I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

OP I think most sympathize with your worries but at the same time for many its just hard to fathom finding themselves in this particular predicament of dating someone for 6mths and not having met one friend or family member to turn to in such a situation.

[Anonymous]

Who owns the cabin? You may be able to track down an address if you think the Uncle owns it and you know his name by searching on the Maine property tax database, assuming it's available online like most states and jurisdictions. Then if you can find the address you can call the local authorities and ask them to take a drive out to check on them.

[Anonymous]

Another new poster chiming in to tell the catty bitches to lay off. OP is justifiably worried about someone she cares for. Either help her, comfort her, or STFU. Does it make you feel good to kick a stranger when she's down?

[Anonymous]

Here you go: http://publicrecords.onlinesearches.com/Maine-Assessor-and-Property-Tax-Records.htm

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I think most sympathize with your worries but at the same time for many its just hard to fathom finding themselves in this particular predicament of dating someone for 6mths and not having met one friend or family member to turn to in such a situation.

OP here: I posted multiple times that I know 2 of his friends and his uncle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here you go: http://publicrecords.onlinesearches.com/Maine-Assessor-and-Property-Tax-Records.htm

PP again. If you scroll down on a bit, on the left side there are yellow search boxes where you can enter names to search on. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who owns the cabin? You may be able to track down an address if you think the Uncle owns it and you know his name by searching on the Maine property tax database, assuming it's available online like most states and jurisdictions. Then if you can find the address you can call the local authorities and ask them to take a drive out to check on them.

She only knows that it's somewhere in northern Maine.

[Anonymous]

OP, I'm sorry some people are being so mean to you. I totally get it and would be worried too! I've been married for almost ten years and my husband and I knew we would always be together at six months. Of course you are worried! I really hope everything works out and you are able to get confirmation that all is ok. Is there any way for you to track down anyone he works with? On the bright side, if his uncle posted something mundane on his FB wall, chances are your bf is ok.

Please keep us posted!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who owns the cabin? You may be able to track down an address if you think the Uncle owns it and you know his name by searching on the Maine property tax database, assuming it's available online like most states and jurisdictions. Then if you can find the address you can call the local authorities and ask them to take a drive out to check on them.

She only knows that it's somewhere in northern Maine.

I realize that. Like I said, if she knows the uncle's NAME (which apparently she does since she has been reaching out to him via Facebook) she should be able to run a search on his name for any records in the state (whether it's property deeds, criminal records, etc.).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: it's 11am and still no word from him and his phone is still off. I tried to friend request his uncle so my message would go to his normal inbox and not his other inbox but he hasn't accepted yet. I sent my boyfriend another message and neither have been read at all, just say "sent".

I'm going to NICELY ask that the people who think this is funny or a joke, just stop. I am VERY worried at this point as this isn't like him at all. No, he does not have a wife or a secret life I don't know about and no, he did not run off with a "fit hiker" as someone so nicely said. I was up every hour last night checking my phon so this isn't a joke to me and the rude comments aren't helping at all.

As far as driving up there, that's not something im going to do right now. I'm going to see about calling local police stations around him and hospitals and go from there. I'll re consider making the 4 hour drive if I come up empty handed on everything else.

Do you know any local friends? Can you ping them?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I think most sympathize with your worries but at the same time for many its just hard to fathom finding themselves in this particular predicament of dating someone for 6mths and not having met one friend or family member to turn to in such a situation.

NP: your difficulties have been noted. Repeatedly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you don't know ANY of his family to contact regarding this you really are not as close as you think you are.

Five years from now you're going to be posting here wondering why he hasn't proposed to you yet.

Wrong. I didn't meet my husband's family until we were engaged.

[Anonymous]

Of course you are worried. I would be too. But tread lightly on how you act. If he is a spur of the moment kind of guy and decided just to stay a few more days or his phone got lost or something and you overreact he might get scared away. Laid back guys see us "being worried" as a stage 5 clinger, even if we mean well ( trust me I've been there!) He could just need a few days away and no contact to reexamine the relationship and grasping too tight often pushes them away( even though from our end we are just worried!)

Also- phones die, get thrown in the water by accident, etc. As hard as it is, wait for him to contact you. Or at least a day or two more before contacting his friends. The pp was right, bad news spreads fast so if something happened to him, something would be written on his FB wall I think

[Anonymous]

Maine State Police?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Another new poster chiming in to tell the catty bitches to lay off. OP is justifiably worried about someone she cares for. Either help her, comfort her, or STFU. Does it make you feel good to kick a stranger when she's down?

Not kicking her when she's down, just trying to talk some common sense into her. She doesn't know any of his family or friends to call after 6 months. They are not as close as she perceives them to be.

Y'all have been watching too many true crime shows - the dude is probably out on a fishing boat trying to get away from his pushy girlfriend. Also, did he say what he was hunting? Turkey season doesn't start until May.