Found nude pics on DHs phone

[Anonymous]

you ALL are the ones gaslit in fact. This whole thing has been a made-up drama

[Anonymous]

I do think it is his boss, the photo just seemed so familiar. They both work for a liberal think-tank in DC, and they do travel together and work late. DH has been upset lately due to all the Trump $#it in the news, and he knows my lobbying job is to enforce some of the Admin's environmental policies - and that has caused some stress in our relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do think it is his boss, the photo just seemed so familiar. They both work for a liberal think-tank in DC, and they do travel together and work late. DH has been upset lately due to all the Trump $#it in the news, and he knows my lobbying job is to enforce some of the Admin's environmental policies - and that has caused some stress in our relationship.

What's that got to do with you slacking on arousing and enticing and exciting him?
If you don't want him daydreaming looking at pics of other women gotta have his mind preoccupied with thoughts of you.

[Anonymous]

Op here. DH is outraged I thought it was his boss. He says that is gross and disgusting. He says he may have accidentally downloaded amateur porno photos.

Can this make sense?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. DH is outraged I thought it was his boss. He says that is gross and disgusting. He says he may have accidentally downloaded amateur porno photos.

Can this make sense?

Haha no but you sound pretty gullible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Send the pics to yourself so you have evidence before he deletes them. Don’t confront until you have more evidence, because if he’s cheating he will lie and minimize to protect himself. Check your cell phone records. Are there a lot of calls and texts to one number? Can you access his email? Does his phone have a password? Does he keep it with him all the time? Any messaging apps like WhatsApp or Kik? Is he deleting any text threads? You can find a lot of information about what to look for on talkaboutmarriage, chumplady or survivinginfidelity. Maybe he’s not cheating, but the pictures could mean otherwise.

Definitely this because he will surely deny it.

As a man, I can say the idea that men trade naked pictures of women is ridiculous. I have never once done that with anyone.

I think the guy who said that also has nude pics on his phone, that are not of his wife.

Op send the picture to yourself. I would be tempted to Photoshop my face onto the picture and send it back to him. I don't know if I would actually do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you ALL are the ones gaslit in fact. This whole thing has been a made-up drama

I'm beginning to wonder this too, especially after Jeff's info in website feedback.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do think it is his boss, the photo just seemed so familiar. They both work for a liberal think-tank in DC, and they do travel together and work late. DH has been upset lately due to all the Trump $#it in the news, and he knows my lobbying job is to enforce some of the Admin's environmental policies - and that has caused some stress in our relationship.

What's that got to do with you slacking on arousing and enticing and exciting him?
If you don't want him daydreaming looking at pics of other women gotta have his mind preoccupied with thoughts of you.

Bull$h!t.

[Anonymous]

Sorry dear, was checking out NewTumbl and saw a blog from an ex-girlfriend - just had to save her photo. I've moved it to my password-protected folder, so it won't be an issue any longer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you ALL are the ones gaslit in fact. This whole thing has been a made-up drama

Are you a moderator?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do think it is his boss, the photo just seemed so familiar. They both work for a liberal think-tank in DC, and they do travel together and work late. DH has been upset lately due to all the Trump $#it in the news, and he knows my lobbying job is to enforce some of the Admin's environmental policies - and that has caused some stress in our relationship.

What's that got to do with you slacking on arousing and enticing and exciting him?
If you don't want him daydreaming looking at pics of other women gotta have his mind preoccupied with thoughts of you.

Bull$h!t.

Better tell Becky to get the lint brush and get those cobwebs off her lingerie so she can send hubby some pictures of herself.

[Anonymous]

If my husband had naked middle aged women on his phone I'd take him to get evaluated. I'm no spring chicken but naked middle age people isn't normal.

Maybe OP he has to take one for the team. Perhaps a much needed raise? Saving to take you on a surprise cruise?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. DH is outraged I thought it was his boss. He says that is gross and disgusting. He says he may have accidentally downloaded amateur porno photos.

Can this make sense?

Op, my wife found an amateur porn photo on my phone

I proved it was from the internet (not an ap) by doing a reverse image search of it and showed it was already on the internet

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here. ladies.

men will send other men (their freinds) pics of women. sometimes men will save pics on their phone of these women. because Damn. some women are very appealing to look at.

It doesn't mean that we don't find our wives attractive or desirable. Its just a a different woman to look at.

It's like going to a restaurant. Just because we like to look at the desert menu doesn't mean we will ever order food from it.

Do your friends ever say “Don’t send me that. It will cause problems with my wife.”?

Different man here, never in my life have I heard a man say this. If someone said this to me I would assume he was being sarcastic, unless he told me his wife has his password so please send it to me in my burner email.

Op, just confront him. You will be able to tell by his reaction. Worst case scenario it's his boss and perhaps you can nip this in the bud before it becomes physical.

Agree with others, it's the potential cheating that's the issue, not him looking at naked women

just because you hang out with males, doesn't make them 'men'. I've plenty of other men friends who do this.

[Anonymous]

Wait op first he said no photo now there's a photo? He needs to find the site and show you.