Husband invited family without my consent

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had our sweet baby boy an earlier this month. We had local family meet him in the hospital and our extended family got to meet him over FaceTime. We had discussed family eventually but to meet him but didn’t have any set plans. My husband drops the bomb today that he forgot to mention to me that he invited people over for this weekend ( friends) and his family ( parents + brother) plan to come meet our son at the end of next week. I’m pretty furious. He looked genuinely surprised that I was upset by all of this. Would I be an Ahole if I called and canceled? Should I just shut up and have them come?

I am genuinely surprised too. Yes, you would be the glass bowl. What is your problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had our sweet baby boy an earlier this month. We had local family meet him in the hospital and our extended family got to meet him over FaceTime. We had discussed family eventually but to meet him but didn’t have any set plans. My husband drops the bomb today that he forgot to mention to me that he invited people over for this weekend ( friends) and his family ( parents + brother) plan to come meet our son at the end of next week. I’m pretty furious. He looked genuinely surprised that I was upset by all of this. Would I be an Ahole if I called and canceled? Should I just shut up and have them come?

I am genuinely surprised too. Yes, you would be the glass bowl. What is your problem.

It is still possible to develop postpartum medical issues that close to giving birth. OP can say she is not well and have that be the end of it.

So many bitter hags on this thread. Wonder why you are on DCUM instead of with families. Oh they probably dont want you around for good reason.