What is considered a sexless marriage?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if a lot of sexless marriages can be attributed to one or both partners just not being attracted to the other one anymore. What do you do after being with your partner for years, and they completely let themselves go? And don't you dare bring it up, then you're the bad guy (or gal in my situation since I'm DW.)


Fantasize about someone else while you're doing it. My husband is 40 pounds overweight, at least.



I would feel SO guilty!!! Mine is a good 30lbs overweight.

Guild is a useless emotion when you're doing something that you enjoy (and legal).
Anonymous
Mine is once a quarter. That is sexless!
Anonymous
A sexless marriage to me is one void of any type of sex, including foreplay.

It sounds to me as if you and your hubby are simply going through a transition now, from being a couple to being parents to two young kids. Anyone can understand how tired you both must be every night when you hit the sack.

That being said, do not let sex fall by the wayside however. A marriage needs to be maintained and if it is not, the results can be catastrophic in the long run.

Try to make the time and initiate love making every now and then.

We ALL need to feel loved, desired and appreciated. It is just human nature.
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