Is "sugar" a thing in DMV upper class?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The love of my life was a southern gal who always was saying "give me some sugar"!!!!!!. God, I miss her.

Love it. I would swoon/ still long for a man that calls me sugar.

Also, I am 50, married with kids and still looking for a sugar daddy. LOL at this point I guess he'd be in his 80s or a reverse Sugar Daddy who is a below 40 year old tech tycoon type. Someone who does not want kids or marriage and I would be a non-threatening good time. All of this is fantasy, obviously. Now if only I can get DH to call me sugah!

[Anonymous]

Yes it is a thing. My ex had a sugar baby. She lived rent and bill free for their 4 year relationship and was flat broke when she left him. Didnt even finish school. She purchased Gucci and jewelry the entire time instead of paying tuition or buying her own house.

[Anonymous]

There is literally a book about DC and sugar babies. It’s called Washingtionne. It’s super common and always has been.

[Anonymous]

It’s is, but I think in this region it is more of power play for woman than a money play.

[Anonymous]

I live within a close radius of all the DC schools and match with students at least 2-3 times a week. About once every six months, someone comes straight into the conversation with the sugar rate she expects. About once a month it’s more along the lines of “I’m on here to be spoiled.” The rest is just like normal dating where I pay for nice dinners and then we have sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes it is a thing. My ex had a sugar baby. She lived rent and bill free for their 4 year relationship and was flat broke when she left him. Didnt even finish school. She purchased Gucci and jewelry the entire time instead of paying tuition or buying her own house.

Omg that’s terrible. Imagine this happening to your DD. The men paying for SB’s are enabling this.

[Anonymous]

There are lots of sugaring in DMV!

For the men who can afford it, they get to have sex with a hot woman and not have to put in the time or effort to woo them and date them. There's not pressure about serious commitment and can extricate oneself at will. Of course, downside would be potential scam artists, extortion, and risk of STIs from someone who is akin to a prostitute.

For the women, money is good and a lot less effort than working a regular job. Of course, downside is having to have sex with men you are not attracted to and obliging on things on normally wouldn't want to do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The love of my life was a southern gal who always was saying "give me some sugar"!!!!!!. God, I miss her.

Love it. I would swoon/ still long for a man that calls me sugar.

Also, I am 50, married with kids and still looking for a sugar daddy. LOL at this point I guess he'd be in his 80s or a reverse Sugar Daddy who is a below 40 year old tech tycoon type. Someone who does not want kids or marriage and I would be a non-threatening good time. All of this is fantasy, obviously. Now if only I can get DH to call me sugah!

This is hilarious. I can totally relate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wealthyish 40s single friend did it a few times. He was a gentleman and took them to dinner, paid for a hotel, but said it was just not worth the money. Sometimes they showed up dressed like high end escorts, and it was embarrassing to be in public with them. An average looking middle age guy might want a beautiful companion, but you don't want everyone near you to assume it is an arrangement.

Anything you are ashamed to admit is something you should not do.

That guy won’t own who he us.

Imagine young women dressing like what, in fact, they are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Washingtonienne?

Bingo. I wonder whatever happened to that girl.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I live within a close radius of all the DC schools and match with students at least 2-3 times a week. About once every six months, someone comes straight into the conversation with the sugar rate she expects. About once a month it’s more along the lines of “I’m on here to be spoiled.” The rest is just like normal dating where I pay for nice dinners and then we have sex.

Any relationship or just dinner and sex? How old are you? Are they attractive or average?

[Anonymous]

I’m surprised people do this and wouldn’t rather go out with a 25 year old intern (NOT YOUR INTERN) who would just voluntarily go on interesting dates with a man who was genuinely accomplished.

I feel like a married guy going on a sugar baby date can guarantee that she doesn’t really respect him and neither does his wife. Both women are sneering at you, and you know it. Is that part of the appeal? Or is it just not important? That would make my pecker pout, personally. But I don’t have one so maybe I just don’t get it.

[Anonymous]

How is this not prostitution?

This is no better than the khaki/button down wearing guys picking up the transladies at the gas station in NOMA.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Washingtonienne?

Bingo. I wonder whatever happened to that girl.

She’s still married to her sugar daddy. lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I live within a close radius of all the DC schools and match with students at least 2-3 times a week. About once every six months, someone comes straight into the conversation with the sugar rate she expects. About once a month it’s more along the lines of “I’m on here to be spoiled.” The rest is just like normal dating where I pay for nice dinners and then we have sex.

How do you make this happen? What do you talk about?