My man introduced me to a guy i was previously intimate with. Help!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.

otherwise it just gets messy IMO

If anything, this thread proves why sexual histories should NOT be shared. Someone gets drunk, blows a few guys, now she's tainted goods in the eyes of many of you. She'd be better off just denying it.

I feel like I am reading the Scarlet Letter. I guess some things don't change.

[Anonymous]

If anything, it proves that former (or current) K Street hookers shouldn't try to marry their "clients" without consequences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.

otherwise it just gets messy IMO

If anything, this thread proves why sexual histories should NOT be shared. Someone gets drunk, blows a few guys, now she's tainted goods in the eyes of many of you. She'd be better off just denying it.

I feel like I am reading the Scarlet Letter. I guess some things don't change.

This behavior is a little bit extreme, don't you think?

We aren't talking about a four or so guys over a coiple of years, months or even weeks, or a couple of noysfirends and a one night stand.

We are talking about a bunch of strangers in one night in the same room with you girlfriend along for the ride.

Even if you don't throw around the word, this kind of takes the cake for skanky slut behavior.

[Anonymous]

AND she is posting it online for the whole world to see? Trash, tramp, whatever. Some old dude with no class and lots of cash will marry her if she looks likes she is 25, has a perfect set of fake boobs and will willingly do what she confessed to in her OP to all of his board members. Sounds fun, no?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.

otherwise it just gets messy IMO

If anything, this thread proves why sexual histories should NOT be shared. Someone gets drunk, blows a few guys, now she's tainted goods in the eyes of many of you. She'd be better off just denying it.

I feel like I am reading the Scarlet Letter. I guess some things don't change.

This behavior is a little bit extreme, don't you think?

We aren't talking about a four or so guys over a coiple of years, months or even weeks, or a couple of noysfirends and a one night stand.

We are talking about a bunch of strangers in one night in the same room with you girlfriend along for the ride.

Even if you don't throw around the word, this kind of takes the cake for skanky slut behavior.

So, she should go live in a convent now? She is forever tainted goods?

[Anonymous]

I showed this to DH and he laughed and said, "I would tell her not to say anything." (He also said, "Hey, how come that never happened to me at a party?"

He says as long it was a one-time lapse in judgment, keep quiet and carry on. That's coming from a guy, and from what I've seen of the guys responding on here, that seems to be the consensus. Women are judging you more harshly. (And I have to admit I was surprised by your story too, but not really disapproving from a moral perspective since I think consenting adults can make their own decisions and morals don't factor in.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:AND she is posting it online for the whole world to see? Trash, tramp, whatever. Some old dude with no class and lots of cash will marry her if she looks likes she is 25, has a perfect set of fake boobs and will willingly do what she confessed to in her OP to all of his board members. Sounds fun, no?

Sick post. You would have been right at home during the Salem Witch Trials, PP. Probably would have thrown the match yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.
otherwise it just gets messy IMO

If anything, this thread proves why sexual histories should NOT be shared. Someone gets drunk, blows a few guys, now she's tainted goods in the eyes of many of you. She'd be better off just denying it.
I feel like I am reading the Scarlet Letter. I guess some things don't change.

This behavior is a little bit extreme, don't you think?

We aren't talking about a four or so guys over a coiple of years, months or even weeks, or a couple of noysfirends and a one night stand.

We are talking about a bunch of strangers in one night in the same room with you girlfriend along for the ride.

Even if you don't throw around the word, this kind of takes the cake for skanky slut behavior.

So, she should go live in a convent now? She is forever tainted goods?

No, but she needs to own her sluttiness. This goes far beyond the oops! I accidentally slept with the guy scenario. The girl is wild. Why mislead the guy into thinking she has never had a casual encouter? Blowing multiple strangera is not a starting point or a one time event for a sexual experience.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.
otherwise it just gets messy IMO

If anything, this thread proves why sexual histories should NOT be shared. Someone gets drunk, blows a few guys, now she's tainted goods in the eyes of many of you. She'd be better off just denying it.
I feel like I am reading the Scarlet Letter. I guess some things don't change.

This behavior is a little bit extreme, don't you think?

We aren't talking about a four or so guys over a coiple of years, months or even weeks, or a couple of noysfirends and a one night stand.

We are talking about a bunch of strangers in one night in the same room with you girlfriend along for the ride.

Even if you don't throw around the word, this kind of takes the cake for skanky slut behavior.

So, she should go live in a convent now? She is forever tainted goods?

No, but she needs to own her sluttiness. This goes far beyond the oops! I accidentally slept with the guy scenario. The girl is wild. Why mislead the guy into thinking she has never had a casual encouter? Blowing multiple strangera is not a starting point or a one time event for a sexual experience.

Are you a virgin?

[Anonymous]

No, she does not need to "own her sluttiness." She got drunk and went wild once.

If you're so big on being public about your dark side, why don't you sign your real name to your posts and "own" your harshness and your bitchiness and your self-righteousness? Until you do that, and "own" your ugly side, zip it.

[Anonymous]

um, i highly doubt this only happened one time!!! come on!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I showed this to DH and he laughed and said, "I would tell her not to say anything." (He also said, "Hey, how come that never happened to me at a party?"

He says as long it was a one-time lapse in judgment, keep quiet and carry on. That's coming from a guy, and from what I've seen of the guys responding on here, that seems to be the consensus. Women are judging you more harshly. (And I have to admit I was surprised by your story too, but not really disapproving from a moral perspective since I think consenting adults can make their own decisions and morals don't factor in.)

+1
good post.

[Anonymous]

But did you swallow? That means you loved him and may still have feelings.

[Anonymous]

one thing is for sure. any man that puts up with this slut must get on demand bjs for life.

[Anonymous]

back in the day I know a girl like this. she would do this but it was never just once.