I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here: just tried uncles work again and no answer for me. Idk how people got through yesterday but I can't seem to.

Can someone else just call and pretend to be OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OP will seek suggestions and advice but will not follow through to resolution, because as long as the issue is unresolved the drama continues. And she NEEDS that.

I think this is an accurate assessment. She either delays doing something that could resolve the issue, or has some completely lame excuse about why she can't do it. She just wants to continue the drama and angst for as long as possible. Whatever, I'm out.

I don't think it's is quite true. What's really going on, IMO, is that as long as she doesn't know the real answer, she's got a boyfriend. As soon as she finds out he played her, she's alone and single. It's a loneliness thing. BTDT.

Op here: NOPE, not at at all. I am trying to figure this out today because I want this to be done. Trying to call uncle for some damn answers but can't get through. I think he's gonna be my only hope at answers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, did he seem depressed at all? I hate to mention this as a possibility but could he have committed suicide out there at the cabin? I think you should definitely make it a priority to talk to the sheriff and fill out a missing person's report.

Op here: im not getting into a lot of details now that some know his family info but yes, he had been going through some things regarding his grandfathers health that has really been effecting him a lot. So even though he is a "jerk" or "liar" like some are saying, I am still concerned that something could have happened.

He is a jerk and a liar! Don't put quotes around that. Stop defending him. Dang!

WHO CARES IF SOMETHING HAPPENED???? WHY DO YOU CARE???

HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU! DO YOU THINK HE GIVES A DAMN IF YOU'RE ALIVE OR NOT? DO YOU THINK HE'S WONDERING IF YOU NEED HELP WITH SOMETHING, WITH ALL YOUR DESPERATE PHONE CALLS? NO. YOU ARE JUST A SOURCE OF ENTERTAINMENT TO HIM. MOST OF DCUM CARES MORE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS THAN THIS GUY DOES.

DO THE CAPS HELP GET THINGS THROUGH TO YOU?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here: just tried uncles work again and no answer for me. Idk how people got through yesterday but I can't seem to.

Can someone else just call and pretend to be OP?

Op here: If someone would like to call and ask about his nephew,
Go for it. No one answers when I call

[Anonymous]

I think the OP should ask for a well-being check on the boyfriend because God forbid if something happened to him she wouldn't want the family suing her for sitting around doing nothing except entertaining us on the internet while her boyfriend met with harm somewhere. She needs to raise the alarm with the authorities. The other possibility is that she'll be seen as a suspect if she does nothing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the OP should ask for a well-being check on the boyfriend because God forbid if something happened to him she wouldn't want the family suing her for sitting around doing nothing except entertaining us on the internet while her boyfriend met with harm somewhere. She needs to raise the alarm with the authorities. The other possibility is that she'll be seen as a suspect if she does nothing.

Op: well I was in NYC with my family from Saturday morning to Sunday night so i wouldn't be a suspect
For long

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OP will seek suggestions and advice but will not follow through to resolution, because as long as the issue is unresolved the drama continues. And she NEEDS that.

I think this is an accurate assessment. She either delays doing something that could resolve the issue, or has some completely lame excuse about why she can't do it. She just wants to continue the drama and angst for as long as possible. Whatever, I'm out.

I don't think it's is quite true. What's really going on, IMO, is that as long as she doesn't know the real answer, she's got a boyfriend. As soon as she finds out he played her, she's alone and single. It's a loneliness thing. BTDT.

Op here: NOPE, not at at all. I am trying to figure this out today because I want this to be done. Trying to call uncle for some damn answers but can't get through. I think he's gonna be my only hope at answers.

You need to reconcile to the fact that there probably aren't going to be any answers. He just wasn't that into you. That's the explanation.

[Anonymous]

OP, the bottom line is you need to fill out a missing person's report. Eventually (weeks? months?) someone else is going to realize he's missing and you're going to look mighty suspicious for not reporting it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the OP should ask for a well-being check on the boyfriend because God forbid if something happened to him she wouldn't want the family suing her for sitting around doing nothing except entertaining us on the internet while her boyfriend met with harm somewhere. She needs to raise the alarm with the authorities. The other possibility is that she'll be seen as a suspect if she does nothing.

Op: well I was in NYC with my family from Saturday morning to Sunday night so i wouldn't be a suspect
For long

Yeah? Maybe you hired someone to hurt him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OP will seek suggestions and advice but will not follow through to resolution, because as long as the issue is unresolved the drama continues. And she NEEDS that.

I think this is an accurate assessment. She either delays doing something that could resolve the issue, or has some completely lame excuse about why she can't do it. She just wants to continue the drama and angst for as long as possible. Whatever, I'm out.

I don't think it's is quite true. What's really going on, IMO, is that as long as she doesn't know the real answer, she's got a boyfriend. As soon as she finds out he played her, she's alone and single. It's a loneliness thing. BTDT.

Op here: NOPE, not at at all. I am trying to figure this out today because I want this to be done. Trying to call uncle for some damn answers but can't get through. I think he's gonna be my only hope at answers.

You need to reconcile to the fact that there probably aren't going to be any answers. He just wasn't that into you. That's the explanation.

Op here: IM not gonna beg the uncle to tell me why he did this....I just wanna know if he's home and ok and if he is, that's that and we found out he just f'ed me over.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OP will seek suggestions and advice but will not follow through to resolution, because as long as the issue is unresolved the drama continues. And she NEEDS that.

I think this is an accurate assessment. She either delays doing something that could resolve the issue, or has some completely lame excuse about why she can't do it. She just wants to continue the drama and angst for as long as possible. Whatever, I'm out.

I don't think it's is quite true. What's really going on, IMO, is that as long as she doesn't know the real answer, she's got a boyfriend. As soon as she finds out he played her, she's alone and single. It's a loneliness thing. BTDT.

Op here: NOPE, not at at all. I am trying to figure this out today because I want this to be done. Trying to call uncle for some damn answers but can't get through. I think he's gonna be my only hope at answers.

You need to reconcile to the fact that there probably aren't going to be any answers. He just wasn't that into you. That's the explanation.

DING! DING! DING! That's all there is to it.

[Anonymous]

Alright. I have to step away. If something big happens, someone start a new thread.

[Anonymous]

We're going to see OP on an ID Discovery show within a year.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OP will seek suggestions and advice but will not follow through to resolution, because as long as the issue is unresolved the drama continues. And she NEEDS that.

I think this is an accurate assessment. She either delays doing something that could resolve the issue, or has some completely lame excuse about why she can't do it. She just wants to continue the drama and angst for as long as possible. Whatever, I'm out.

I don't think it's is quite true. What's really going on, IMO, is that as long as she doesn't know the real answer, she's got a boyfriend. As soon as she finds out he played her, she's alone and single. It's a loneliness thing. BTDT.

Op here: NOPE, not at at all. I am trying to figure this out today because I want this to be done. Trying to call uncle for some damn answers but can't get through. I think he's gonna be my only hope at answers.

You need to reconcile to the fact that there probably aren't going to be any answers. He just wasn't that into you. That's the explanation.

Op here: IM not gonna beg the uncle to tell me why he did this....I just wanna know if he's home and ok and if he is, that's that and we found out he just f'ed me over.

OP, do you really need the Uncle to tell you that though? You messaged him on FB yesterday. You sent him a friend request that he declined. I don't think he's a good bet for answers.
Just do a wellness check. That will tell you all you need to know, enough for you to stop putting liar and jerk in quotes at least. You shouldn't feel embarrassed by the wellness check, just do it. People do it all the time.

[Anonymous]

Sigh. OP, I know this is your life and this isn't entertainment to you, but I have to say, no other thread is going to be nearly as interesting.

Soon it'll be back to discussions of sleep schedules and someone saw some kid misbehave at the park and the mom didn't step in, and that mcmansion is so ugly, etc.