Marrying a nice rich guy

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Anonymous wrote:Are you gorgeous? That certainly helps. I have a gorgeous, flirtatious friend who was basically a secretary at a hedge fund. She was always meeting and dating very wealthy men. Unfortunately none of them married her and saw her just as someone to sleep with. She's now mid40s and still single although still dating plenty of rich men. I also know of another woman who was a secretary at a recruiter for finance positions and met her now-rich husband there. She's no looker but somehow she snagged him.

If OP were gorgeous, she would not be asking these questions.... It's not hard to get a rich guy if you're gorgeous.

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Anonymous wrote:What happened to marrying someone you love and are absolutely crazy about? Marriage and kids are hard, and if you don’t have a foundation built on genuine love and trust, I don’t imagine a marriage will be healthy and happy.

But why not fall in love and be crazy about someone rich?

You don’t “choose” who you fall in love with. Love picks you.

False. Love, like any feeling, is created by our thoughts, and our thoughts are within our control.

Wrong. You can’t will yourself to love someone. If you think you can, you’ve never been in love before. Real love is like a tidal wave. It’s a force that you can’t stop. You don’t do conjure that up in your mind. You can choose to walk away, but you can’t just make that happen.

You can’t make it happen but you can stop it and you can force yourself out of it. Believe me I had to.