If you are divorced and will never remarry

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How old are you? How old when you divorced? Why will you never remarry?

59, 59. Don't want to take care of another person ever again, except my children and grand children.

Amen. Cannot wait for my gray divorce! Counting down the years. Will take a 3 month cruise to celebrate right after the 6 month separation clocks out. Hooray! No more idiotic selfish narc spouse.

How old are you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How old are you? How old when you divorced? Why will you never remarry?

I said I’d never remarry and then 9 years later, I remarried.

How old were you when you divorced and when you remarried?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How old are you? How old when you divorced? Why will you never remarry?

59, 59. Don't want to take care of another person ever again, except my children and grand children.

Are you me? LOL I'm 50, divorcing, and feel the same! No grandkids yet but look forward to it!

Not remarrying-ever. I've had my kids. Not interested in caring for another grumpy man. Not going to be a stepmom. I want 'my' kids to inherit my assets (such as they are, not a fortune lol). When I retire I'm going to go where I want to go and do what I want to do. Maybe I'll get a dozen cats and chickens HAHAHA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You folks who “have your own retirement” and will never remarry, just curious what is your income and net worth?

F, 45. Income 400k, NW 12.7m (trust fund involved).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is so depressing.

This thread demonstrates there are so so many bitter women on this site…. “ Men” generalized, criticized over and over.

I am a man and I don't see it that way. What is the point if marriage if you aren't having kids? I will never marry again, but it doesn't mean I am not open to a committed long term relationship. I just don't need the government involved if the relationship needs to end.

Women that are reading this are mad that there are people that don’t want to mix finances because that is why they marry, so somebody can support them. That is “true love” to them. Most of us want that money fir our children/grandchildren and ourselves and they think that is “selfish”. But I think it’s selfish gut an adult to expect to fiend other rolled money.

Uh, what thread are YOU reading? That is all in your head, dude. There has not been one woman PP on this thread who is MAD that a man doesn’t want to remarry and commingle finances. I don’t know what world you are living in that that was your takeaway from 9 pages of posts….

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are you? How old when you divorced? Why will you never remarry?

59, 59. Don't want to take care of another person ever again, except my children and grand children.

Are you me? LOL I'm 50, divorcing, and feel the same! No grandkids yet but look forward to it!

Not remarrying-ever. I've had my kids. Not interested in caring for another grumpy man. Not going to be a stepmom. I want 'my' kids to inherit my assets (such as they are, not a fortune lol). When I retire I'm going to go where I want to go and do what I want to do. Maybe I'll get a dozen cats and chickens HAHAHA

I hope you do, PP! Whatever makes you happy!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is so depressing.

This thread demonstrates there are so so many bitter women on this site…. “ Men” generalized, criticized over and over.

NP. I didn't see any bitter woman. What I read was that women now wanted their own time and wanted to be able to focus on their own thing, and most importantly they are able to do so because they are financially stable. You should feel good too because you'll know that women are with you because they want to and not for financial reasons. What rubbed you the wrong way?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^ Have you actually read this thread? Most of the women have said they would not remarry bc they don’t want to commingle assets, take care of someone, etc. Just like the men who responded.

I’m talking about the women saying this is depressing and people can’t commit.

What they are saying is it’s depressing that they can’t scam people out of their money anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread is so depressing.

This thread demonstrates there are so so many bitter women on this site…. “ Men” generalized, criticized over and over.

I am a man and I don't see it that way. What is the point if marriage if you aren't having kids? I will never marry again, but it doesn't mean I am not open to a committed long term relationship. I just don't need the government involved if the relationship needs to end.

Women that are reading this are mad that there are people that don’t want to mix finances because that is why they marry, so somebody can support them. That is “true love” to them. Most of us want that money fir our children/grandchildren and ourselves and they think that is “selfish”. But I think it’s selfish gut an adult to expect to fiend other rolled money.

Uh, what thread are YOU reading? That is all in your head, dude. There has not been one woman PP on this thread who is MAD that a man doesn’t want to remarry and commingle finances. I don’t know what world you are living in that that was your takeaway from 9 pages of posts….

I’m on a thread that people are commenting it depressing and women are selfish for not sharing 1/2 their assets in a marriage.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You folks who “have your own retirement” and will never remarry, just curious what is your income and net worth?

F, 45. Income 400k, NW 12.7m (trust fund involved).

Is it your employment income or from the trust fund ?

[Anonymous]

All men should be required to read this board for at least two hours before considering marriage.

[Anonymous]

I see the accommodations and compromises the married old people I know have to make. They are miserable. I know that placating is not for me.

My ex was a huge drain on me. Hi want to make my own decisions. And in her wanted to risk a step father around my girls.

I work. I don’t need a man and I don’t want the trouble they bring. Big spoiled babies. Never mind if yours takes a torn for the worst - lying, cheating, under employment, whatever. I just can’t trust anyone with that kind of power over me and my kids.

I wish I could. But I can’t.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You folks who “have your own retirement” and will never remarry, just curious what is your income and net worth?

F, 45. Income 400k, NW 12.7m (trust fund involved).

Is it your employment income or from the trust fund ?

Employment income.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How old are you? How old when you divorced? Why will you never remarry?

I said I’d never remarry and then 9 years later, I remarried.

How old were you when you divorced and when you remarried?

I was 35 when I divorced.

[Anonymous]

Why are there so many rich people on this thread?