Would you leave if your wife cheated?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.

JFC, do you cheat too? To have 5 friends cheating in their marriages is crazy. Like tends to hang with like.

I’m in my 50s and none of my close friends have cheated. Nobody has divorced either.

I truly like all of my friends’ husbands and if one of my friends told me they were cheating I’d tell them I disapprove and would pull back in the friendship.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'd divorce her and tell the kids there's a divorce because mommy is a who-er.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.

Is the 1 a better liar or more manipulative and the husband more beta?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I'd divorce her and tell the kids there's a divorce because mommy is a who-er.

What about if you cheated? Is it okay to tell them they’re is a divorce because daddy is a who-er?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.

JFC, do you cheat too? To have 5 friends cheating in their marriages is crazy. Like tends to hang with like.

I’m in my 50s and none of my close friends have cheated. Nobody has divorced either.

I truly like all of my friends’ husbands and if one of my friends told me they were cheating I’d tell them I disapprove and would pull back in the friendship.

I clearly have more friends groups than you.

1 college
1 neighbor
1 HS friend (yes I’m still friends from HS)
1 my H’s best friends wife but we vacationed together and I was her friend

[Anonymous]

What type of loser would stay with a cheater?? I love my wife and the sex is amazing - she's the perfect person for me. But cheating would totally negate all of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, we are an older couple but if that ever happens, we will go our separate ways. Once the trust is broken, foundation is gone.

+1. Absolutely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.

Is the 1 a better liar or more manipulative and the husband more beta?

I feel like the other 3 really weren’t worth the effort. The 4th was worth it.

One was wealthy and the H got money in the divorce. One was a complete psycho (bipolar), one was probably never gonna stop.

[Anonymous]

Like Borat once said..."if you cheat, I crush you"

[Anonymous]

Would leave. Men cheat because of opportunity. When a woman cheats, she has already moved on.

[Anonymous]

I guess it depends.

I’d like to believe forgiveness is possible. A lot would depend on her level of remorse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would leave. Men cheat because of opportunity. When a woman cheats, she has already moved on.

Was true in my case.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.

JFC, do you cheat too? To have 5 friends cheating in their marriages is crazy. Like tends to hang with like.

I’m in my 50s and none of my close friends have cheated. Nobody has divorced either.

I truly like all of my friends’ husbands and if one of my friends told me they were cheating I’d tell them I disapprove and would pull back in the friendship.

I clearly have more friends groups than you.

1 college
1 neighbor
1 HS friend (yes I’m still friends from HS)
1 my H’s best friends wife but we vacationed together and I was her friend

Yeah. That must be. What an idiot. 1 friend since 3-years old, 5 very close college friends, 3 co-workers of over 20 years, 4 close mom friends, 2 workout buds. No divorces. No cheating. All in our 50s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.

JFC, do you cheat too? To have 5 friends cheating in their marriages is crazy. Like tends to hang with like.

I’m in my 50s and none of my close friends have cheated. Nobody has divorced either.

I truly like all of my friends’ husbands and if one of my friends told me they were cheating I’d tell them I disapprove and would pull back in the friendship.

I clearly have more friends groups than you.

1 college
1 neighbor
1 HS friend (yes I’m still friends from HS)
1 my H’s best friends wife but we vacationed together and I was her friend

Yeah. That must be. What an idiot. 1 friend since 3-years old, 5 very close college friends, 3 co-workers of over 20 years, 4 close mom friends, 2 workout buds. No divorces. No cheating. All in our 50s

And those are only the ones I knew got caught.

In my 30’s my work friends were wildin!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I'd divorce her and tell the kids there's a divorce because mommy is a who-er.

You sound like a great dad. Nothing like damaging your kids so you can get revenge 🙄