Men, be honest, if your wife was fat

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

How tall? Size 14 is not fat for many women.

5feet 7 inches

I am 5'7" a size 14 and I am within the weight suggested as healthy by my doctor. i walk 15000+ steps a day, I average 30 flights of stairs a day, I bycycle 40 minutes 4 times a week. I have very healthy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:size 14 is considered average in the US.

mmand 69% of Americans are overweight. So yes, it's fat. Normal, but fat.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. Wife was an 8 when we met. 10 years later she's a 14-16 (recent dress purchase brought her sizing issues to light).

I am still attracted to her and we have a good sex life (average 3 times a week).

That being said, I do wish she would lose the weight

1. Her self confidence isn't great and that does play into a lot of aspects of our life, not iust the sex

2. I miss some of the old positions we used to do that she's no longer comfortable with

3. As much as I am still attracted to her, I did like her smaller size better.

But I've also put on weight so I'm in no place to judge.

[Anonymous]

How are the blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

Honestly 14 is fat.

If a person tries to lose the weight to be in shape and is still fat I understand, but with no effort or eating like crap then it is hard for me to feel sympathetic.

14 is fat though

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

She was size 6 when we were dating/married, about a 14 now.
NOT ATTRACTED!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just slept with my wife who is. 14. Assholes

You have a 14 year old wife? That's disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Go look at statues of fertility goddesses and Aphrodites. They all have full thighs, bellies, butts. This American obsession with adult women looking like adolescent boys is insane. If you really want an adolescent boy, go get yourself one.

[Anonymous]

Size 2-4.

There are lots of moms that size. I see them driving range rovers all the time

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Size 2-4.

There are lots of moms that size. I see them driving range rovers all the time

Classic. Thanks for the laugh.

[Anonymous]

I just asked my DH. He said any man who answers that question is a damn fool.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Absolutely. Wife was an 8 when we met. 10 years later she's a 14-16 (recent dress purchase brought her sizing issues to light).

I am still attracted to her and we have a good sex life (average 3 times a week).

That being said, I do wish she would lose the weight

1. Her self confidence isn't great and that does play into a lot of aspects of our life, not iust the sex

2. I miss some of the old positions we used to do that she's no longer comfortable with

3. As much as I am still attracted to her, I did like her smaller size better.

But I've also put on weight so I'm in no place to judge.

I think this would pretty much be my husband's answer, though I was a size 6 when we met. I was a size 8 when we got engaged, and back to a 6 for the wedding. I was between an 8 and a 10 before first kid but gained a lot with both pregnancies and can not get it off. Kids are well past babyhood.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Go look at statues of fertility goddesses and Aphrodites. They all have full thighs, bellies, butts. This American obsession with adult women looking like adolescent boys is insane. If you really want an adolescent boy, go get yourself one.

Ridiculous. I am 50 years old. Five grown children. 5'5 and 117 pounds. With measurements of 34/24/34, I promise you I do not look like an adolescent boy. You can be fit and still look very feminine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:size 14 is considered average in the US.

Not average in higher end DC neighborhoods...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Go look at statues of fertility goddesses and Aphrodites. They all have full thighs, bellies, butts. This American obsession with adult women looking like adolescent boys is insane. If you really want an adolescent boy, go get yourself one.

Hollywood and magazines wants very thin women. Regular men don't. Therefore your argument is bogus. You're not competing with size 0s. You're competing with not-fat women.