A question for SAHM's - would you be annoyed if your husband came home for lunch 4 days per week?

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I would actually love that! Seeing my husband a lot actually means he must miss me and my child. The messy house can wait, and I hope you do not feel bad about it. It is totally understandable that when you have a little one the house is not going to look pristine. Sounds like he understood it too. Perhaps you are too exhausted and stressed and that is why you got upset at him. Have you found a sitter that can take care of the baby so you two can have a break from time to time?

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Anonymous wrote:Uh no. You're saying he can't come to HIS house to eat and see his kid (both of which he's working to pay for) because it makes you feel guilty? You sound crazy and selfish.

I agree with this... what is wrong with these people? I need alone time??? You sit at home all day and do nothing while your husband is out providing for your family and you need more alone times - so he can't come home for lunch and to see his child????

I TOTALLY AGREE.

it's his house, that he bought. it's his kid, that HE wants to see.

if i were him I'd be FURIOUS at you. you're terrible, and setting up a terrible dynamic for your child.

Think about all the DCUM posts about husbands who DON'T want to see their kids and don't have time to come home because they work too much... The ABSENT father's and this woman is complaining her husband comes home for lunch to see his kid????

OP has repeatedly explained that the reason her DH comes home from work around lunchtime is because he needs to poop exactly at that time and he refuses to poop at work. He refuses to come home and hour earlier or later to accommodate his child's nap schedule, so he wakes up the child every day. They live in a small apartment a couple blocks from his work so that he can walk home to poop. They could have afforded a 2 bed apartment where the child wouldn't be so easy to wake every time the door opened, but the DH vetoed that because he would need to poop at work which was unacceptable for him. He has no problem leaving OP with an overtired kid who wasn't able to nap because he chose to wake them up.

TLDR: The DH is not coming home to see OP or to see or spend time with the kid.

OP here: OMG this is SO funny. I love you! Maybe I can draw a children's book about this so our son will understand. haha

If OP doesn't like the situation - maybe she should go get a job and stop living off a man. Otherwise, STFU and suck it up. It is absurd to think that this man has to deal with his nasty wife because he wants to come home to his house to poop, eat, see his kid, see his wife, or whatever else.

Typical entitled SAHM who thinks that she is entitled to everything while doing nothing.