Trying to get a Harvard husband in Boston

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pro tip: going to Harvard Extension School is worthless and useless. You can't write "Harvard College" on your resume and everyone will know exactly what you were up to. And if you want to work in Boston, employers might just respect you more if you went to Suffolk.

For that matter your Harvard boyfriend will respect you more too.

Of course, but OP said at the beginning she wanted to know what watering holes the men went to and how to locate them. if she's on campus for a class, then she is a) there b) has library privileges and c) can lope into the bars.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound like my husband's first wife! Turns out my husband is quite smart but it took him a while to figure out women.
Signed,
Harvard grad married to Harvard grad

Ok let's not answer gold-diggers with elitism. I have as little respect for snobs as I do for gold-diggers

Seriously. I feel like some of the Harvard people in here are reacting like its ok to say "only Harvard women should marry Harvard men", as if that is somehow better than OP saying "I will only marry a Harvard man!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:this is a truly hilarious yet disturbing thread.

to the OP - you may already in the Boston area but in case you're still here in DC, let me offer a couple of thoughts -

lots of Harvard grads (from all the schools) in DC. I work with many, many Harvard grads - some from HLS, a few from HBS and many from K-school. I also work many grads from Princeton, Yale, LSE, Chicago and many other notable institutions. I'm not an alum, but I'm their boss. There are couple of recent H grads who we'll let go next year - though they are certainly book smart, they can't cut it in the real business world.

I've had younger women in my company ask me where I went to school and how I got my level (they are digging for a BF/husband and the interest has gotten stronger since I re-entered the dating scene recently) - and they are just astounded when I tell them (undergrad and grad) and the hammering and embarrassment that ensues is actually quite pleasurable to witness.

only you know what you want. I'm telling you, any successful man can smell superficiality coming from a mile away. you may not land your dream relationship but you may very well end up getting used as guys have no problem feeding a woman every line of BS to get into her pants.

if you're digging for a diploma to put on the wall, best of luck. if you want something real, who gives a shit where someone went to school. what matters is what you do with the tools and gifts (education) you've received.

- a very successful, good-looking, non-Ivy League grad with a job and life that many envy.

Why hello there. Call me. (not OP!)

LOL - PP here, so what is it that you're looking for, 'not op'?

Not the PP who winked at you but I also thought you sounded hot. How old are you? Do you like Korean women? Just asking

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I married the Ivy trophy husband. No I did not go to Harvard myself : Julliard.

There is actually an Ivy trophy husband? Too funny. Well OP be careful of what you wish for. My friend J married her Harvard man and 22 years later is filing for divorce and she cannot wait till its all over. He is a controlling crazy psycho maniac who is a tyrant in his own home over his wife and kids. You have no idea. Brilliant, yes he is.....worth the torture no way! He thinks he walks on air, and is hard to tolerate. So be careful and tread cautiously..one is not to be had in all!

[Anonymous]

PS And please do not ask me for his name and number Sorry couldn't resist!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:PS And please do not ask me for his name and number Sorry couldn't resist!

Hahahaha

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:this is a truly hilarious yet disturbing thread.

to the OP - you may already in the Boston area but in case you're still here in DC, let me offer a couple of thoughts -

lots of Harvard grads (from all the schools) in DC. I work with many, many Harvard grads - some from HLS, a few from HBS and many from K-school. I also work many grads from Princeton, Yale, LSE, Chicago and many other notable institutions. I'm not an alum, but I'm their boss. There are couple of recent H grads who we'll let go next year - though they are certainly book smart, they can't cut it in the real business world.

I've had younger women in my company ask me where I went to school and how I got my level (they are digging for a BF/husband and the interest has gotten stronger since I re-entered the dating scene recently) - and they are just astounded when I tell them (undergrad and grad) and the hammering and embarrassment that ensues is actually quite pleasurable to witness.

only you know what you want. I'm telling you, any successful man can smell superficiality coming from a mile away. you may not land your dream relationship but you may very well end up getting used as guys have no problem feeding a woman every line of BS to get into her pants.

if you're digging for a diploma to put on the wall, best of luck. if you want something real, who gives a shit where someone went to school. what matters is what you do with the tools and gifts (education) you've received.

- a very successful, good-looking, non-Ivy League grad with a job and life that many envy.

Why hello there. Call me. (not OP!)

LOL - PP here, so what is it that you're looking for, 'not op'?

Not the PP who winked at you but I also thought you sounded hot. How old are you? Do you like Korean women? Just asking

I'm 41 - I like all women, especially confident ones

[Anonymous]

I like the way the guy actually getting hit on in this thread did not go to Harvard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like the way the guy actually getting hit on in this thread did not go to Harvard.

Me too, deliciously ironic!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like the way the guy actually getting hit on in this thread did not go to Harvard.

Me too, deliciously ironic!

Hey if I wasn't married I'd be going to the other PP's house and locking her in the basement!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like the way the guy actually getting hit on in this thread did not go to Harvard.

Me too, deliciously ironic!

Hey if I wasn't married I'd be going to the other PP's house and locking her in the basement!

Basement whaa? This does not sound sexy. Did I miss something?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like the way the guy actually getting hit on in this thread did not go to Harvard.

Me too, deliciously ironic!

Hey if I wasn't married I'd be going to the other PP's house and locking her in the basement!

Basement whaa? This does not sound sexy. Did I miss something?

Um, so she couldn't get Non-Harvard Guy. And I could

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like the way the guy actually getting hit on in this thread did not go to Harvard.

Me too, deliciously ironic!

Hey if I wasn't married I'd be going to the other PP's house and locking her in the basement!

Basement whaa? This does not sound sexy. Did I miss something?

Um, so she couldn't get Non-Harvard Guy. And I could

Ohhh I thought you WERE him haha. No I get it! I will join you and then we can share him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound like my husband's first wife! Turns out my husband is quite smart but it took him a while to figure out women.
Signed,
Harvard grad married to Harvard grad

Ok let's not answer gold-diggers with elitism. I have as little respect for snobs as I do for gold-diggers

Seriously. I feel like some of the Harvard people in here are reacting like its ok to say "only Harvard women should marry Harvard men", as if that is somehow better than OP saying "I will only marry a Harvard man!"

The same reason Harvard women and MIT women don't like Wellesley women. Cat fight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like the way the guy actually getting hit on in this thread did not go to Harvard.

Me too, deliciously ironic!

Hey if I wasn't married I'd be going to the other PP's house and locking her in the basement!

Basement whaa? This does not sound sexy. Did I miss something?

Um, so she couldn't get Non-Harvard Guy. And I could

Ohhh I thought you WERE him haha. No I get it! I will join you and then we can share him?

PP guy here - you ladies are too sweet and funny! so who am I talking with here?