I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sorry if this has been covered (I wish I could spend time reading 88 pages, but alas, I have work to do).

Could he have lost his phone and your number along with it? Could he contact you if he lost your number (does he know your friends' numbers or any thing)? I guess he would email you??

Op here: I guess it's a possibility that he could have lost my # if he lost his phone but doesn't explain him not being able to contact me on FB

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:See, I don't understand why you are willing to invest all this time discussing, but never just calling his work or calling the sheriff back and getting a fast answer. Why not do those things?

Op here: that farm is almost 5 hours from him, he doesn't work for that farm that was posted

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did you have for breakfast OP?

OP here: nothing, I don't eat breakfast ever

Jesus H. Christ, here's OP again, no life at all. This. This right here is why you haven't heard from him. You are SO stalker-like, no wonder he isn't returning your calls. Examine the patterns in your little fairy tale LD/internet "relationships". It's not them honey, it's YOU

Just go away, PP. You are being no help to OP and she is going through something that's a big deal to her. If you can't offer support than go away. And before throwing stones at her "no life" take a look at yours - reading all this.

to OP - hang in there. Hope you can get some closure and move past this a-hole.

[Anonymous]

OP, I really think you should call his work. I'm not sure the uncle is going to respond to you at all if he didn't accept your fb friend request.

And then I do think you should call the sheriff back, because that's just BS if they really didn't call you back.

I hope you do get some answers.

[Anonymous]

Oh, I see you said he doesn't really work for that farm. Are you sure? How come it's on his fb page?

[Anonymous]

Another DCUMer posted this, but I'm reposting here for all those asking questions:

Anonymous wrote:Its hard to explain the epic nature of this thread, but one of the amazing things about it is following the real time, rabid, sleuthing skills of the DCUM community, particular as compared to the OP's basic life skillz.

In part, OP was unable to provide a full picture up front. Started with missing boyfriend and spiraled from there. But key in the turning points of DCUM sympathy was when OP posted her BF was going hunting bobcat in N. Maine. Soon, DCUMers provided a chart proving that it was not bobcat season (but it was gray squirrel season) and thus "poaching bobcat" entered the vocabulary.

OP also posted numerous times on how she had, like, no way to find anyone to help her figure out what happened. Within a brief period of time, DCUMers had not only located a picture and name of the barbarically bearded, cow hauling lothario, who may or may not also be a meth dealer, but also his jolly uncle J, who runs an ice fishing business and has a Facebook page for his dog, or something and, importantly, was NOT hunting with his nephew over the weekend (sadly I missed the posts where the name was posted, so I have not been able to see Jolly Uncle J's FB page, but I hear he's quite a character).

DCUM provided numerous ways to contact Uncle J--and in fact, some perhaps did even contact him--but OP herself seems to have trouble with the mechanics of calling. We are all unclear as to whether OP actually called the sheriff or not, but perhaps Missing Boyfriend and Sheriff are in a meth cartel together.

Halfway through the thread, Jeff pulled up another thread from a couple months ago where OP was complaining that her "boyfriend" would often disappear for hours or days and not answer his phone, and that he lied about stuff. DCUM counseled that she DTMF, but one savvy poster, noting her ostrich like tendency to bury her head in the sand, predicted that she'd be back in two months complaining about him. Et voila. The OP's concern has gone from "Super concerned" to "slightly concerned" but has not yet been able to let it go.


I think we need to let DCUM handle this break up, but I am still trying to figure out the best way. At the very least, MissingBoyfriend88 needs to see this thread so he can see what majesty he has wrought.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did you have for breakfast OP?

OP here: nothing, I don't eat breakfast ever

Jesus H. Christ, here's OP again, no life at all. This. This right here is why you haven't heard from him. You are SO stalker-like, no wonder he isn't returning your calls. Examine the patterns in your little fairy tale LD/internet "relationships". It's not them honey, it's YOU

You're a jerk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did you have for breakfast OP?

OP here: nothing, I don't eat breakfast ever

Jesus H. Christ, here's OP again, no life at all. This. This right here is why you haven't heard from him. You are SO stalker-like, no wonder he isn't returning your calls. Examine the patterns in your little fairy tale LD/internet "relationships". It's not them honey, it's YOU

No life? At least she's talking about people she knows in real life, we are the ones captivated by her. I'd put down that 'no life' stone PP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh, I see you said he doesn't really work for that farm. Are you sure? How come it's on his fb page?

Op here: it's not at all, idk where people
Even found that

[Anonymous]

When the boyfriend does show up, can we somehow get him to come and talk to us? Please!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:See, I don't understand why you are willing to invest all this time discussing, but never just calling his work or calling the sheriff back and getting a fast answer. Why not do those things?

Because she is either a seasoned troll or stalking this guy

[Anonymous]

No No No, people!! She should not call anyone. She should not get in touch with anyone. She needs to delete everything related to him. He lied about everything. There is nothing to gain by continuing to reach out to his connections. NOTHING. NOTHING. NOTHING!! Come on!

[Anonymous]

09:28 here - Also, she could just be a troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:See, I don't understand why you are willing to invest all this time discussing, but never just calling his work or calling the sheriff back and getting a fast answer. Why not do those things?

Because she is either a seasoned troll or stalking this guy

Op here: yes, because for 3 days now I really wanted to carry on this "story" on this forum. Shut up with the troll comments. I've explained myself 3737373 times and I won't keep doing it. And no, I'm not "stalking" him. Please stop.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did you have for breakfast OP?

OP here: nothing, I don't eat breakfast ever

Jesus H. Christ, here's OP again, no life at all. This. This right here is why you haven't heard from him. You are SO stalker-like, no wonder he isn't returning your calls. Examine the patterns in your little fairy tale LD/internet "relationships". It's not them honey, it's YOU

No life? At least she's talking about people she knows in real life, we are the ones captivated by her. I'd put down that 'no life' stone PP.

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