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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Older women dating younger guys gives more people the ick than the other way around [/quote]
That’s going to depend on the IQ, education level, geographical distribution, religion-adherence, and political party of the people surveyed.  Most people I know would be far more grossed out by an old guy targeting a younger woman. There’s much more likely to be exploitation involved.[/quote]

My 28 year younger gf tells me she loves me more than any other past bf/lover. She previously dated a man 20yr older than her

She is smart as hell - medical student

She is very attractive - solid 7 in scrubs and 8.5 when she gets dolled up for me

She is super liberal and I’m somewhat conservative (not a trumper) and she describes herself as feminist

She comes from “decent” family - PHD/professor parents. Three siblings. Tight knit

She tells me I treat her so right. Unlike the boys her age

We have hours long conversations several times a week about meaningful things in life. Unlike boys her age who want to talk about video games getting wasted and other stupid immature conversations

She loves how I make her come 3+ times and make love for hours each time we are iintimate vs the boys her age who finish in 10-30mins and get excited pretending they are porn stars

She tells she she appreciates the life lessons about money, savings, financial security that she received from me (her parents as highly educated as they are are academics with little practical knowledge on wealth building)

I told her from day 1 we are not a forever couple (due to age gap) but she appreciates “the healthiest relationship” she has had and that I’ve set the bar so high she would never waste time on guys who don’t treat her right - when she is ready to find her forever relationship

We don’t do date nights a lot because I always tell her she needs to socialize with her peers / age group etc. I sometimes get texts from her late weekend nights how she is bored with her friends and rather be home with me. Happened Saturday night lol!

She is not a sugar baby. Apart from she lives rent free at my place

Anyone who thinks there is exploitation in this relationship can best be described as .. mentally challenged 🤪

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She’s not smart and sold  herself for free rent at critical age for finding a spouse. She should be actively dating young doctors she’s at school with, otherwise she’ll be single after 30 scrambling to find a husband. There are men in their 30s who are just as well established as you are.

I married an 11 years older man at 25, when I already had 2 grad degrees and an excellent job. Had a baby at 26; first house at 27. We were both working and contributing relative our income into marriage - nobody had “free rent” as motivator to be in the relationship. Traveled all over the world and had date nights every week. We were making 300k in joint income back in early 2000s; close to a million at the time of divorce. I wouldn’t have married anyone like you with such limited life outlook.

As my exH turned 50, he had a midlife crisis and our age difference and interests drifted apart. 11 years feel great when you are 25 and he’s 36. Terrible in middle age. We divorced but I don’t regret marriage and my son. We’ve built tremendous wealth so I exited with own business worth a few million.

You GF is not practical and likely not even a 7. Smart and attractive women marry well in late 20s. 
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5'8, 125lbs, blue eyes, blonde hair, GND super cute facial features and when she dresses up with makeup on turns heads like no one else

in her words she has no time to date young doctors (who themselves have no time to date) .. she isn't a resident she is in med school ;) i think you are referring to residency when docs date and find their partners .. she has a few years to go and most likely will not be doing residency in the DC area (if you know anything about how medical residency works) so by then our relationship will have run its course and she will be free to find her forever person

but thanks for your bitter negative comments and enjoy the rest of your sad midlife 
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Okay but she’s at high risk of complaining on this board at 35 that all decent men her age and slightly older are “taken”. She should be very actively dating 30s men NOW to get married and have kids by 35. Of course if that’s what she wants [/quote]

i'm not in the medical profession myself ... but my whole family on my mothers side (8 cousins) are all MDs and they all found MD spouses within 2-3 years of their own age during residency in their early 30s or late 20s. this girl has a long time to go. let her concentrate on her MD education and pseudo sugar daddy for now
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I get it - seems like medical ladies have it more difficult way than MBAs. The dude is not even remotely qualified for a good sugar daddy. Any smart woman would find ways paying her rent than putting out for a 20+ older man. Or will find a real sugar daddy

And why don’t you marry her, the PP older man ? Is that because you realize she only needs you for free rent ? [/quote]

No interest in marriage. I’ve been married 20yrs have two kids. Now I’m enjoying an ENM and poly lifestyle. MD girl is my primary nesting partner for the past almost 3 years. I have another lover she is in her 30s divorced single mom who has no interest in marriage again either.  I’ve been dating her almost 5yrs

The best part is they know each other are great friends and on occasion we have special “fun” nights together.

Now why would I want to be married?

Oh and in case you are wondering I own my own company have almost 50 employees and several managers who run things for me.  I spend 5-10hr a week “working” I’ll be 50 next year. I have the life most can only dream of

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