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Man here with a mid-20's AP. It's a bunch of frustrated, frumpy women here harping on you, that's all.

They can't accept that a women in her 20s may prefer an older man to men here age. Go look at the courting rituals of a typical mid-20's guy, and then it's obvious why they have such a preference. Heck, I was just as inept in my 20s when I tried to court women, so nothing has changed I suppose.[/quote]

So true.  It killed me when I was that young that so many women my age went after older guys.  Even a few of the girls in high school would only date college aged guys.  No I realize just how inept I was back then and I can't blame them at all.  It all evens out.  I date younger women because I can.  Certainly, not all women in my dating age range prefer guys my age, not even most of them.  But that still leaves plenty.  When I was younger, it sucked to compete with the older guys.  I'm sure it sucks just as much for harpies here to know their husbands could so easily replace them with a younger women should their marriage end.

So they have to brand all these women as:  nasty, unstable with daddy issues, strippers and sex workers, gold diggers....  It's sad really.  Except for maybe daddy issues, which I mentioned, none of the women I've dated were any of those things and no gold digger would target me.[/quote]

Yep. My AP is in her mid-20s and I was the second person she ever slept with -- the guys her age weren't very good at romancing her she told me. I pay for both of us when we go out, but she's never asked for money and refused it if I offered to help with any expenses. Her parents are divorced, but she talks to her father at least once a day.

I guess some people can't imagine that "normal" women in their 20's without all kinds of issues may date older men... [/quote]

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