Thanks for all the info. I regret confusing things by even referencing the entire grade level ahead issue. Kid did not take the K-2 test. I think it's 2-7? (Teacher decided to use the higher version - I understand there is overlap). I don't think more tests is the answer right now (unless and until she is unhappy or not learning), but there is some useful insight and suggestions on this thread. It's more a concern for the future, middle school in particular, but perhaps things will even out and she will continue to have excellent teachers. Happy to hear that there are so many other kids who can do long multiplication/division of numbers in the millions +, multiply fractions, calculate area, probability, percentages, square root, add, subtract and multiply negative numbers etc. at age 7. Hopefully she'll meet them one day. Thanks. |
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They take the MAP at my child's school. Can anyone familiar with it explain what this means?
"If a 3rd grade student earns a 210 on the Reading MAP assessment, and a 8th grader also earns a 210 on the Reading MAP assessment, these two students are at the same instructional level." Instructional level? |
I'm guessing 2nd. |
OP, I think you need to own your Tiger Mom parenting style. You keep being very defensive saying you're a laid back person but you really aren't if you actually know your child can do this and you've clearly taught your child these things. You claim not to know how she was tested when you clearly do know not only the name of the test but the version. How you are is not a bad thing. A lot of parents must be envious of you and your child. But it really makes me cringe when you come on here and pretend you are this clueless very chill parent. You definitely aren't. You belong at my DC's school where the parents are all very competitive and there are a number of little DCs just like yours. |
This. You are very, very offputting. The thing is, your child is brighter than the rest. 'enuf said. |
1. I didn't teach any of these things. Kid taught herself or learned at school. To be honest, I don't even remember most of the math I learned at school, and my brain glazes over when kid shows me some of this stuff. I've supported the reading (also taught herself to read though) by keeping up with books, going to the library etc but done very little (nothing I can recall) to support math. 2. I said I didn't keep track of all the tests (ever). I do however have the details of the results I received recently and recall the conversation with kid's teacher about it. 3. I don't think any parents should be envious. I certainly wouldn't be. It's challenging. 4. I literally couldn't be less of a Tiger Mom. Anyone who knows me would laugh at that suggestion! |
We are not envious of you. I kind of feel sorry for you. |
Are you this bitchy in real life? OP was responding to PP who said that "a lot of parents must be envious of you". |
got it. You didn't do anything, but your kid self taught herself 5 grades ahead. what's your worry then? And why is it challenging when you don't need to do anything? Assuming she can finish another 5-grades in next couple of years via self-teaching, maybe she can start college around 10? |
Er...thank you for your sympathy. I agree that no-one is envious of me. I was responding to PP. |
| The issue is that your posts have some inconsistencies. You are defensive and try to justify your positions. Your kid sounds like she's a well adjusted bright kid. You don't want to hear that but that's the facts. Don't like it, then go elsewhere. Or...Homeschool. Seek other advice. Try and change your attitude. Have her IQ tested. Seek out music lessons for her. Supplement with other work home. |
And V-E-R-Y front loaded. |
The count your lucky stars that your kid is such a highly motivated (and comprehensive!) self teacher and...let her continue to do her thing. Send her to school to learn to follow rules, cooperate with other children and hopefully make some friends. It doesn't sound as though she is unhappy so be grateful for that. |
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My kid took the same test in 2nd, scored higher than yours by quite a bit and is now a 14 yr old rising freshman.
My advice to you is to focus on the other aspects in her life that aren't academic. Find something she doesn't naturally excel in and let her learn to fail and work hard. For my dd that was swim team. So many life lessons learned by doing something that wasn't easy. Kinder was our hardest year because she was completely bored. Each year has become progressively easier. It will be fine. Don't worry about it so much. I wish I wouldn't have. |
pp here- I'm sorry the thread turned negative. One thing that we did around 3rd grade for math was engage a private tutor. The tutor helps DS on other aspects of applied math like showing work, explaining thinking, being methodical-- she also works with him on more advanced math and preparing for math competitions. It's been a godsend. Language arts may be easier to accelerate within the class- more challenging reading material, for example. A lot of people will accuse you of hothousing your child- my opinion (demonstrated by my son again and again) - children do not learn what they are not ready to learn. It's immaterial whether your child was explicitly taught. People believe what makes them most comfortable- an talented athlete who practices is still a talented athlete- a gifted student who does extra is tiger parented and not "really" gifted. |