Tell Me Not To Message Her Mom

[Anonymous]

If you did that to me about my daughter‘s behavior, I would come over there and kick your ass. Of course, I would be having conversations with my daughter about how she conducts herself, and what the right way to treat people is, not to mention safe, sex practices, and so on. But if you texted me, insulting me about my daughter because of something she did with your son, you have brought it to me now and your beef is now with me.

[Anonymous]

Of course you don't.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

"Officer, listen. My daughter likes to spend a lot of time on her back. That's true. And, yes, she likes to keep a full stable. And she lies a bunch. But, really, the problem is a mom of one of her tricks is upset with us."

LOL.

If you confirm your son is as engaging in prostitution, he’s the one who’s going to get arrested. LOL indeed.

Also, realistically it would go more like this:

Officer, the mother of a young man my daughter rejected romantically is very angry about how the relationship ended. The boy’s mother is verbally attacking and harassing my minor child. I would like a restraining order so my minor child can attend school safely and not have fear harassment by an adult

And even in the unlikely case that the police refuse to grant a restraining order, I guarantee that the school will ban you from the premises.

Tell me you have zero experience with the criminal justice system without telling me you have zero experience with the criminal justice system.

All right, you’ve convinced me. OP should call the girl’s parents and tell them what a skanky, psycho little whore they raised. She should call the girl too! Someone needs to stand up for her son!

You're conflating two entirely separate questions. It's a bad idea to contact the girl's parents, but that doesn't mean that it would be sufficient for a restraining order. But go on with your hysterical self.

You're addressing someone that thinks "Oh, honey" is witty. they can barely tie their shoes.

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Np.

Confession… I also say oh honey. And usually it’s in my Trixie Mattel voice.

It essentially means yeah you’re stupid. Kind of in the sweet summer child vein. It’s clearly you don’t have enough life experience but it’s cute that you try.


And for what it’s worth I also don’t think there’s a need to shame this girl. It sounds like a messy teenage romance at best. that sucks for OP‘s kid. Now he knows and he can make other choices about where to put his emotions and “experiences”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

It would be entirely insane. Did you also just find out he was sexually active?

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

"Officer, listen. My daughter likes to spend a lot of time on her back. That's true. And, yes, she likes to keep a full stable. And she lies a bunch. But, really, the problem is a mom of one of her tricks is upset with us."

LOL.

If you confirm your son is as engaging in prostitution, he’s the one who’s going to get arrested. LOL indeed.

Also, realistically it would go more like this:

Officer, the mother of a young man my daughter rejected romantically is very angry about how the relationship ended. The boy’s mother is verbally attacking and harassing my minor child. I would like a restraining order so my minor child can attend school safely and not have fear harassment by an adult

And even in the unlikely case that the police refuse to grant a restraining order, I guarantee that the school will ban you from the premises.

Tell me you have zero experience with the criminal justice system without telling me you have zero experience with the criminal justice system.

All right, you’ve convinced me. OP should call the girl’s parents and tell them what a skanky, psycho little whore they raised. She should call the girl too! Someone needs to stand up for her son!

You're conflating two entirely separate questions. It's a bad idea to contact the girl's parents, but that doesn't mean that it would be sufficient for a restraining order. But go on with your hysterical self.

You're addressing someone that thinks "Oh, honey" is witty. they can barely tie their shoes.

j

Np.

Confession… I also say oh honey. And usually it’s in my Trixie Mattel voice.

It essentially means yeah you’re stupid. Kind of in the sweet summer child vein. It’s clearly you don’t have enough life experience but it’s cute that you try.


And for what it’s worth I also don’t think there’s a need to shame this girl. It sounds like a messy teenage romance at best. that sucks for OP‘s kid. Now he knows and he can make other choices about where to put his emotions and “experiences”.

This entire post is embarrassing.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

"Officer, listen. My daughter likes to spend a lot of time on her back. That's true. And, yes, she likes to keep a full stable. And she lies a bunch. But, really, the problem is a mom of one of her tricks is upset with us."

LOL.

If you confirm your son is as engaging in prostitution, he’s the one who’s going to get arrested. LOL indeed.

Also, realistically it would go more like this:

Officer, the mother of a young man my daughter rejected romantically is very angry about how the relationship ended. The boy’s mother is verbally attacking and harassing my minor child. I would like a restraining order so my minor child can attend school safely and not have fear harassment by an adult

And even in the unlikely case that the police refuse to grant a restraining order, I guarantee that the school will ban you from the premises.

Tell me you have zero experience with the criminal justice system without telling me you have zero experience with the criminal justice system.

All right, you’ve convinced me. OP should call the girl’s parents and tell them what a skanky, psycho little whore they raised. She should call the girl too! Someone needs to stand up for her son!

You're conflating two entirely separate questions. It's a bad idea to contact the girl's parents, but that doesn't mean that it would be sufficient for a restraining order. But go on with your hysterical self.

You're addressing someone that thinks "Oh, honey" is witty. they can barely tie their shoes.

j

Np.

Confession… I also say oh honey. And usually it’s in my Trixie Mattel voice.

It essentially means yeah you’re stupid. Kind of in the sweet summer child vein. It’s clearly you don’t have enough life experience but it’s cute that you try.


And for what it’s worth I also don’t think there’s a need to shame this girl. It sounds like a messy teenage romance at best. that sucks for OP‘s kid. Now he knows and he can make other choices about where to put his emotions and “experiences”.

This entire post is embarrassing.

The entire website is embarrassing. Let’s be real.

[Anonymous]

Didn't read 11 pages but here's a PSA for parents. Get your kids Gardasil early on. Not having the vaccine isn't a chastity belt and too young is a slippery slope.
People up to age 26 even if sexually active and even if already exposed to HPV can benefit. Protection against strains they were not yet exposed to.
Cervical cancer.
Anal cancer.
Throat cancer.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

+1. I’d also go to the school principal and file a written bullying form and ask for Mom to be put on a no contact list at school.

Yup. Same here.

You guys are hilarious. You’d respond to this OP’s complete overreaction with one of your own??

[Anonymous]

Let God take care of it in His time. God loves justice. Do nothing.

[Anonymous]

OMG OP just send the mom an old-fashioned letter!!


From a neighboring city with no return address.

Revenge is yours.

Done.

[Anonymous]

I can’t help but think OP’s response is an example of sexual double standards. If this happened to my daughter, I would think the kid was a little sh1+ who didn’t deserve my daughter but I would in no way be tempted to call her boyfriend’s mom!

Teenagers act like little jerks sometimes, op, which is hardly breaking news. I’m you are now on the same page with the rest of the world. And for the love of g-d don’t call her mom!

[Anonymous]

I haven't read all the comments, but I think OP should talk with the mom. When my son had a long term (6+ months) girlfriend while in high school, I spent a lot of my time driving them around and being nearby at home so that she could visit with her parents' permission. I would text or sometimes call the girl's mom and we moms would often chat when dropping off or picking them up. I'd feel betrayed along with my son if we found out she'd been pretending to be exclusive. I certainly wouldn't have spent a bit of my time, energy, or money to facilitate him spending time with a girl who had other guys simultaneously thinking they were her exclusive boyfriend. OP's son deserves to know that what he has experienced is not cool at all, and that he deserves better. OP should not give him the impression that she thinks it's no big deal that he was used by the girl.

[Anonymous]

Gen X moms are something else

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Anonymous wrote:I haven't read all the comments, but I think OP should talk with the mom. When my son had a long term (6+ months) girlfriend while in high school, I spent a lot of my time driving them around and being nearby at home so that she could visit with her parents' permission. I would text or sometimes call the girl's mom and we moms would often chat when dropping off or picking them up. I'd feel betrayed along with my son if we found out she'd been pretending to be exclusive. I certainly wouldn't have spent a bit of my time, energy, or money to facilitate him spending time with a girl who had other guys simultaneously thinking they were her exclusive boyfriend. OP's son deserves to know that what he has experienced is not cool at all, and that he deserves better. OP should not give him the impression that she thinks it's no big deal that he was used by the girl.

And you would be out of line doing this. Op can be supportive of her son without involving the girl's parents.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

"Officer, listen. My daughter likes to spend a lot of time on her back. That's true. And, yes, she likes to keep a full stable. And she lies a bunch. But, really, the problem is a mom of one of her tricks is upset with us."

LOL.

If you confirm your son is as engaging in prostitution, he’s the one who’s going to get arrested. LOL indeed.

Also, realistically it would go more like this:

Officer, the mother of a young man my daughter rejected romantically is very angry about how the relationship ended. The boy’s mother is verbally attacking and harassing my minor child. I would like a restraining order so my minor child can attend school safely and not have fear harassment by an adult

And even in the unlikely case that the police refuse to grant a restraining order, I guarantee that the school will ban you from the premises.

You think ONE EMAIL is going to be enough for a restraining order? LOL (keeping in mind that you have no idea about the contents of this hypothetical email). This is obviously a troll thread, but it definitely brought out the hysterical lunatics.

If the girl’s parents file a bullying report against an adult, the default is to ban them — and they will remain banned while the meetings happen to sort everything out.

Yes, it can be over one email.

The girl has a legal right to an education and safe access to her high school. The parents of students do not have any legal rights to access a high school building and the default is to ban adults who pose even a small threat to a student.

Also, student could file a title IX complaint - students have a right to go to school free from sexual assault, sexual harassment, dating violence or abuse, stalking or retaliation for reporting any of those incidents.

In fact, by getting involved and calling the girl a slut or whore, the Mom could easily open her son up to accusations that he is using his mom as an instrument to perpetrate intimate partner abuse.

I'd inform the school that the slut raped my son. I bet dollars to donuts the other boys

would agree. Little tramp goes to jail.

You need to speak to a licensed therapist.

I think it’s that same icel. He is really messed up in the head.