I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Well OP you've been given some suggestions as to how to go about handling the situation from "don't worry about it" to "call the police" and everything in between. Not sure which route you're leaning toward or some compromise somewhere in the middle but I can tell you if I were in your shoes I wouldn't be in this forum arguing with people about courtesy and conjecture...not going to help ease your anxiety at all just going to get you even more worked up.
I'd suggest going to work, going to class, whatever your day entails or if you've got the day to yourself then go to his apartment and ask the landlord for emergency contact information, go to his neighbors and ask if they've seen or heard anything, or go to the cops but go somewhere that you feel comfortable so you can calm down or go somewhere that you can get some real answers about his disappearance but don't stay in here arguing with commenters who aren't coddling you in your time of despair. That's not gonna help anyone least of all yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Of course you are worried. I would be too. But tread lightly on how you act. If he is a spur of the moment kind of guy and decided just to stay a few more days or his phone got lost or something and you overreact he might get scared away. Laid back guys see us "being worried" as a stage 5 clinger, even if we mean well ( trust me I've been there!) He could just need a few days away and no contact to reexamine the relationship and grasping too tight often pushes them away( even though from our end we are just worried!)

Also- phones die, get thrown in the water by accident, etc. As hard as it is, wait for him to contact you. Or at least a day or two more before contacting his friends. The pp was right, bad news spreads fast so if something happened to him, something would be written on his FB wall I think

OP here; I get what you are saying but his job does not allow him to just "take a couple more days off". It was hard enough for him getting Friday off so there is just no way he could have just called in and said "im gonna take a couple more days off". He told me he HAD to be back for 5am on Monday to work which is why he was gonna be home late Sunday. I understand things happen to phones too, just two months ago he dropped and broke his but within 2 hours, had gone to the store and got a new one as he NEEDS his phone on and working at all times for his job.

[Anonymous]

Hunting season does not start until May.

I smell a troll - an urban one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hunting season does not start until May.

I smell a troll - an urban one.

Omfg go away

[Anonymous]

OP, are you sure you can't come up with his employer's name? I think they are the key. If he was supposed to be at work and isn't, they might be trying to contact him as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hunting season does not start until May.

I smell a troll - an urban one.

Omfg go away

She said they went up to hunt! What are they hunting? Are they poaching? Sounds like an excuse to get away from her. He's probably in Vegas.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, are you sure you can't come up with his employer's name? I think they are the key. If he was supposed to be at work and isn't, they might be trying to contact him as well.

Agree. Call his work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, are you sure you can't come up with his employer's name? I think they are the key. If he was supposed to be at work and isn't, they might be trying to contact him as well.

She doesn't know his EMPLOYER?

FFS people.

[Anonymous]

OP, you said that the area of the cabin got 8 inches of snow over the weekend and also that your BF drove separately from his uncle. When was the snow actually falling? Could it be that his uncle left a few hours ahead of your bf so made it home while your bf got snowed in? Or maybe your bf had to pull off the highway and wait out the storm somewhere where he still doesn't have cell service? I'm from a very snowy northern state and know how common it is to get a sudden huge dump of snow in April.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hunting season does not start until May.

I smell a troll - an urban one.

NP.

http://www.maine.gov/ifw/hunting_trapping/pdfs/2015HuntingSeasonsChart.pdf

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, are you sure you can't come up with his employer's name? I think they are the key. If he was supposed to be at work and isn't, they might be trying to contact him as well.

She doesn't know his EMPLOYER?

FFS people.

Does he have a LinkedIn profile? That will give you the employer's name.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hunting season does not start until May.

I smell a troll - an urban one.

Omfg go away

She said they went up to hunt! What are they hunting? Are they poaching? Sounds like an excuse to get away from her. He's probably in Vegas.

COYOTE, WOODCHUCK, PORCUPINE, RED SQUIRREL are in season.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hunting season does not start until May.

I smell a troll - an urban one.

NP.

http://www.maine.gov/ifw/hunting_trapping/pdfs/2015HuntingSeasonsChart.pdf

So they were going to hunt crows? Come on.

[Anonymous]

You know, if something awful has happened to the OP's boyfriend, you people calling troll are going to feel bad, right? You're going to realize that you're being jerks to someone who is legitimately worried?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hunting season does not start until May.

I smell a troll - an urban one.

NP.

http://www.maine.gov/ifw/hunting_trapping/pdfs/2015HuntingSeasonsChart.pdf

So they were going to hunt crows? Come on.

You didn't read the entire chart.

I've got no dog in this fight, but I do like accurate information.