What do you the most judgemental about?

[Anonymous]

I'm the same PP who is still shocked so many people judge formula feeders but have a better analogy than baby jar food -- what about having an epidural? I think medically it's better for the baby if you don't, just like formula, but yet we don't (I hope!) judge women who choose one because they don't feel they can handle natural.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I judge women who make faces toward other women. Shows their insecurity.

People who don't vaccinate in this day and age. Modern medicine exists for a reason. If you don't like it, move to a country where vaccinations don't exist.

Parents who don't even try to breast feed. Parents who force feed the bottle. If the kids' screaming and kicking and fighting the bottle - guess what? Not every cry is for hunger.

Parents who are irresponsible with their money and more often than not put themselves before the kids. Then complain about the kids as if they thought kids were free.

Women with assymetrical (f'ed up) hair cuts. So out of date - and well, "hickish".

Women who would dare to be in another's face about their choices. They're just asking for a slap (or worse).

And you will be first in line . I'd be happy to oblige!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I judge extended nursing too. Past two (being generous!), you're doing it for you, not for the child. They eat real food now; they can handle regular milk too.

I'm the PP. My DD is 'only' 21 months, so I guess I don't quite make your cut, but trust me - I'm not still nursing for me. I'd be quite happy to be done, but my daughter has a different opinion on the subject. Since it makes her happy, I've never seen any studies to show extended nursing is detrimental to kids, and I HAVE seen studies saying it's beneficial, it seems a bit selfish to cut her off just because I'm ready to be done. And yes - she eats real food, and drinks milk. She just also wants to nurse.

So yeah - it may seem weird to you. It seemed weird to me before I had kids. But the folks who think extended nursing happens because Mom has an attachment issue are just wrong.

PP I think you're doing just fine. The WHO recommends to breastfeed until the age of 2 for the best health of the child AND the mother...maybe with more breastfeeding we can cut out some of the judging against fat people.

The WHO? What do they know?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm the same PP who is still shocked so many people judge formula feeders but have a better analogy than baby jar food -- what about having an epidural? I think medically it's better for the baby if you don't, just like formula, but yet we don't (I hope!) judge women who choose one because they don't feel they can handle natural.

I don't judge having an epidural, but I do judge people who have a c-section just because they chose to do so. I think they are supposed to be ONLY in cases when there are risks of you don't. Even then, I know a few OBGYNs who opt for a c-section because labor was just taking too long. I judge them too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I judge extended nursing too. Past two (being generous!), you're doing it for you, not for the child. They eat real food now; they can handle regular milk too.

I'm the PP. My DD is 'only' 21 months, so I guess I don't quite make your cut, but trust me - I'm not still nursing for me. I'd be quite happy to be done, but my daughter has a different opinion on the subject. Since it makes her happy, I've never seen any studies to show extended nursing is detrimental to kids, and I HAVE seen studies saying it's beneficial, it seems a bit selfish to cut her off just because I'm ready to be done. And yes - she eats real food, and drinks milk. She just also wants to nurse.

So yeah - it may seem weird to you. It seemed weird to me before I had kids. But the folks who think extended nursing happens because Mom has an attachment issue are just wrong.

PP I think you're doing just fine. The WHO recommends to breastfeed until the age of 2 for the best health of the child AND the mother...maybe with more breastfeeding we can cut out some of the judging against fat people.

And maybe with more breastfeeding, there would be less fat people. LOVE the extra calories that b/f'ing burns.

[Anonymous]

I hate to admit it ( ) but I also kinda judge the jar-food feeders. That stuff stinks, and it looks and tastes gross. I could eat my baby's food, every bit of it. It was fresh and organic and I knew what went into it and it was/is tasty. I tried some Earth's Best Organic on vacation once and he wouldn't take 2 bites.

[Anonymous]

I judge people that still have an AOL.com email address.
I judge people who always vacation in the same exact place, every damn year! It's a big world people, go out and see it.
I judge people that own small dogs.
I judge people that shop at Wal-Mart. Check out: www.peopleofwalmart.com
I judge people with mullets.
I judge men with popped collars.
I judge women with flat butts.
I judge fat people.
I judge anorexic people that need sandwich.
I judge religious people.
I judge America's Got Talent.
I judge pie eating contests.
I judge people that sell Mary Kay.
I judge rich people who think they're better than everyone.
I judge people who are no longer poor but feel like reminding you of the times when they were poor and they "struggled" to get where they are.
I judge graduates of Duke University.
I judge drop-outs of community college.
I judge White people.
I judge The Beatles.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I judge extended nursing too. Past two (being generous!), you're doing it for you, not for the child. They eat real food now; they can handle regular milk too.

I'm the PP. My DD is 'only' 21 months, so I guess I don't quite make your cut, but trust me - I'm not still nursing for me. I'd be quite happy to be done, but my daughter has a different opinion on the subject. Since it makes her happy, I've never seen any studies to show extended nursing is detrimental to kids, and I HAVE seen studies saying it's beneficial, it seems a bit selfish to cut her off just because I'm ready to be done. And yes - she eats real food, and drinks milk. She just also wants to nurse.

So yeah - it may seem weird to you. It seemed weird to me before I had kids. But the folks who think extended nursing happens because Mom has an attachment issue are just wrong.

PP I think you're doing just fine. The WHO recommends to breastfeed until the age of 2 for the best health of the child AND the mother...maybe with more breastfeeding we can cut out some of the judging against fat people.

The WHO? What do they know?

They know how to rock!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I judge people that still have an AOL.com email address.

Ha! You think that's bad? My MIL's address is @webtv.com. I feel like I'm emailing 1998.

[Anonymous]

I judge people who curse. the only explanation I can think of is a poor vocabulary.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I judge people who curse. the only explanation I can think of is a poor vocabulary.

I judge people that use "replacement" words for curses and use silly words in their place.

[Anonymous]

why be vulgar when there is no need to? just lowering the level of society.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I judge people that still have an AOL.com email address.

Really?? How very odd! Why?! I love their website since they went free and where oh where would I be without TMZ?? I really love their other various properties too and like being associated with them...as in, @aol.com.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I judge people who curse. the only explanation I can think of is a poor vocabulary.

Maybe they use those words frequently and don't realize they are saying it. Or are ignorant/care little about the affect they have on the listener. Or are trying to play tough guy even though they are a wimp.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I judge people who curse. the only explanation I can think of is a poor vocabulary.

I judge people that use "replacement" words for curses and use silly words in their place.

I'm not the PP, but since my toddler's at the age where he repeats things, I've cleaned up my language and am finding it surprisingly easy. I'm still able to express displeasure or anger and no, I don't say things like "Oh, fudge." I just don't curse.