How to get over someone you had the most incredible chemistry with

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No matter how many years pass, this person still naturally feels like 'the one'. There is this undying spiritual connection that never fades. No matter the circumstance. It’s just too bad when you meet them at the wrong time. You just wish someday you will meet them again somewhere between the moon and the stars but life goes on.

But those things are so often one-sided. You pining over “the one”, the other person has long forgotten.

NP. How would you know that?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It makes a lot of women feel better if they fantasize they were something more than a temporary warm hole to the guy that dumped them.

Yep.

It may be difficult for posters to realize if you haven't had that life experience before but some people have had incredible chemistry without using one another.

Yeah- so we got married.

It’s quite obvious the guy didn’t feel the same.

It's quite obvious that some posters here are highly emotionally immature and will never understand the simply concept that other people have different conditions in life. The fact that you were able to make it work with someone you had chemistry with does not mean that everyone else is able to work their situations out so simply. There are literally about 50 classic pieces of literature about this exact topic. The fact that so many grown adults cannot conceive of romance outside of the context of marriage is actually so embarrassing, juvenile, and puritanical of them, that it's genuinely hilarious. I swear the population of this board is made up of emotional toddlers stuck in some 1950s version of the world

And so many women live in a complete fairy tale. Christ, listen to yourself, Cinderella.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No matter how many years pass, this person still naturally feels like 'the one'. There is this undying spiritual connection that never fades. No matter the circumstance. It’s just too bad when you meet them at the wrong time. You just wish someday you will meet them again somewhere between the moon and the stars but life goes on.

But those things are so often one-sided. You pining over “the one”, the other person has long forgotten.

NP. How would you know that?

How would she?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No matter how many years pass, this person still naturally feels like 'the one'. There is this undying spiritual connection that never fades. No matter the circumstance. It’s just too bad when you meet them at the wrong time. You just wish someday you will meet them again somewhere between the moon and the stars but life goes on.

But those things are so often one-sided. You pining over “the one”, the other person has long forgotten.

NP. How would you know that?

How would she?

Because she's herself? LOL what are you talking about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It makes a lot of women feel better if they fantasize they were something more than a temporary warm hole to the guy that dumped them.

Yep.

It may be difficult for posters to realize if you haven't had that life experience before but some people have had incredible chemistry without using one another.

Yeah- so we got married.

It’s quite obvious the guy didn’t feel the same.

It's quite obvious that some posters here are highly emotionally immature and will never understand the simply concept that other people have different conditions in life. The fact that you were able to make it work with someone you had chemistry with does not mean that everyone else is able to work their situations out so simply. There are literally about 50 classic pieces of literature about this exact topic. The fact that so many grown adults cannot conceive of romance outside of the context of marriage is actually so embarrassing, juvenile, and puritanical of them, that it's genuinely hilarious. I swear the population of this board is made up of emotional toddlers stuck in some 1950s version of the world

And so many women live in a complete fairy tale. Christ, listen to yourself, Cinderella.

Exhibit A. I truly think some of these people are autistic or otherwise lacking in emotional intelligence.

[Anonymous]

You've got the imagination, so make it work in your favor. Visualize him 15 years older, 50 pounds heavier, and bald. Imagine him unemployed and playing video games all day. Imagine him leaving his socks everywhere, not helping out with the kids, and jerking off to OnlyFans while you do the dishes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It makes a lot of women feel better if they fantasize they were something more than a temporary warm hole to the guy that dumped them.

Yep.

It may be difficult for posters to realize if you haven't had that life experience before but some people have had incredible chemistry without using one another.

Yeah- so we got married.

It’s quite obvious the guy didn’t feel the same.

It's quite obvious that some posters here are highly emotionally immature and will never understand the simply concept that other people have different conditions in life. The fact that you were able to make it work with someone you had chemistry with does not mean that everyone else is able to work their situations out so simply. There are literally about 50 classic pieces of literature about this exact topic. The fact that so many grown adults cannot conceive of romance outside of the context of marriage is actually so embarrassing, juvenile, and puritanical of them, that it's genuinely hilarious. I swear the population of this board is made up of emotional toddlers stuck in some 1950s version of the world

And so many women live in a complete fairy tale. Christ, listen to yourself, Cinderella.

Have you even read the PP or this thread?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You've got the imagination, so make it work in your favor. Visualize him 15 years older, 50 pounds heavier, and bald. Imagine him unemployed and playing video games all day. Imagine him leaving his socks everywhere, not helping out with the kids, and jerking off to OnlyFans while you do the dishes.

I'm sorry your partner does this. You can probably do better.

[Anonymous]

Were you the other woman, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You've got the imagination, so make it work in your favor. Visualize him 15 years older, 50 pounds heavier, and bald. Imagine him unemployed and playing video games all day. Imagine him leaving his socks everywhere, not helping out with the kids, and jerking off to OnlyFans while you do the dishes.

I'm sorry your partner does this. You can probably do better.

Not my husband. My husband makes 700k, has lot of hair, and is currently giving our kids a bath! But keep on pining for your pretend lover.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You've got the imagination, so make it work in your favor. Visualize him 15 years older, 50 pounds heavier, and bald. Imagine him unemployed and playing video games all day. Imagine him leaving his socks everywhere, not helping out with the kids, and jerking off to OnlyFans while you do the dishes.

I'm sorry your partner does this. You can probably do better.

Not my husband. My husband makes 700k, has lot of hair, and is currently giving our kids a bath! But keep on pining for your pretend lover.

So much projection and insecurity on this thread. I'm not pining over a single person. I'm not looking either.

[Anonymous]

Are you his teacher, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You've got the imagination, so make it work in your favor. Visualize him 15 years older, 50 pounds heavier, and bald. Imagine him unemployed and playing video games all day. Imagine him leaving his socks everywhere, not helping out with the kids, and jerking off to OnlyFans while you do the dishes.

I'm sorry your partner does this. You can probably do better.

Not my husband. My husband makes 700k, has lot of hair, and is currently giving our kids a bath! But keep on pining for your pretend lover.

So much projection and insecurity on this thread. I'm not pining over a single person. I'm not looking either.

Pining over a married person, then? Sorry to hear that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You've got the imagination, so make it work in your favor. Visualize him 15 years older, 50 pounds heavier, and bald. Imagine him unemployed and playing video games all day. Imagine him leaving his socks everywhere, not helping out with the kids, and jerking off to OnlyFans while you do the dishes.

I'm sorry your partner does this. You can probably do better.

Not my husband. My husband makes 700k, has lot of hair, and is currently giving our kids a bath! But keep on pining for your pretend lover.

So much projection and insecurity on this thread. I'm not pining over a single person. I'm not looking either.

Pining over a married person, then? Sorry to hear that.

Clearly you have stopped reading posts or you are trolling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You've got the imagination, so make it work in your favor. Visualize him 15 years older, 50 pounds heavier, and bald. Imagine him unemployed and playing video games all day. Imagine him leaving his socks everywhere, not helping out with the kids, and jerking off to OnlyFans while you do the dishes.

I'm sorry your partner does this. You can probably do better.

Not my husband. My husband makes 700k, has lot of hair, and is currently giving our kids a bath! But keep on pining for your pretend lover.

So much projection and insecurity on this thread. I'm not pining over a single person. I'm not looking either.

Pining over a married person, then? Sorry to hear that.

Clearly you have stopped reading posts or you are trolling.

Either you forgot what you wrote, or you're as bad at writing posts as you are at relationships. Better luck next time.