Are you all cheating with ugly people?

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so what I’m hearing is that sex is the most important thing for a man in marriage.

Sex is very important in a relationship, and if that’s some sort of revelation, you’ve been under a rock. Because it’s not news.

Yep ^ This goes for many women too BTW. I would tell them that showing affection is important and to prioritize love for each other.

[Anonymous]

No young person appreciates having sex with a much older person. I can understand a 16 year old girl liking sex with a 32 year old man, however skewed that relationship may be. But someone young wanting to sleep with middle aged or old people? Hell, no.

If these 60 year old men are happy that they are having sex with 25 year old women, they should know that these women are not getting the same joy out of having sex with them. Maybe these women are getting something out of the relationship that a normal, healthy undamaged women with options would not need.

I am sure to a old man sleeping with a younger woman is very pleasurable though, even it is not the same for the younger woman. Ask the women who were made to sleep with Prince Andrew.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No young person appreciates having sex with a much older person. I can understand a 16 year old girl liking sex with a 32 year old man, however skewed that relationship may be. But someone young wanting to sleep with middle aged or old people? Hell, no.

If these 60 year old men are happy that they are having sex with 25 year old women, they should know that these women are not getting the same joy out of having sex with them. Maybe these women are getting something out of the relationship that a normal, healthy undamaged women with options would not need.

I am sure to a old man sleeping with a younger woman is very pleasurable though, even it is not the same for the younger woman. Ask the women who were made to sleep with Prince Andrew.

Same in reverse? No way a young man could possibly enjoy sex with an older woman?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No young person appreciates having sex with a much older person. I can understand a 16 year old girl liking sex with a 32 year old man, however skewed that relationship may be. But someone young wanting to sleep with middle aged or old people? Hell, no.

If these 60 year old men are happy that they are having sex with 25 year old women, they should know that these women are not getting the same joy out of having sex with them. Maybe these women are getting something out of the relationship that a normal, healthy undamaged women with options would not need.

I am sure to a old man sleeping with a younger woman is very pleasurable though, even it is not the same for the younger woman. Ask the women who were made to sleep with Prince Andrew.

Same in reverse? No way a young man could possibly enjoy sex with an older woman?

I don’t think women in their 50s and 60s are having sex with 20 somethings. And yes, I don’t think those men would enjoy it. In fact, I think they would be in for a huge shock when the clothes come off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No young person appreciates having sex with a much older person. I can understand a 16 year old girl liking sex with a 32 year old man, however skewed that relationship may be. But someone young wanting to sleep with middle aged or old people? Hell, no.

If these 60 year old men are happy that they are having sex with 25 year old women, they should know that these women are not getting the same joy out of having sex with them. Maybe these women are getting something out of the relationship that a normal, healthy undamaged women with options would not need.

I am sure to a old man sleeping with a younger woman is very pleasurable though, even it is not the same for the younger woman. Ask the women who were made to sleep with Prince Andrew.

Made to sleep with. Is the discussion about rape and coercion, or is it about adults making dating decisions and being viewed responsible for their own decisions?

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So I appreciate the change in tone of this post. Your previous posts were quite dismissive of women.

I’m personally not threatened by what you wrote as I have no reason to be threatened. Nevertheless your message still remains the same about what’s important in a woman(at least to you). It’s disconcerting but it’s also one man’s view only. Good luck to you in your chase for what you’re looking for.

It's a pretty widely held view. Again, I'm commenting on the sexual part of the relationship because that is the subject of the thread. It's not the only important thing in a relationship, and I'm in a very good relationship right now where we have some very important things in common and the same values, along with a great sex life. She is 14 years younger and We also find that to be perfect.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No young person appreciates having sex with a much older person. I can understand a 16 year old girl liking sex with a 32 year old man, however skewed that relationship may be. But someone young wanting to sleep with middle aged or old people? Hell, no.

If these 60 year old men are happy that they are having sex with 25 year old women, they should know that these women are not getting the same joy out of having sex with them. Maybe these women are getting something out of the relationship that a normal, healthy undamaged women with options would not need.

I am sure to a old man sleeping with a younger woman is very pleasurable though, even it is not the same for the younger woman. Ask the women who were made to sleep with Prince Andrew.

Made to sleep with. Is the discussion about rape and coercion, or is it about adults making dating decisions and being viewed responsible for their own decisions?

Sorry, but you don't speak for young women who like older men. Who are you to call any woman, damaged or unhealthy? Also, WTF does the Prince Andrew thing have to do with this? What a stretch.

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Man here with a mid-20's AP. It's a bunch of frustrated, frumpy women here harping on you, that's all.

They can't accept that a women in her 20s may prefer an older man to men here age. Go look at the courting rituals of a typical mid-20's guy, and then it's obvious why they have such a preference. Heck, I was just as inept in my 20s when I tried to court women, so nothing has changed I suppose.

So true. It killed me when I was that young that so many women my age went after older guys. Even a few of the girls in high school would only date college aged guys. No I realize just how inept I was back then and I can't blame them at all. It all evens out. I date younger women because I can. Certainly, not all women in my dating age range prefer guys my age, not even most of them. But that still leaves plenty. When I was younger, it sucked to compete with the older guys. I'm sure it sucks just as much for harpies here to know their husbands could so easily replace them with a younger women should their marriage end.

So they have to brand all these women as: nasty, unstable with daddy issues, strippers and sex workers, gold diggers.... It's sad really. Except for maybe daddy issues, which I mentioned, none of the women I've dated were any of those things and no gold digger would target me.

Yep. My AP is in her mid-20s and I was the second person she ever slept with -- the guys her age weren't very good at romancing her she told me. I pay for both of us when we go out, but she's never asked for money and refused it if I offered to help with any expenses. Her parents are divorced, but she talks to her father at least once a day.

I guess some people can't imagine that "normal" women in their 20's without all kinds of issues may date older men...

Sorry but normal women in their 20s aren’t banging older married men. Or married men at all for that matter. My 20s aren’t that far in the past, and me and all my friends were into dating unmarried men with the hopes of finding a long term partner.

Being a home wrecker in your 20s is trashy.

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Man here with a mid-20's AP. It's a bunch of frustrated, frumpy women here harping on you, that's all.

They can't accept that a women in her 20s may prefer an older man to men here age. Go look at the courting rituals of a typical mid-20's guy, and then it's obvious why they have such a preference. Heck, I was just as inept in my 20s when I tried to court women, so nothing has changed I suppose.

So true. It killed me when I was that young that so many women my age went after older guys. Even a few of the girls in high school would only date college aged guys. No I realize just how inept I was back then and I can't blame them at all. It all evens out. I date younger women because I can. Certainly, not all women in my dating age range prefer guys my age, not even most of them. But that still leaves plenty. When I was younger, it sucked to compete with the older guys. I'm sure it sucks just as much for harpies here to know their husbands could so easily replace them with a younger women should their marriage end.

So they have to brand all these women as: nasty, unstable with daddy issues, strippers and sex workers, gold diggers.... It's sad really. Except for maybe daddy issues, which I mentioned, none of the women I've dated were any of those things and no gold digger would target me.

Yep. My AP is in her mid-20s and I was the second person she ever slept with -- the guys her age weren't very good at romancing her she told me. I pay for both of us when we go out, but she's never asked for money and refused it if I offered to help with any expenses. Her parents are divorced, but she talks to her father at least once a day.

I guess some people can't imagine that "normal" women in their 20's without all kinds of issues may date older men...

Sorry but normal women in their 20s aren’t banging older married men. Or married men at all for that matter. My 20s aren’t that far in the past, and me and all my friends were into dating unmarried men with the hopes of finding a long term partner.

Being a home wrecker in your 20s is trashy.

And a 20 year old does not enjoy sex with her grandpa!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some things are more important than looks

Not on DCUM.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Man here with a mid-20's AP. It's a bunch of frustrated, frumpy women here harping on you, that's all.

They can't accept that a women in her 20s may prefer an older man to men here age. Go look at the courting rituals of a typical mid-20's guy, and then it's obvious why they have such a preference. Heck, I was just as inept in my 20s when I tried to court women, so nothing has changed I suppose.

So true. It killed me when I was that young that so many women my age went after older guys. Even a few of the girls in high school would only date college aged guys. No I realize just how inept I was back then and I can't blame them at all. It all evens out. I date younger women because I can. Certainly, not all women in my dating age range prefer guys my age, not even most of them. But that still leaves plenty. When I was younger, it sucked to compete with the older guys. I'm sure it sucks just as much for harpies here to know their husbands could so easily replace them with a younger women should their marriage end.

So they have to brand all these women as: nasty, unstable with daddy issues, strippers and sex workers, gold diggers.... It's sad really. Except for maybe daddy issues, which I mentioned, none of the women I've dated were any of those things and no gold digger would target me.

Yep. My AP is in her mid-20s and I was the second person she ever slept with -- the guys her age weren't very good at romancing her she told me. I pay for both of us when we go out, but she's never asked for money and refused it if I offered to help with any expenses. Her parents are divorced, but she talks to her father at least once a day.

I guess some people can't imagine that "normal" women in their 20's without all kinds of issues may date older men...

Sorry but normal women in their 20s aren’t banging older married men. Or married men at all for that matter. My 20s aren’t that far in the past, and me and all my friends were into dating unmarried men with the hopes of finding a long term partner.

Being a home wrecker in your 20s is trashy.

And a 20 year old does not enjoy sex with her grandpa!

It looks so silly. The only older guy I know that dates women in their 20's likes to buy their clothes and dress them. Creepy but then it's more about being able to control them more easily. These relationships are always dysfunctional on some level.

[Anonymous]

^ this photo is so unsettling in so many ways: the age difference, the giant fake boobs, the creepy old guy trying to be cool, not to mention how this is all at a public event, and probably posted on IG for his kids to see.

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Anonymous wrote:^ this photo is so unsettling in so many ways: the age difference, the giant fake boobs, the creepy old guy trying to be cool, not to mention how this is all at a public event, and probably posted on IG for his kids to see.

Why do you think those boobs are fake?

[Anonymous]

Wet vagina solves every problem !

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wet vagina solves every problem !

That is why men don’t sleep with older women !