Men, be honest, if your wife was fat

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'4 and 189 pounds. I wear a size 14 and I feel fantastic. My husband can't keep his hands off of me.

I should add that over the past 7 months I have lost 50 pounds. I've got about 45 to go until I hit my ultimate goal, but I sure don't feel "disgusting" like so many of the people in this thread seem to think I am.

[Anonymous]

And I'm 5"3 and 110, I think it's great that your husband is attracted to you. I weighed 150 right before I delivered a 10 lb baby and I can't imagine carrying that weight on a daily basis- it was hard!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

How tall? Size 14 is not fat for many women.

Most women at a size 14 are obese

I'm 5'3" and weigh 130 and feel fat. I'm between a size 4 and a size 6. If I were a size 14 I'd be very obese.

You're not thin, but 130 might look really nice. Google says you have the same height and weight as the AT&T girl, who has lots of fans.

because 15 lbs of it is in her chest!

[Anonymous]

I'm a 14. I'd say my husband would be more attracted to me if we hadn't been sleeping together for 25 years. He has commented on how well I am aging, even though I used to be a 10, because now I work out seriously and am much more toned than I was when I was lighter. Plus, he is enormous compared to the guy I married - 35 or 40 pounds heavier.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Go look at statues of fertility goddesses and Aphrodites. They all have full thighs, bellies, butts. This American obsession with adult women looking like adolescent boys is insane. If you really want an adolescent boy, go get yourself one.

Ridiculous. I am 50 years old. Five grown children. 5'5 and 117 pounds. With measurements of 34/24/34, I promise you I do not look like an adolescent boy. You can be fit and still look very feminine.

I am 100% sure that you have genetics in your favor, do not work 50 hours a week in an office and do not have a husband who is overweight. Amirite?

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Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

How tall? Size 14 is not fat for many women.

Most women at a size 14 are obese

I'm 5'3" and weigh 130 and feel fat. I'm between a size 4 and a size 6. If I were a size 14 I'd be very obese.

You're not thin, but 130 might look really nice. Google says you have the same height and weight as the AT&T girl, who has lots of fans.

because 15 lbs of it is in her chest!

Size 4 isn't thin? lol

[Anonymous]

I am 5'7" and weigh around 135-140 when I am not pregnant and am a size 4-6. The heaviest I got pregnant was 190-195 and I thought my joints were going to give out! I am 10 months pp and am around 145 right now and not happy with the way I look. Stomach is so saggy! I guess two kids in 36 months does that to you.

That said my DH is very attracted to me and we still had sex when I was at my heaviest!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 5'7" and weigh around 135-140 when I am not pregnant and am a size 4-6. The heaviest I got pregnant was 190-195 and I thought my joints were going to give out! I am 10 months pp and am around 145 right now and not happy with the way I look. Stomach is so saggy! I guess two kids in 36 months does that to you.

That said my DH is very attracted to me and we still had sex when I was at my heaviest!

I'm the same basic specs as you and I had three really big babies, one over ten pounds. My stomach never recovered and looks very saggy but I didn't like the idea of a tummy tuck as its major surgery so I live with it. I know my DH wishes I were a flat belly but that doesn't keep him from wanting frequent sex. Or me wanting frequent sex!

[Anonymous]

I'm in my early 60's and I'm 5'6' and about 140. OK, 145! The problem is that gravity and the lack of elasticity take over so that even at a decent weight its hard to look good without some help from spandex etc. The same holds true for men so its not a one way street. Now when we are in bed we use candles as that lighting can make anyone look pretty good when you are rolling around.

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Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

How tall? Size 14 is not fat for many women.

Most women at a size 14 are obese

I'm 5'3" and weigh 130 and feel fat. I'm between a size 4 and a size 6. If I were a size 14 I'd be very obese.

You're not thin, but 130 might look really nice. Google says you have the same height and weight as the AT&T girl, who has lots of fans.

because 15 lbs of it is in her chest!

Size 4 isn't thin? lol

A BMI over 20 isn't thin. lol

[Anonymous]

My DH feel in love with me when I was a size 18, so he probably wouldn't want me to go under a size 14

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Anonymous wrote:I am 5'7" and weigh around 135-140 when I am not pregnant and am a size 4-6. The heaviest I got pregnant was 190-195 and I thought my joints were going to give out! I am 10 months pp and am around 145 right now and not happy with the way I look. Stomach is so saggy! I guess two kids in 36 months does that to you.

That said my DH is very attracted to me and we still had sex when I was at my heaviest!

I'm the same basic specs as you and I had three really big babies, one over ten pounds. My stomach never recovered and looks very saggy but I didn't like the idea of a tummy tuck as its major surgery so I live with it. I know my DH wishes I were a flat belly but that doesn't keep him from wanting frequent sex. Or me wanting frequent sex!

Yea my babies were big too. Not sure if my tummy will every go back to normal or not.

[Anonymous]

It will with lots of work.

- Mom of three in three years with 10 lb babies.

[Anonymous]

I am saddened by the majority of the posts on here. I am a size 18. Am I too big for you men? I am honestly curious.

[Anonymous]

YOU are huge PP