I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

OP here: do you really think that I am going to post a picture of myself on here? No. However, I'm sure Jeff would be able to find out who I am (name, etc.) and be able to look me up and see that I have told the truth about myself, age, where I live, that I have my own business, etc.

Yet you will expose him, his uncle, his aunt, their business. Their dog OP, their cute dog with diabetes!

T-R-O-L-L-I-N-G
You ain't got no alibi you're trolling hey hey you're trolling.

Please don't post a text and a selfie of this poor guy. You've already caused him to scrub his internet presence.

OP here: lol I actually did none of that, that was PP's who posted personal info. And no, he hasn't "scrubbed his internet presence" as he's still on FB.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

OP here: actually, I can post a screen shot of our text convo where he sent me a selfie of himself at work just mid last week. If someone can tell me how I can upload that, I'll glady do that to prove I do in fact know him, talk to him...whatever you wanna say.

Have only read about a 1/4 of this but it is very clear to me that you would great benefit from therapy. Please look into it.

keep reading then

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone suggesting this thread be locked has no business being here. Go poach a bobcat!!

Exactly! I didn't spend my afternoon trolling strangers FB pages and reading about a bearded, cow-hauling liar for this thread to end up locked!

I just about wet myself when I read this I laughed so hard. Good job pp.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

OP here: do you really think that I am going to post a picture of myself on here? No. However, I'm sure Jeff would be able to find out who I am (name, etc.) and be able to look me up and see that I have told the truth about myself, age, where I live, that I have my own business, etc.

Yet you will expose him, his uncle, his aunt, their business. Their dog OP, their cute dog with diabetes!

T-R-O-L-L-I-N-G
You ain't got no alibi you're trolling hey hey you're trolling.

Please don't post a text and a selfie of this poor guy. You've already caused him to scrub his internet presence.

OP here: lol I actually did none of that, that was PP's who posted personal info. And no, he hasn't "scrubbed his internet presence" as he's still on FB.

You posted the uncle's full last name and first initial. And your "BF"s town, etc. For heaven's sake, take some responsibility.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Jeff didn't vouch for you. He said he wasn't sure if you are a troll because you're remarkably consistent with your theme across threads. Your appeal to authority for legitimacy makes me even more convinced you're troling....master class though.

OP here: Okay, again...I really don't care what you do and don't believe. If he wants to lock or delete this thread, I really don't care at this point. I'd almost prefer it at this point as the nastiness is getting insane. I would NEVER sit on an anonymous forum and treat someone like such shit just because I could hide behind my computer and have no one know who I really was. It's really disgusting to be honest.

I keep asking for people to back off and stop being nasty as I was and STILL am slightly concerned but obviously now, the situation is a bit different as someon PP's figured out that he was most likely lying about the Maine thing for me but that doesn't mean I'm not still slightly worried about him.

Are your for serious?! You fed this beast of a thread with snipets of information, and emotional arc. If you're 'over it' quit engaging and feeding the beast, and fighiting the fight.

And for the record, calling the story into question isn't nastiness. It's a discussion forum, people discuss.

[Anonymous]

You also told us your BF's age and first initial and job, etc.

[Anonymous]

OP, I think you should nap some type of blog sponsor or book deal for this thread and turn a profit. Make lemonade!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Jeff didn't vouch for you. He said he wasn't sure if you are a troll because you're remarkably consistent with your theme across threads. Your appeal to authority for legitimacy makes me even more convinced you're troling....master class though.

OP here: Okay, again...I really don't care what you do and don't believe. If he wants to lock or delete this thread, I really don't care at this point. I'd almost prefer it at this point as the nastiness is getting insane. I would NEVER sit on an anonymous forum and treat someone like such shit just because I could hide behind my computer and have no one know who I really was. It's really disgusting to be honest.

I keep asking for people to back off and stop being nasty as I was and STILL am slightly concerned but obviously now, the situation is a bit different as someon PP's figured out that he was most likely lying about the Maine thing for me but that doesn't mean I'm not still slightly worried about him.

Are your for serious?! You fed this beast of a thread with snipets of information, and emotional arc. If you're 'over it' quit engaging and feeding the beast, and fighiting the fight.

And for the record, calling the story into question isn't nastiness. It's a discussion forum, people discuss.

Sure but it's possible to do that without being an anonymous bitch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I think you should nap some type of blog sponsor or book deal for this thread and turn a profit. Make lemonade!

Absolutely! I am waiting to see a feature article on this whole story.

[Anonymous]

I'm afraid to go to bed because I fear I'll wake up and this thread will be deleted.
I really want OP to be able to get some sort of explanation for this b/c I want to hear what the guy would say for himself!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Jeff didn't vouch for you. He said he wasn't sure if you are a troll because you're remarkably consistent with your theme across threads. Your appeal to authority for legitimacy makes me even more convinced you're troling....master class though.

OP here: Okay, again...I really don't care what you do and don't believe. If he wants to lock or delete this thread, I really don't care at this point. I'd almost prefer it at this point as the nastiness is getting insane. I would NEVER sit on an anonymous forum and treat someone like such shit just because I could hide behind my computer and have no one know who I really was. It's really disgusting to be honest.

I keep asking for people to back off and stop being nasty as I was and STILL am slightly concerned but obviously now, the situation is a bit different as someon PP's figured out that he was most likely lying about the Maine thing for me but that doesn't mean I'm not still slightly worried about him.

Are your for serious?! You fed this beast of a thread with snipets of information, and emotional arc. If you're 'over it' quit engaging and feeding the beast, and fighiting the fight.

And for the record, calling the story into question isn't nastiness. It's a discussion forum, people discuss.

Sure but it's possible to do that without being an anonymous bitch.

Only half of that is possible...it's an anonymous forum....

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

OP here: do you really think that I am going to post a picture of myself on here? No. However, I'm sure Jeff would be able to find out who I am (name, etc.) and be able to look me up and see that I have told the truth about myself, age, where I live, that I have my own business, etc.

Yet you will expose him, his uncle, his aunt, their business. Their dog OP, their cute dog with diabetes!

T-R-O-L-L-I-N-G
You ain't got no alibi you're trolling hey hey you're trolling.

Please don't post a text and a selfie of this poor guy. You've already caused him to scrub his internet presence.

OP here: lol I actually did none of that, that was PP's who posted personal info. And no, he hasn't "scrubbed his internet presence" as he's still on FB.

Do you ever write him on facebook? If so, you can tell the last time he was on through messenger.

[Anonymous]

From page 7 of this thread - here is the post of an eerily omniscient DCUMer who referenced OP's other thread without knowing it at the time. I do find it very strange that OP never owned up to that thread until many dozens of pages later when Jeff called her out and then she tried to claim she had acknowledged it early on. All she said early on was that she was not a troll. OP I actually do not think you are a troll but you are gullible and in your worry you bizarrely seem to have forgotten all about your reasons to distrust your BF two months ago. And you have ridiculously poor Internet skills. For instance the uncle's personal email is right on the contact page of his fishing website.

Anonymous wrote:I'd be worried too, but in all honesty it would be more about him being with simeone else, or not being who I thought he was - especially if we met online.

There was actually a thread a little while back started by someone who had learned that their BF of several months had been lying to her about everuthing. The coincidence is that he had told her he had been working on a farm but it was discovered he was still on another online dating website but with a completely different job. So he was a liar.
Then again, that really did seem like a troll post so who knows.

But in my twenties I dated a lot of jerks and my worry is that you don't know your guy as well as you think you do, and/or that he is doing the "fade out".

Regardless, I hope he is okay and that you hear from him soon.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

OP here: do you really think that I am going to post a picture of myself on here? No. However, I'm sure Jeff would be able to find out who I am (name, etc.) and be able to look me up and see that I have told the truth about myself, age, where I live, that I have my own business, etc.

Yet you will expose him, his uncle, his aunt, their business. Their dog OP, their cute dog with diabetes!

T-R-O-L-L-I-N-G
You ain't got no alibi you're trolling hey hey you're trolling.

Please don't post a text and a selfie of this poor guy. You've already caused him to scrub his internet presence.

OP here: lol I actually did none of that, that was PP's who posted personal info. And no, he hasn't "scrubbed his internet presence" as he's still on FB.

Do you ever write him on facebook? If so, you can tell the last time he was on through messenger.

OP here: Yes, I sent him two messages...both of which have still been unread. He hasn't been logged onto messenger or oovoo (that we use for video chat) since saturday.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone suggesting this thread be locked has no business being here. Go poach a bobcat!!

Exactly! I didn't spend my afternoon trolling strangers FB pages and reading about a bearded, cow-hauling liar for this thread to end up locked!

I just about wet myself when I read this I laughed so hard. Good job pp.

Thank you!