| There is a difference between being fat and overweight and it has nothing to do with pounds. My DH is overweight but works hard to be healthy and fit. She's smart, generous and a ton of fun. To me a fat person is simply that - fat. |
I hope that by the time we are 70, we'll no longer be judged by how are bodies look to men. |
What do your abs look like? |
| Helen never had kids!!, |
Women choose to be invisible to men long before that. Women choose to go it alone long before that. |
You'll be invisible after you hit 50 at the latest, so no worries. |
Bless your heart |
I won't be invisible to my husband, kids, family and friends. And it will be awesome kicking your ass on the golf course when you are another fat bald 50 year old ha let. |
My mom, 70, has always been fit and she looks fantastic. She's not OLD looking in the face at all. I mean, appropriately old, but not aged or wrinkly. |
I'm 5'3" and weigh 130 and feel fat. I'm between a size 4 and a size 6. If I were a size 14 I'd be very obese. |
I'm the same height and weight, and also hover between a 4 and a 6. But I workout. I feel fit and strong and capable. [and I used to be a size 14-16!] Fit >>> skinny |
Uh, thanks? |
You're not thin, but 130 might look really nice. Google says you have the same height and weight as the AT&T girl, who has lots of fans. |
I'm 49, and i am not invisible at all. Many women around here who are fifty really look 35 thanks to working out, personal trainers, and lots of "work." |
Not that it's a guarantee but I was married to a woman about your size and she looked good, had a great ass and no she was not fat. You might like the way you look and feel more if you lost 10 to 15 but anything more than that I believe would be too much. |