I am currently being distant to wife

[Anonymous]

I do the same thing, just not on purpose. When she withholds sex I find myself not really caring about what she does or thinks. I lose my connection to her. I still care for her. I also care for my friends and siblings too, but have no intimate connection with them. I feel like she becomes part of that group of people.

Usually when that happens I withdraw and do my own smithing and make decisions based on what I want/need without an afterthought on her concerns. I figure if something so simple is too much for her to want to do than why should I care? And I usually don't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:22:25, you're seeing what you want to see. I also wrote sometimes it's a medical reason a woman may not want sex. How is that blaming a man?

OK, your gyno says no sex. What does your dentist say?

Bite hard. Psychological and emotional reasons are under the umbrella of "medical."

Uh huh. So "I just don't feel like it" is a "medical" reason now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do the same thing, just not on purpose. When she withholds sex I find myself not really caring about what she does or thinks. I lose my connection to her. I still care for her. I also care for my friends and siblings too, but have no intimate connection with them. I feel like she becomes part of that group of people.

Usually when that happens I withdraw and do my own smithing and make decisions based on what I want/need without an afterthought on her concerns. I figure if something so simple is too much for her to want to do than why should I care? And I usually don't.

Withholds sex? It's suppose to be mutual. Maybe when you withhold doing your portion of the household work she feels the same way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is an institution created to raise children in a stable and safe home in a civil society, and not an institution created solely to give men sex on demand.

The connection you are deliberately failing to make is that men accept the burden of monogamy and children [b]in exchange for sex on demand.

If the man doesn't get sex on demand from a faithful wife, he simply has no reason to agree to marry and raise children.[/b]

Monogamy and children are a burden? Being with the person you love is a burden?

I feel sorry for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do the same thing, just not on purpose. When she withholds sex I find myself not really caring about what she does or thinks. I lose my connection to her. I still care for her. I also care for my friends and siblings too, but have no intimate connection with them. I feel like she becomes part of that group of people.

Usually when that happens I withdraw and do my own smithing and make decisions based on what I want/need without an afterthought on her concerns. I figure if something so simple is too much for her to want to do than why should I care? And I usually don't.

Withholds sex? It's suppose to be mutual. Maybe when you withhold doing your portion of the household work she feels the same way.

As if that has anything to do with it. Choreplay and covert contracts don't work. I vacuum you give me a BJ...that's not how it works.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is an institution created to raise children in a stable and safe home in a civil society, and not an institution created solely to give men sex on demand.

The connection you are deliberately failing to make is that men accept the burden of monogamy and children [b]in exchange for sex on demand.

If the man doesn't get sex on demand from a faithful wife, he simply has no reason to agree to marry and raise children.[/b]

Monogamy and children are a burden? Being with the person you love is a burden?

Yes, they are. Most men are just fine being single and dating. They would prefer to date multiple women at once. They have such generous spirits that they can love more than one woman at once.

Signing up for marriage and kids is a burden. There is no real reason for any man to do that in this day and age - especially due to the high likelihood they'll end up in a sexless marriage and then get raped during the divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is an institution created to raise children in a stable and safe home in a civil society, and not an institution created solely to give men sex on demand.

The connection you are deliberately failing to make is that men accept the burden of monogamy and children [b]in exchange for sex on demand.

If the man doesn't get sex on demand from a faithful wife, he simply has no reason to agree to marry and raise children.[/b]

Monogamy and children are a burden? Being with the person you love is a burden?

Yes, they are. Most men are just fine being single and dating. They would prefer to date multiple women at once. They have such generous spirits that they can love more than one woman at once.

Signing up for marriage and kids is a burden. There is no real reason for any man to do that in this day and age - especially due to the high likelihood they'll end up in a sexless marriage and then get raped during the divorce.

This is a very simplistic way of looking at men and marital issues. There's more to raising a family than you know yet

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is an institution created to raise children in a stable and safe home in a civil society, and not an institution created solely to give men sex on demand.

The connection you are deliberately failing to make is that men accept the burden of monogamy and children [b]in exchange for sex on demand.

If the man doesn't get sex on demand from a faithful wife, he simply has no reason to agree to marry and raise children.[/b]

Monogamy and children are a burden? Being with the person you love is a burden?

Yes, they are. Most men are just fine being single and dating. They would prefer to date multiple women at once. They have such generous spirits that they can love more than one woman at once.

Signing up for marriage and kids is a burden. There is no real reason for any man to do that in this day and age - especially due to the high likelihood they'll end up in a sexless marriage and then get raped during the divorce.

So men = good. Women + children = evil + bad. Got it. Thanks for this enlightening revelation.