Men, be honest, if your wife was fat

[Anonymous]

Cindy Crawford was a UK size 10 which is an American 6. Please don’t be like those women crowing “Marilyn Mo row was a size 16!” They were thin. Everyone can tell the difference between Cindy Crawford and a real American size 10. Just stop. And yes, I am a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a size 14. My husband seems plenty attracted to me. We have invited other men into our bedroom before, and they seem plenty attracted too. So, I guess it’s possible to still be attracted to your wife despite weight gain.

Maybe your DH is t that attracted to you and is fine with other men instead

[Anonymous]

Can’t get over the number of people who are making this binary between fat vs anorexic/bony. Like you have to be one or the other.

Please...

[Anonymous]

The fat shaming and misogyny on this thread is what's disgusting and it's mostly coming from women themselves. Size 14 is the average for American women. It reflects our national problem with weight but, seriously, the obsession with the need to be stick thin, verging on anorexia, is really out of control.

[Anonymous]

I’m 5’8” and size 12-14 depending on brand. I walk at least 10 miles a day. I think because of my height I don’t look as big?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The fat shaming and misogyny on this thread is what's disgusting and it's mostly coming from women themselves. Size 14 is the average for American women. It reflects our national problem with weight but, seriously, the obsession with the need to be stick thin, verging on anorexia, is really out of control.

Women's waistlines are out of control. Start running or something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The fat shaming and misogyny on this thread is what's disgusting and it's mostly coming from women themselves. Size 14 is the average for American women. It reflects our national problem with weight but, seriously, the obsession with the need to be stick thin, verging on anorexia, is really out of control.

Nobody hates women like other women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The fat shaming and misogyny on this thread is what's disgusting and it's mostly coming from women themselves. Size 14 is the average for American women. It reflects our national problem with weight but, seriously, the obsession with the need to be stick thin, verging on anorexia, is really out of control.

Again: there is SUCH a world of difference a size 14 (obese in most cases) and "stick thin, verging on anorexia."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The fat shaming and misogyny on this thread is what's disgusting and it's mostly coming from women themselves. Size 14 is the average for American women. It reflects our national problem with weight but, seriously, the obsession with the need to be stick thin, verging on anorexia, is really out of control.

Again: there is SUCH a world of difference a size 14 (obese in most cases) and "stick thin, verging on anorexia."

How can there be such an obsession with being stick thin when 66% of women are overweight or obese - 25 BMI or above? It's even worse for men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is 5'2" 215 lbs. I still bang her because, well I need to get laid. But she is no longer visually appealing to me in the least. I have offered her a new wardrobe and nice vacation if she can lose 100 lbs but still cant get motivated to not look like a cow.

NP Are you thin and hot? You obviously haven't taken any psychology classes! This is not a good motivator for getting someone else to lose weight. In fact, she probably does the opposite and eats more because you sound super controlling. If you actually care for her than you should help her.

Offer to buy the food and suggest healthy activities for you to do together!

[Anonymous]

In fact, she probably does the opposite and eats more because you sound super controlling

What, you used telepathy to discern that? He certainly never wrote that.

[Anonymous]

No I would not be attracted to her.

[Anonymous]

No, there’s no way. Seriously, she would get no dick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My dh married me at size 16, and I'm 5'10", so he's still pretty happy. He doesn't like bony women.

Obviously your DH likes a larger women. Some men are like that, and will happily date and marry a size 16. Good for you both!

But the subject thread does not really apply to you. The topic is about weight GAINED after marriage. That's entirely different, given that the initial attraction was based on a smaller size, and most men who like smaller sizes are not attracted to Size 16 (otherwise they'd have dated/married as Size 16).

It doesn't say that in the OP or the subject line.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, there’s no way. Seriously, she would get no dick.

Oh, she definitely would, just not from you!! Lol! ???