, should it come up again!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I put it on my car so other drivers know why I’m waiting in line and taking this weird route in traffic.

Bullshit

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't take the magnet off the car. This woman's comment was ignorant and full of assumptions. If it were me, I'd have responded with, "okay, you do you boo. I love that for you." If she is gonna stalk your car, then she has deep issues that your removal of a decal will not solve.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everyone involved is bad, classic dcum tale.

ding ding ding

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your coworker was rude.

I dont put the decals on bc I'm worried about lunatics with guns.

Yup, it’s a bloodbath out there with all the shootings over which private school peoples’ kids attend.

It must be terrible to go through life with so much irrational fear-based anger controlling you and occupying your mind.

[Anonymous]

We cannot worry about what others think OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, isn't that the point of the magnets? to let people know where your kid goes? marketing/support for the school?

But your coworker was rude, regardless.

+1

You did tell them. And she was rude.

[Anonymous]

Can’t you just back the Benz into a spot so they can’t see the magnet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your coworker was rude.

I dont put the decals on bc I'm worried about lunatics with guns.

Yup, it’s a bloodbath out there with all the shootings over which private school peoples’ kids attend.

It must be terrible to go through life with so much irrational fear-based anger controlling you and occupying your mind.

Word on the street is that there's one school being targeted because another institution hopes to move into the "Big 3." You've been warned.

[Anonymous]

1. I do not find that comment too rude. It's intrusive, certainly, and not something I'd say, but I wouldn't mind if someone said it to me.

2. This is why people don't have stickers on their car - others make too many assumptions. (Also, unless it's magnetic, it looks bad when it weathers and you try to take it off.)

3. If your public school is really bad and moving is out of the question, then I suppose private might make sense. But otherwise it's way too ruinous for what it is, and it does not confer a college admissions advantage. And before someone says special needs, actually my son with complex needs has been better served in public. Now he's going to a good university.

4. But it's wrong to make assumptions, of course. Maybe you have a different, special, situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My coworker mentioned going to vacation with her family this summer and I said thats nice and I mentioned some staycations for my family this year. (I am a single parent which may or may not mean anything). She had the nerve to say “if i could afford to send my child to a $40k school i would go on more expensive trips”. I told her let me get back to my office and walked away. I never told this coworker or anyone at work that my child goes to private. The only way she would know is from my vehicle. Just venting. She caught me off guard.

How will it affect your child if you take it off? Most parents put it on because it helps their child feel connected and like they belong. Maybe for your DC too?

[Anonymous]

Next time say, “I prioritize education over travel.”