Strictly business-wise (from the stripper's perspective), giving a customer a hickey doesn't make sense. If the customer is a good one, giving him a hickey is a surefire way the customer will get in trouble with his wife and won't be able to come back. If the customer is a bad one, why the hell would the woman want to suck on his neck? The stripper would just move on to another customer, or if the customer is harassing her, the customer would be kicked out. Just doesn't make sense all around. |
and who in the sam hell requests a hickey from a stripper??????????
remove all the arguments about whether they would or wouldnt do it, what type of request is it to seek a hickey from a stripper from the jump? |
Op is dumb |
Dear OP, let us know what happened. |
OP. I'm spelling gullible correctly |
OP, tell your husband you'll forgive him once he tells you the truth, but not until then. I don't think he necessarily slept with someone or has a GF like many of the other posters do, but I think the stripper story is complete BS. My guess is he made out with a random woman or went home with her - that doesn't necessarily mean they slept together.
Try to get the truth out of him or it will drive you nuts forever. |
Strictly business-wise (from the stripper's perspective), giving a customer a hickey doesn't make sense. If the customer is a good one, giving him a hickey is a surefire way the customer will get in trouble with his wife and won't be able to come back. If the customer is a bad one, why the hell would the woman want to suck on his neck? The stripper would just move on to another customer, or if the customer is harassing her, the customer would be kicked out. Just doesn't make sense all around. This of course assumes strippers are capable of sound business decisions. I suspect that highest levels they are, but then you run into "college kid that really doesn't want to be doing this" and "single mom that sees a potential meal ticket" issues. |
It seems really basic to me, though. A hickey would just make most customers angry. |
We haven't heard from OP in days. Guessing she's avoiding the writing on the wall or is dealing with some very difficult marital issues right now. Good luck, OP. Stay strong, and don't believe the stripper BS. |
I think the husband is telling the truth. |
Why? |
Yes, please tell us why you think this? Is this the op's husband saying this? |
If I were the OP, I wouldn't come back to this thread. You all are MEAN!!! Yeah, you're probably right, but seriously...put yourself in her shoes. Does she really need this crap right now? |
Some of us are nice. |
She came here with this story. And frankly, I think there is value in getting unglossed, truthful reactions from strangers. Her girlfriends will never be so blunt as to call bull shit on this ludicrous story. Is some of this stuff probably difficult to read? Definitely. But don't come to DCUM with these sorts of stories and expect to hear what you hope to hear because the truth it too hard to imagine. |