Is "sugar" a thing in DMV upper class?

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Anonymous wrote:My h worked in the hill in the 90’s and yes being a sugar daddy and paying for a girlfriend’s apartment was common.

It's how the site Wonkette put its name on the map.

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Anonymous wrote:Oh, you got me to click. I did because I was cooking this morning and ended up with an extra spoonful of granulated sugar that I didn't want to put back into the bin, because it might have a tiny bit of flour in it. I just popped that heaping teaspoon into my mouth. Wow. So delicious. Such a fun childhood memory.

I absolutely recommend it if you haven't done it for a while.

As to your topic; I have never known anyone involved in such an arrangement. No one I associate with has the money to do it. I assume it is a rich person/TV thing.

I thought it was about Domino sugar too. Disappointed.

Me too. My life partner and I had just been discussing how much processed sugar was okay per day for healthy living, and I thought: so topical!

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NP. When I was in college I totally would've gone for an arrangement like this for ~$2k a month. Different people look at it differently but to me, I don't think there's anything undignified about the casual sex & it's decent money for something I would've found less obnoxious than working a more traditional job. Better/fewer hours and more enjoyable. Definitely not for everyone though.

Maybe if the guy is not married but why go for an old married guy that likely has a wife and kids? Just for a little money?

I have some friends who are sugar daddies. You're probably thinking these are balding guys in their 50s who are sloppy and with a huge beer belly. They aren't like that at all. They are all fit, dress well, and are charming. Remember these are successful people in their career, and you usually need to have those characteristics to do well in your career anyway.

Also I've found that women in their early 20s aren't thinking about marriage or long-term, so being married isn't a big deal to them. I've been out at bars and social events and talking to women that age, and when they ask more probing questions like do I have a girlfriend, I point to the ring on my finger. They don't even think to look at that age. Now, talk to a woman in her late 20's or early 30's and they notice it right away.

It's not a big deal to them that are fing a married man for money? Their employer is a a lying cheat and they do not care?

What does age have to do with it? People will take a lot of questionable, shitty jobs for enough money.

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Anonymous wrote:MAN, I thought this was gonna be a thread about the people who don't let their kids eat sugar.

Was gonna reply with:

"Well, we make north of 300K and have BMIs of 18, 20, and 21, and have a steady stream of Coke products, Ding Dongs, and Twizzlers in the house. Get in, losers."

You made me laugh out loud!!!

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NP. When I was in college I totally would've gone for an arrangement like this for ~$2k a month. Different people look at it differently but to me, I don't think there's anything undignified about the casual sex & it's decent money for something I would've found less obnoxious than working a more traditional job. Better/fewer hours and more enjoyable. Definitely not for everyone though.

Maybe if the guy is not married but why go for an old married guy that likely has a wife and kids? Just for a little money?

I have some friends who are sugar daddies. You're probably thinking these are balding guys in their 50s who are sloppy and with a huge beer belly. They aren't like that at all. They are all fit, dress well, and are charming. Remember these are successful people in their career, and you usually need to have those characteristics to do well in your career anyway.

Also I've found that women in their early 20s aren't thinking about marriage or long-term, so being married isn't a big deal to them. I've been out at bars and social events and talking to women that age, and when they ask more probing questions like do I have a girlfriend, I point to the ring on my finger. They don't even think to look at that age. Now, talk to a woman in her late 20's or early 30's and they notice it right away.

I'm 41 and not a SD (though I have dated women who have admitted to being SBs in their past). The part I've bolded is 100% correct. I am in shape with a cool job and high income/nice house and it is significantly easier to meet, date and sleep with women in their early 20s than early 30s, specifically because the earlier age is NOT looking to get married and have kids.

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NP. When I was in college I totally would've gone for an arrangement like this for ~$2k a month. Different people look at it differently but to me, I don't think there's anything undignified about the casual sex & it's decent money for something I would've found less obnoxious than working a more traditional job. Better/fewer hours and more enjoyable. Definitely not for everyone though.

Maybe if the guy is not married but why go for an old married guy that likely has a wife and kids? Just for a little money?

I have some friends who are sugar daddies. You're probably thinking these are balding guys in their 50s who are sloppy and with a huge beer belly. They aren't like that at all. They are all fit, dress well, and are charming. Remember these are successful people in their career, and you usually need to have those characteristics to do well in your career anyway.

Also I've found that women in their early 20s aren't thinking about marriage or long-term, so being married isn't a big deal to them. I've been out at bars and social events and talking to women that age, and when they ask more probing questions like do I have a girlfriend, I point to the ring on my finger. They don't even think to look at that age. Now, talk to a woman in her late 20's or early 30's and they notice it right away.

I'm 41 and not a SD (though I have dated women who have admitted to being SBs in their past). The part I've bolded is 100% correct. I am in shape with a cool job and high income/nice house and it is significantly easier to meet, date and sleep with women in their early 20s than early 30s, specifically because the earlier age is NOT looking to get married and have kids.

If you're not a SD, why do you know so much about how young women think? Are instead cheating?

[Anonymous]

Instead of sugar use honey. All natural . Never expires. Tastes better than sugar (I think). Also, who cares what others do with their money? .

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NP. When I was in college I totally would've gone for an arrangement like this for ~$2k a month. Different people look at it differently but to me, I don't think there's anything undignified about the casual sex & it's decent money for something I would've found less obnoxious than working a more traditional job. Better/fewer hours and more enjoyable. Definitely not for everyone though.

Maybe if the guy is not married but why go for an old married guy that likely has a wife and kids? Just for a little money?

I have some friends who are sugar daddies. You're probably thinking these are balding guys in their 50s who are sloppy and with a huge beer belly. They aren't like that at all. They are all fit, dress well, and are charming. Remember these are successful people in their career, and you usually need to have those characteristics to do well in your career anyway.

Also I've found that women in their early 20s aren't thinking about marriage or long-term, so being married isn't a big deal to them. I've been out at bars and social events and talking to women that age, and when they ask more probing questions like do I have a girlfriend, I point to the ring on my finger. They don't even think to look at that age. Now, talk to a woman in her late 20's or early 30's and they notice it right away.

I'm 41 and not a SD (though I have dated women who have admitted to being SBs in their past). The part I've bolded is 100% correct. I am in shape with a cool job and high income/nice house and it is significantly easier to meet, date and sleep with women in their early 20s than early 30s, specifically because the earlier age is NOT looking to get married and have kids.

If you're not a SD, why do you know so much about how young women think? Are instead cheating?

Because I’ve been on the dating apps for years and have dated, hooked up and even had months long relationships with dozens of them. And become friends with many. We talk and get to know each other. And since I’m single, I’m not cheating and can go on real dates and be out in public at fun events (pre-covid).

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The love of my life was a southern gal who always was saying "give me some sugar"!!!!!!. God, I miss her.

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I thought this was about nose candy.

Def an upper class drug, it’s too expensive for us poors.

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It's such a bummer when people who are not funny try to be funny on this board.

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Anonymous wrote:My wealthyish 40s single friend did it a few times. He was a gentleman and took them to dinner, paid for a hotel, but said it was just not worth the money. Sometimes they showed up dressed like high end escorts, and it was embarrassing to be in public with them. An average looking middle age guy might want a beautiful companion, but you don't want everyone near you to assume it is an arrangement.

Your friend was at the low end of the baby scale. The men in DC generally look for collage grads, interns on the hill, well educated young women.

Where do you find these women?

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Anonymous wrote:My wealthyish 40s single friend did it a few times. He was a gentleman and took them to dinner, paid for a hotel, but said it was just not worth the money. Sometimes they showed up dressed like high end escorts, and it was embarrassing to be in public with them. An average looking middle age guy might want a beautiful companion, but you don't want everyone near you to assume it is an arrangement.

Your friend was at the low end of the baby scale. The men in DC generally look for collage grads, interns on the hill, well educated young women.

Where do you find these women?

Yeah the sugar daddies sure look for intellect rather than kardashain lookalikes

[Anonymous]

A few sugar daddies found me but I'm 40 but not white and hot. Didn't take them up on the offer. They were assertive.

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I was 45 when a date from eharmony offered me to sugar under NDA for a few thousand a month. He was married, good looking lawyer and only a few years older. I declined as I was looking for a relationship.