Are you all cheating with ugly people?

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Previous post was responding to the guy who usually prefers twitter.

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Nope. But I'm the guy who has posted about dating women around 15 years younger than me. That gap will widen as I get older. I have daughters. I raised them right and they don't have daddy issues. The women I date do not have a negative impact on them. They are happy for me. Why can't you be? At least I'm not like most people on this forum, complaining about my sex life or my partner.

Your daughters are definitely going to be the ones with daddy issues. They do or will blame you and the way you view women for their own problems in relationships. And they are definitely embarrassed that you date way below your age and by your own admission have every intention of widening that gap as you age. Seriously - you are middle aged. Accept it and grow up.

I accept that I am middle aged. I also accept that I can date younger women, as is my preference. I know that makes some of you women crazy. Sorry for that-not sorry. My daughters have no such issues and they are not at all embarrassed. They are happy for me. As I said, I've dated 15 years younger, not their age and not women in their 20s.

Good for you, though it sucks for the 20 year old who gets your saggy balls. I hope you are paying them well. Girls with daddy issues and girls who have been sex workers or in the sex trade are pretty good in bed, according to Howard Stern. Also, you are in very good company. Look at the person in WH right now.

It took saggy balls lady 9 pages to finally post? Howard, if you eve listened to his show, is the last guy who would know anything about it. He was married forever, dated a few women for a short time after he got divorced (non of them strippers or sex workers) then got married again after a years-long relationship. Also, where is your reading comprehension? I said I was NOT getting with 20 year olds, not that I wouldn't. That was another poster who is probably a lot younger than me. I know you'd like to think that the only reason a woman 15 years or so my junior would date me is because I pay her, or she is really messed up in the head. Think what you want but you must really hate women. And balls. Speaking of, mine are unusually tight and firm, thank you. Unlike what gets drug across your face when husband climbs over you in bed. It sounds like you have some kind of ODST, otherwise known as, obsessive saggy scrotal trauma. Tell us about it. Maybe we can help.

Go back to Twitter!

I don't have a Twitter account, or Instagram so I don't even know what you mean. But I'll take it as an insult of that's how you mean it.

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Anonymous wrote:^ I’m not the PP you are responding to, but are you proud of yourself for your crass and immature response? It’s now very clear why you are seeking to date much younger women - you are obviously trying to find people of your own maturity level. I’m sure women your own age would have no interest ina conversation with you.

I don't write well enough to be proud of it. As for, crass and immature? It's an online forum. Enough said. I do like the maturity level of the women I date and I have a lot of fun with that age range although they are still middle aged, typically divorced, and have older children so I'm not sure how much more mature they need to be. As for women my age not wanting me? You have no idea. If I put my profile up on a dating site with my real age, it's scary how many women my age contact me. That's OK, there are very few women my age who can hold my interest. Sorry, I know that's a hard truth for you. You better cling to your marriage and make sure your husband is satisfied in bed because that's what it's like out there for "women my age." Is that immature and crass enough for you?

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Anonymous wrote:^ I’m not the PP you are responding to, but are you proud of yourself for your crass and immature response? It’s now very clear why you are seeking to date much younger women - you are obviously trying to find people of your own maturity level. I’m sure women your own age would have no interest ina conversation with you.

I don't write well enough to be proud of it. As for, crass and immature? It's an online forum. Enough said. I do like the maturity level of the women I date and I have a lot of fun with that age range although they are still middle aged, typically divorced, and have older children so I'm not sure how much more mature they need to be. As for women my age not wanting me? You have no idea. If I put my profile up on a dating site with my real age, it's scary how many women my age contact me. That's OK, there are very few women my age who can hold my interest. Sorry, I know that's a hard truth for you. You better cling to your marriage and make sure your husband is satisfied in bed because that's what it's like out there for "women my age." Is that immature and crass enough for you?

wow, this is unbelievable.

I guess women have no worth except for the sex they bring to a man in a relationship. Maybe women have worth if they are young and if they offer sex, otherwise nada. How about those daughters of yours? Do they have any value to a man besides being young and offer sex?

This is the jist of a lot of what gets posted on these forums by men....divorce a wife after kids leave home because of sex, have AP's for sex until kids leave home, date younger women because of better looks/sex.

Is there any other narrative from men? Should women just give up anything else in their lives and just focus on sex? Why go to college, just study how to make sure your partner has great sex and that's it.

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Anonymous wrote:^ I’m not the PP you are responding to, but are you proud of yourself for your crass and immature response? It’s now very clear why you are seeking to date much younger women - you are obviously trying to find people of your own maturity level. I’m sure women your own age would have no interest ina conversation with you.

I don't write well enough to be proud of it. As for, crass and immature? It's an online forum. Enough said. I do like the maturity level of the women I date and I have a lot of fun with that age range although they are still middle aged, typically divorced, and have older children so I'm not sure how much more mature they need to be. As for women my age not wanting me? You have no idea. If I put my profile up on a dating site with my real age, it's scary how many women my age contact me. That's OK, there are very few women my age who can hold my interest. Sorry, I know that's a hard truth for you. You better cling to your marriage and make sure your husband is satisfied in bed because that's what it's like out there for "women my age." Is that immature and crass enough for you?

wow, this is unbelievable.

I guess women have no worth except for the sex they bring to a man in a relationship. Maybe women have worth if they are young and if they offer sex, otherwise nada. How about those daughters of yours? Do they have any value to a man besides being young and offer sex?

This is the jist of a lot of what gets posted on these forums by men....divorce a wife after kids leave home because of sex, have AP's for sex until kids leave home, date younger women because of better looks/sex.

Is there any other narrative from men? Should women just give up anything else in their lives and just focus on sex? Why go to college, just study how to make sure your partner has great sex and that's it.

I wouldn’t get all worked up. If he only values women for sex then he is most likely shallow and very superficial. He will never have close relationships or fall in love. Or maybe he was married for years and now just wants sex for a while? I agree that the younger women he sleeps with most likely have issues. If anything he is wasting their time. But besides that I’m not sure what the problem is?

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^doesn't it seem like so many men on here post this kind of crap? I don't think he's the only one saying things like you better keep your husbands happy with sex otherwise....

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Anonymous wrote:^doesn't it seem like so many men on here post this kind of crap? I don't think he's the only one saying things like you better keep your husbands happy with sex otherwise....

Guess what? Men really enjoy sex. It makes a relationship really worth it. Physical appearance is important. If that’s news to you, you need to get out more.

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Anonymous wrote:^doesn't it seem like so many men on here post this kind of crap? I don't think he's the only one saying things like you better keep your husbands happy with sex otherwise....

Guess what? Men really enjoy sex. It makes a relationship really worth it. Physical appearance is important. If that’s news to you, you need to get out more.

i don't know. That statement seemed like a threat to me. I guess you're OK with threatening your spouse. All good for you and good luck to you.

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Anonymous wrote:^doesn't it seem like so many men on here post this kind of crap? I don't think he's the only one saying things like you better keep your husbands happy with sex otherwise....

Guess what? Men really enjoy sex. It makes a relationship really worth it. Physical appearance is important. If that’s news to you, you need to get out more.

A lot of women really like sex too. Count me in.

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Anonymous wrote:^ I’m not the PP you are responding to, but are you proud of yourself for your crass and immature response? It’s now very clear why you are seeking to date much younger women - you are obviously trying to find people of your own maturity level. I’m sure women your own age would have no interest ina conversation with you.

I don't write well enough to be proud of it. As for, crass and immature? It's an online forum. Enough said. I do like the maturity level of the women I date and I have a lot of fun with that age range although they are still middle aged, typically divorced, and have older children so I'm not sure how much more mature they need to be. As for women my age not wanting me? You have no idea. If I put my profile up on a dating site with my real age, it's scary how many women my age contact me. That's OK, there are very few women my age who can hold my interest. Sorry, I know that's a hard truth for you. You better cling to your marriage and make sure your husband is satisfied in bed because that's what it's like out there for "women my age." Is that immature and crass enough for you?

wow, this is unbelievable.

I guess women have no worth except for the sex they bring to a man in a relationship. Maybe women have worth if they are young and if they offer sex, otherwise nada. How about those daughters of yours? Do they have any value to a man besides being young and offer sex?

This is the jist of a lot of what gets posted on these forums by men....divorce a wife after kids leave home because of sex, have AP's for sex until kids leave home, date younger women because of better looks/sex.

Is there any other narrative from men? Should women just give up anything else in their lives and just focus on sex? Why go to college, just study how to make sure your partner has great sex and that's it.

You've learned nothing from what I've posted. No point answering your questions. It's not ALL about sex but if you don't see the importance of sex in a relationship, that relationship is probably in trouble. And it goes for men too.

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^. The way you stated it, it’s all about sex and your statement was threatening to older women that they better keep their men happy sexually or else.

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Man here with a mid-20's AP. It's a bunch of frustrated, frumpy women here harping on you, that's all.

They can't accept that a women in her 20s may prefer an older man to men here age. Go look at the courting rituals of a typical mid-20's guy, and then it's obvious why they have such a preference. Heck, I was just as inept in my 20s when I tried to court women, so nothing has changed I suppose.

So true. It killed me when I was that young that so many women my age went after older guys. Even a few of the girls in high school would only date college aged guys. No I realize just how inept I was back then and I can't blame them at all. It all evens out. I date younger women because I can. Certainly, not all women in my dating age range prefer guys my age, not even most of them. But that still leaves plenty. When I was younger, it sucked to compete with the older guys. I'm sure it sucks just as much for harpies here to know their husbands could so easily replace them with a younger women should their marriage end.

So they have to brand all these women as: nasty, unstable with daddy issues, strippers and sex workers, gold diggers.... It's sad really. Except for maybe daddy issues, which I mentioned, none of the women I've dated were any of those things and no gold digger would target me.

Yep. My AP is in her mid-20s and I was the second person she ever slept with -- the guys her age weren't very good at romancing her she told me. I pay for both of us when we go out, but she's never asked for money and refused it if I offered to help with any expenses. Her parents are divorced, but she talks to her father at least once a day.

I guess some people can't imagine that "normal" women in their 20's without all kinds of issues may date older men...

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Serious question. What does a guy in his late 40s or even 50s have in common with a 20 something, besides sex? I mean, by then you have presumably married and have older kids, are established in a career, etc. Also, do other people assume you are her dad?

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question. What does a guy in his late 40s or even 50s have in common with a 20 something, besides sex? I mean, by then you have presumably married and have older kids, are established in a career, etc. Also, do other people assume you are her dad?

Lotta younger women simply like older men cause they’re more mature more experienced more cultured more stable financially and emotionally more engaging more assertive more confident...list goes on and on. What people presume is irrelevant.

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question. What does a guy in his late 40s or even 50s have in common with a 20 something, besides sex? I mean, by then you have presumably married and have older kids, are established in a career, etc. Also, do other people assume you are her dad?

Are you able to make conversation with people younger than you in social settings, like at office happy hour or cocktail parties? If so, you can probably speak to the same people if you were dating them too.