Tell Me Not To Message Her Mom

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

I also would absolutely be calling her mother. As a mother I would want to know. The duaughter needs to get tested now too.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

+1. I’d also go to the school principal and file a written bullying form and ask for Mom to be put on a no contact list at school.

Yup. Same here.

May as well broadcast to the world that your daughter is a slut if you do that.

Oh honey, I'm a 47 year old gen exer. You are most certainly not going to slut shame me into silence. You're a nut job who needs to stay far away from people.

The "Oh honey" lady is here. She's still carrying that chip on her shoulder too.

No chip. Just have no time in my life for lunatics like yourself. I let the professionals deal with people like you.

Oh, honey.

I love that you're copying me now. I love that for you. Maybe some of my other smarts will rub off on you.

People- we are the midst of greatness here. Yes sirreee! PP is the inventor of "Oh, honey."

LOL. You're a sad, insecure, bitter lady.

Pot, meet kettle.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She’s not doing anything wrong unless she was lying to him. Teenagers do not have to be in committed relationships. Calm down, Mom.

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And even if she lied, they're 17. Move on.

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Move on and ASAP

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

I know right? OP is really close to getting banned from her son’s high school.

I mean, if posing a question on an anonymous message board is close, I guess she is.

I bet the DA would go for a felony!

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

I know right? OP is really close to getting banned from her son’s high school.

I mean, if posing a question on an anonymous message board is close, I guess she is.

She sounds like she’s really close to calling the girl’s family to berate them. So, yeah, she’s a phone call away from getting banned from the school.

Please. There's due process with this stuff. Kids bring weapons into school and don't even get trespassed. You are a moron, like we knew.

- educator for 17 years.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

I know right? OP is really close to getting banned from her son’s high school.

I mean, if posing a question on an anonymous message board is close, I guess she is.

She sounds like she’s really close to calling the girl’s family to berate them. So, yeah, she’s a phone call away from getting banned from the school.

Please. There's due process with this stuff. Kids bring weapons into school and don't even get trespassed. You are a moron, like we knew.

- educator for 17 years.

You’re comparing the process to ban a student with the process to ban an adult from the school.

Those are VERY different things.

A student has a legal right to an education. A random adult has no legal right to be on school grounds. If we were talking about expelling the boy, yes, there would be a whole process (and I agree nothing would happen.) But an adult? That’s the easiest decision ever. The mom would get banned from school grounds immediately.

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You raised him, OP. Why did he pick a cheater and a liar as a gf?

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

+1. I’d also go to the school principal and file a written bullying form and ask for Mom to be put on a no contact list at school.

Yup. Same here.

May as well broadcast to the world that your daughter is a slut if you do that.

Oh honey, I'm a 47 year old gen exer. You are most certainly not going to slut shame me into silence. You're a nut job who needs to stay far away from people.

The "Oh honey" lady is here. She's still carrying that chip on her shoulder too.

No chip. Just have no time in my life for lunatics like yourself. I let the professionals deal with people like you.

Oh, honey.

You are the one who is annoying, PP. If you don't like it, just don't post. But you can't help but respond again and again and again. You hijack every thread with your need to dominate the "Oh honey" poster. Get a life.

Oh, honey.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

+1. I’d also go to the school principal and file a written bullying form and ask for Mom to be put on a no contact list at school.

Yup. Same here.

May as well broadcast to the world that your daughter is a slut if you do that.

Oh honey, I'm a 47 year old gen exer. You are most certainly not going to slut shame me into silence. You're a nut job who needs to stay far away from people.

The "Oh honey" lady is here. She's still carrying that chip on her shoulder too.

No chip. Just have no time in my life for lunatics like yourself. I let the professionals deal with people like you.

Oh, honey.

I love that you're copying me now. I love that for you. Maybe some of my other smarts will rub off on you.

People- we are the midst of greatness here. Yes sirreee! PP is the inventor of "Oh, honey."

LOL. You're a sad, insecure, bitter lady.

Yet, I'm not the one calling 17 year old girls sluts and foaming at the mouth about calling their mother. I have no desire to continue this nonsense with you. This is why PP was right to suggest that the best way to deal with people like you and OP is an order of protection. You are just unhinged.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

I know right? OP is really close to getting banned from her son’s high school.

I mean, if posing a question on an anonymous message board is close, I guess she is.

She sounds like she’s really close to calling the girl’s family to berate them. So, yeah, she’s a phone call away from getting banned from the school.

Please. There's due process with this stuff. Kids bring weapons into school and don't even get trespassed. You are a moron, like we knew.

- educator for 17 years.

You’re comparing the process to ban a student with the process to ban an adult from the school.

Those are VERY different things.

A student has a legal right to an education. A random adult has no legal right to be on school grounds. If we were talking about expelling the boy, yes, there would be a whole process (and I agree nothing would happen.) But an adult? That’s the easiest decision ever. The mom would get banned from school grounds immediately.

Schools are public property paid for with OP's taxes. They can't ban her because another woman has a slut for a daughter.

This thread is getting too stupid for words. If you believe that, try to walk into any school in the middle of the school day. See how that works out for you.

Ha. I just did an hour ago.

Try again.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

I know right? OP is really close to getting banned from her son’s high school.

I mean, if posing a question on an anonymous message board is close, I guess she is.

She sounds like she’s really close to calling the girl’s family to berate them. So, yeah, she’s a phone call away from getting banned from the school.

Please. There's due process with this stuff. Kids bring weapons into school and don't even get trespassed. You are a moron, like we knew.

- educator for 17 years.

You’re comparing the process to ban a student with the process to ban an adult from the school.

Those are VERY different things.

A student has a legal right to an education. A random adult has no legal right to be on school grounds. If we were talking about expelling the boy, yes, there would be a whole process (and I agree nothing would happen.) But an adult? That’s the easiest decision ever. The mom would get banned from school grounds immediately.

Schools are public property paid for with OP's taxes. They can't ban her because another woman has a slut for a daughter.

See you came back with another gem. They can ban her if she is harassing another parent or a child.

They don't care. They have drugs and guns and knives and mass shootings to think about. They LITERALLY couldn't care any less about a boy who was jilted by a girl. Give me a break.

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Way to help your son grow into a man, OP -- do his emotional and relationship work for him. You are destroying him. You sound like a ball breaker.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

"Officer, listen. My daughter likes to spend a lot of time on her back. That's true. And, yes, she likes to keep a full stable. And she lies a bunch. But, really, the problem is a mom of one of her tricks is upset with us."

LOL.

If you confirm your son is as engaging in prostitution, he’s the one who’s going to get arrested. LOL indeed.

Also, realistically it would go more like this:

Officer, the mother of a young man my daughter rejected romantically is very angry about how the relationship ended. The boy’s mother is verbally attacking and harassing my minor child. I would like a restraining order so my minor child can attend school safely and not have fear harassment by an adult

And even in the unlikely case that the police refuse to grant a restraining order, I guarantee that the school will ban you from the premises.

Tell me you have zero experience with the criminal justice system without telling me you have zero experience with the criminal justice system.

All right, you’ve convinced me. OP should call the girl’s parents and tell them what a skanky, psycho little whore they raised. She should call the girl too! Someone needs to stand up for her son!

You're conflating two entirely separate questions. It's a bad idea to contact the girl's parents, but that doesn't mean that it would be sufficient for a restraining order. But go on with your hysterical self.

You're addressing someone that thinks "Oh, honey" is witty. they can barely tie their shoes.

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Anonymous wrote:I came home to a distraught, heartbroken, 17 year old son last night. He found out his gf of 9 months actually had 2 other boyfriends. Besides having him screened for STDs, my first thought is to message the mom and let he know what a skanky little POS her daughter is. I'd use polite language of course, but even still there's a part of me that thinks theres no way of doing it without looking a bit crazy.

Honestly if I was the girl’s mom and got this kind of message from a grown woman I’d go to the police.

"Officer, listen. My daughter likes to spend a lot of time on her back. That's true. And, yes, she likes to keep a full stable. And she lies a bunch. But, really, the problem is a mom of one of her tricks is upset with us."

LOL.

If you confirm your son is as engaging in prostitution, he’s the one who’s going to get arrested. LOL indeed.

Also, realistically it would go more like this:

Officer, the mother of a young man my daughter rejected romantically is very angry about how the relationship ended. The boy’s mother is verbally attacking and harassing my minor child. I would like a restraining order so my minor child can attend school safely and not have fear harassment by an adult

And even in the unlikely case that the police refuse to grant a restraining order, I guarantee that the school will ban you from the premises.

Tell me you have zero experience with the criminal justice system without telling me you have zero experience with the criminal justice system.

All right, you’ve convinced me. OP should call the girl’s parents and tell them what a skanky, psycho little whore they raised. She should call the girl too! Someone needs to stand up for her son!

You're conflating two entirely separate questions. It's a bad idea to contact the girl's parents, but that doesn't mean that it would be sufficient for a restraining order. But go on with your hysterical self.

You're addressing someone that thinks "Oh, honey" is witty. they can barely tie their shoes.

Boy am I living in your head rent free.

Not the PP you're responding to BTW

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You raised him, OP. Why did he pick a cheater and a liar as a gf?

Has sex even been verified?

This whole post and thread reminds me of 10 yos when they “are dating and go to Starbies once a week on a date.”