Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?

[Anonymous]

I mean, when your college aged boy and his girl friend are back home from the winter break, do you prepare one bedroom or separated two bedrooms for them?

[Anonymous]

First two years, separate rooms. Juniors and up, same.

[Anonymous]

We have a boy and a girl, and our home, our rules:

No ring, separate rooms.

[Anonymous]

Separate room. Unless they r planing to conceive.

[Anonymous]

My parents did separate rooms until we were living together. Then one room.

[Anonymous]

If they are in a committed relationship same room.

[Anonymous]

No, but I know he sneaks into DD’s room in the middle of the night. Aged 21.

[Anonymous]

We made up the guest room and let them decide ( first visit dd stayed in her own room; 2nd, 3rd and 4th she stayed in guest room with bf). By the time we met DD’s bf they had done a 100 mile backpacking trip together and also traveled all over Europe. Requiring them to be in separate rooms would have been ( IMO) kinda disrespectful to the connection they had built with each other. They’re not together anymore but no regrets.

[Anonymous]

Separate bedrooms are just a matter of principle nothing more. By the way, how come people with more kids and less bedrooms handle it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Separate bedrooms are just a matter of principle nothing more. By the way, how come people with more kids and less bedrooms handle it?

What principal?

[Anonymous]

The girlfriend isn’t staying. If she has no where to go, as in international student- hotel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We made up the guest room and let them decide ( first visit dd stayed in her own room; 2nd, 3rd and 4th she stayed in guest room with bf). By the time we met DD’s bf they had done a 100 mile backpacking trip together and also traveled all over Europe. Requiring them to be in separate rooms would have been ( IMO) kinda disrespectful to the connection they had built with each other. They’re not together anymore but no regrets.

That was a situationship, not a connection if they aren't together or friends anymore.

[Anonymous]

Separate rooms while I am paying tuition. My house is not their love nest. If they are sneaking into rooms, the bf/gf will not be invited again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My parents did separate rooms until we were living together. Then one room.

+1 I expect that I will follow this "rule" as well with my own kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We made up the guest room and let them decide ( first visit dd stayed in her own room; 2nd, 3rd and 4th she stayed in guest room with bf). By the time we met DD’s bf they had done a 100 mile backpacking trip together and also traveled all over Europe. Requiring them to be in separate rooms would have been ( IMO) kinda disrespectful to the connection they had built with each other. They’re not together anymore but no regrets.

That was a situationship, not a connection if they aren't together or friends anymore.

or it was a relationship that didn't work out.