Men, be honest, if your wife was fat

[Anonymous]

Unless the fattie can sing like Adele, I will take a pass.

14 is pretty big.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Go look at statues of fertility goddesses and Aphrodites. They all have full thighs, bellies, butts. This American obsession with adult women looking like adolescent boys is insane. If you really want an adolescent boy, go get yourself one.

Ridiculous. I am 50 years old. Five grown children. 5'5 and 117 pounds. With measurements of 34/24/34, I promise you I do not look like an adolescent boy. You can be fit and still look very feminine.

And so humble.

[Anonymous]

Sorry to say but no... I know it's superficial. I'm sure she wouldn't be sexually attracted to me if I got fat.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Go look at statues of fertility goddesses and Aphrodites. They all have full thighs, bellies, butts. This American obsession with adult women looking like adolescent boys is insane. If you really want an adolescent boy, go get yourself one.

Ridiculous. I am 50 years old. Five grown children. 5'5 and 117 pounds. With measurements of 34/24/34, I promise you I do not look like an adolescent boy. You can be fit and still look very feminine.

And so humble.

It's not about being humble or not. I don't consider gaining weight to be a character flaw nor do I think my weight makes me better than anyone else. We all have things we are working on. However, when someone suggests being thin means looking like an adolescent boy, I do feel the need to respond.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:size 14 is considered average in the US.

Not average in higher end DC neighborhoods...

You don't see many size 14 moms picking kids up from private schools either.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:size 14 is considered average in the US.

Not average in higher end DC neighborhoods...

You don't see many size 14 moms picking kids up from private schools either.

+1

I am definitely "heavy" compared to the women in my UMC circle (8/10).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

How tall? Size 14 is not fat for many women.

5feet 7 inches

I am 5'7" a size 14 and I am within the weight suggested as healthy by my doctor. i walk 15000+ steps a day, I average 30 flights of stairs a day, I bycycle 40 minutes 4 times a week. I have very healthy.

A healthy weight at 5'7" would be under 155lbs. I doubt you are a size 14 at that weight and height.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

How tall? Size 14 is not fat for many women.

5feet 7 inches

I am 5'7" a size 14 and I am within the weight suggested as healthy by my doctor. i walk 15000+ steps a day, I average 30 flights of stairs a day, I bycycle 40 minutes 4 times a week. I have very healthy.

A healthy weight at 5'7" would be under 155lbs. I doubt you are a size 14 at that weight and height.

Agreed. I'm 5'6 and a size 14, bmi 32, which is considered obese. No way you are considered a healthy weight

[Anonymous]

nope. too LARGE

[Anonymous]

Some people can be sexy at any size and even 14, it all depends on how they carry themselves!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Go look at statues of fertility goddesses and Aphrodites. They all have full thighs, bellies, butts. This American obsession with adult women looking like adolescent boys is insane. If you really want an adolescent boy, go get yourself one.

Ridiculous. I am 50 years old. Five grown children. 5'5 and 117 pounds. With measurements of 34/24/34, I promise you I do not look like an adolescent boy. You can be fit and still look very feminine.

And so humble.

It's not about being humble or not. I don't consider gaining weight to be a character flaw nor do I think my weight makes me better than anyone else. We all have things we are working on. However, when someone suggests being thin means looking like an adolescent boy, I do feel the need to respond.

But you sound very unattractive, your measurements, height and weight does not sound appealing. When somebody suggests those measurement are attractive I feel the need to respond.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

How tall? Size 14 is not fat for many women.

5feet 7 inches

I am 5'7" a size 14 and I am within the weight suggested as healthy by my doctor. i walk 15000+ steps a day, I average 30 flights of stairs a day, I bycycle 40 minutes 4 times a week. I have very healthy.

A healthy weight at 5'7" would be under 155lbs. I doubt you are a size 14 at that weight and height.

Agreed. I'm 5'6 and a size 14, bmi 32, which is considered obese. No way you are considered a healthy weight

Her bmi is in the healthy weight range.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

How tall? Size 14 is not fat for many women.

5feet 7 inches

I am 5'7" a size 14 and I am within the weight suggested as healthy by my doctor. i walk 15000+ steps a day, I average 30 flights of stairs a day, I bycycle 40 minutes 4 times a week. I have very healthy.

A healthy weight at 5'7" would be under 155lbs. I doubt you are a size 14 at that weight and height.

Agree. I'm 5'7, 145 size 8. To be a 14, I'd likely weigh 180+

[Anonymous]

When I met my ex she was a size 18. I'd never been physically attracted to a big girl before, and I kept trying to talk myself out of it. There was something about her that wouldn't let me get her out of my head. We dated and got married. I stopped being sexually attracted to her as the years went on and she got up to a size 26. It got to the point where I had to look at porn to get hard and then keep those images in my head to maintain it during sex. I never told her any of this of course. After a while porn stopped working and we stopped having sex. I still loved her, but I wasn't attracted to her sexually.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

How tall? Size 14 is not fat for many women.

5feet 7 inches

I am 5'7" a size 14 and I am within the weight suggested as healthy by my doctor. i walk 15000+ steps a day, I average 30 flights of stairs a day, I bycycle 40 minutes 4 times a week. I have very healthy.

A healthy weight at 5'7" would be under 155lbs. I doubt you are a size 14 at that weight and height.

Agree. I'm 5'7, 145 size 8. To be a 14, I'd likely weigh 180+

I was 5'9" 138 and I wore size 10, now I am 155 and wear a 12.