Nice try to defect, but it's calling it like it is. |
I'm not sure what it would mean to shame cheaters, but I do think clear consequences that are utilized across the board would be a big positive step. And parents would need to stop making excuses for their kids and allow the school to do its job. |
- "Asian supremacists look down on everyone else"? Wearing Nazi paraphernalia, perhaps? Get a life, dude. - "many of the students are egregious cheaters" - Many implies greater than 50%. If TJ is 60% Asian, at least 600 students are cheaters. And you have records to prove this? You must be the Pink Panther! - "the school system as a whole would be better off without the test prep/AAP mania that TJ promotes" - You are dreamer too! Ain't gonna happen. Keep posting this every day, if it makes you feel better
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- "Asian supremacists look down on everyone else"? Wearing Nazi paraphernalia, perhaps? Get a life, dude. - "many of the students are egregious cheaters" - Many implies greater than 50%. If TJ is 60% Asian, at least 600 students are cheaters. And you have records to prove this? You must be the Pink Panther! - "the school system as a whole would be better off without the test prep/AAP mania that TJ promotes" - You are dreamer too! Ain't gonna happen. Keep posting this every day, if it makes you feel better
DP. Many implies a lot. Many TJ parent feel that 9p confirmed violations (which implies many more kids cheating who were not caught) is 90 too many. Are you seriously saying 90 honor code violations in less than a year is not a lot of cheating? |
| You'll find cheaters in all races (India, Korean, Chinese, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Vietnamese, Caucasian, ...). The goal should be to catch as many cheaters as possible and expel them (or give an F grade). All cheating will come down drastically. If someone can get the names of the companies with files of old test papers, Washington Post might love the names. |
DP. Many implies a lot. Many TJ parent feel that 9p confirmed violations (which implies many more kids cheating who were not caught) is 90 too many. Are you seriously saying 90 honor code violations in less than a year is not a lot of cheating? My post was not an opinion on whether 90 was too high or not. It was directed at the blatant racism of the previous poster who seems to imply that many of the asian students are egregious cheaters. As to your question, I think even 1 is one too many. However (we are beating a horse that died several months ago here), if nothing is done about it, it will not stop. Some people seem to think the kids and their parents should stop this but not sure which world they live in.. |
My post was not an opinion on whether 90 was too high or not. It was directed at the blatant racism of the previous poster who seems to imply that many of the asian students are egregious cheaters. As to your question, I think even 1 is one too many. However (we are beating a horse that died several months ago here), if nothing is done about it, it will not stop. Some people seem to think the kids and their parents should stop this but not sure which world they live in.. The one where kids can choose not to cheat. And parents can, you know, parent. Make it clear that having integrity is more important than getting an A. That they are not raising a kid who cheats. That if TJ turns their kid into a cheater, that is unacceptable, and they will return their kid to their base school. That sort of thing. The school plays a role in stopping cheating. But the ultimate responsibly to teach morals and ethical behavior, and enforce consequences lies with the parents. You clearly taught your kid that academics are important, or they would be at TJ. So teach them that honesty or integrity are important too. And that behaving with integrity is more important than grades. This is not hard. Although it might require you to do unpleasant things. Like accept a B from your kid, or enforce consequences for cheating. But, many Asian parents believe that academic achievement is more important than behaving ethically. So, they don't want to enforce no cheating. In fact, they don't want the school to enforce it either. |
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I'm definitely not pro-cheating. But is all the cheating on exams/papers, etc or also on homework? I will admit that there was rampant cheating on homework in high school, because there was just too much of it, and many kids didn't need that much to understand concepts. (Or even for the ones who did, doing 30 math problems the wrong way at home was not a great way to learn.) I honestly didn't feel that bad about it, but I would never ever think of cheating on a real assignment.
All that to say - is the cheating a function of not just stress levels but also too much homework? |
The one where kids can choose not to cheat. And parents can, you know, parent. Make it clear that having integrity is more important than getting an A. That they are not raising a kid who cheats. That if TJ turns their kid into a cheater, that is unacceptable, and they will return their kid to their base school. That sort of thing. The school plays a role in stopping cheating. But the ultimate responsibly to teach morals and ethical behavior, and enforce consequences lies with the parents. You clearly taught your kid that academics are important, or they would be at TJ. So teach them that honesty or integrity are important too. And that behaving with integrity is more important than grades. This is not hard. Although it might require you to do unpleasant things. Like accept a B from your kid, or enforce consequences for cheating. But, many Asian parents believe that academic achievement is more important than behaving ethically. So, they don't want to enforce no cheating. In fact, they don't want the school to enforce it either. (1) You lack comprehension skill - Read my response.. especially the part that says "I think even 1 is one too many". because if you did, you would not be dishing out free parenting advice that I wasn't really asking for. (2) We will have to disagree on enforcement. It's the school. What you are saying is akin to "Crime will only stop if parents teach their children not to deal drugs, rape, shoot others, etc. NO. Crime will stop only if the cops do their job, IN ADDITION TO THE COMMUNITY DOING ITS JOB (i.e. PARENTING). |
| I'm Chinese background. Cheating is absolutely not acceptable in our house and our children rather get a bad grade they would not cheat. Im pround of that. Not all asians cheat and there are caucasians who cheat in general (I don't know if they do or not at TJ). Can people stop making this an ethnic issue? Can we work together in an effective way to make a change? |
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Actually, 90th percentile for science. For math, I would use KhanAcademy, it's really helpful, has Sequences & Series (Patterns), Probability and Combinatorics, and Geometry and Optimization. Not too sure about "Out-of-the-box Algebra". Good luck all!
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Thanks. Is there any available books to prep for math? |
Nope. New never before seen test used by private industry. Nothing has been released about except what is on the TJ website. |
| Grapes sourr! I know a chinese kid who was in TJ AND got VA champion in a sport, went to Yale two years ago. The kid practiced almost daily and played tournaments (tournament takes 3-4 hours )two or three times a month, apparently no time to take the after-class or weekend tutoring. |