Location sharing with spouse

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:I don't currently, nor does my husband with me. But if that was his reaction? I'd be going through is phone TODAY. That response is suspicious AF.

Op here. I did, didn’t find anything.

How do you go through someone's phone? I don't have my husband's password nor he mine.

Of course I have my H's password and he has mine, why wouldn't he. How would he unlock it when he is using it.

For privacy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, why wouldn't you want your spouse to be able to know where you are?

Literally, any answer I can think of is suspect.

Could you imagine.

Hey hon I'm going out with friends Saturday.
Oh cool, where are you going?

NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS CREEPER.

lolz

It's very different to ask a question, versus silently monitor.

[Anonymous]

We share. We have nothing to hide. If you are freaking out—that shows me you have something to be worried about. If your lives are as boring as ours it’s no big deal

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, it would never occur to me to track my spouse. Like WTAF.

It has nothing to do with tracking someone. My wife has shared her location with me for over 10 years. I have maybe looked at it 5 times. 2 of those times were at her requewst to judge approximate meeting times because she would be on conference call and would not be able to update me along her route. The other 3 times were just random logistical checks so I didn't need to bother her with a phone call or text.

I share my location with her and don't know or care if she checks it.

I don't know why you would jump straight to "tracking" as the sole reason when there are numerous other reasons.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sharing with my spouse. I'm 60. He doesn't care either way. Had this discussion with our adult children who seem to think it's ordinary. I'm Team Husband. No one gets to be tracked, has to be tracked. It's the principle.

[Anonymous]

My husband and I shared location for about 20 years and very rarely I checked-only when he was flying in late or sometimes was working late. FF about two years ago, his location sometimes used to be off but I never paid attention until....here I am staring at a full-blown affair and just signed a retainer for a lawyer!

[Anonymous]

Not only is he banging somebody else, but I bet $50 it's someone you know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We share. We have nothing to hide. If you are freaking out—that shows me you have something to be worried about. If your lives are as boring as ours it’s no big deal

Do you feel the same way about government surveillance?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, it would never occur to me to track my spouse. Like WTAF.

It has nothing to do with tracking someone. My wife has shared her location with me for over 10 years. I have maybe looked at it 5 times. 2 of those times were at her requewst to judge approximate meeting times because she would be on conference call and would not be able to update me along her route. The other 3 times were just random logistical checks so I didn't need to bother her with a phone call or text.

I share my location with her and don't know or care if she checks it.

I don't know why you would jump straight to "tracking" as the sole reason when there are numerous other reasons.

I can't tell you the number of times my wife and I used each other's locations to locate each other at kids baseall tournaments.

[Anonymous]

If someone doesn't want to be tracked, the most logical explanation is they don't agree with the principle that tracking is a good idea. That's all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, it would never occur to me to track my spouse. Like WTAF.

It has nothing to do with tracking someone. My wife has shared her location with me for over 10 years. I have maybe looked at it 5 times. 2 of those times were at her requewst to judge approximate meeting times because she would be on conference call and would not be able to update me along her route. The other 3 times were just random logistical checks so I didn't need to bother her with a phone call or text.

I share my location with her and don't know or care if she checks it.

I don't know why you would jump straight to "tracking" as the sole reason when there are numerous other reasons.

This. I occasionally check to see when my DH is on the train and heading home so I know to start dinner if it’s something time sensitive like burgers or steak. It’s hard for him to hear/talk on the train, so this is easier. It doesn’t matter to him because he has nothing to hide.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If someone doesn't want to be tracked, the most logical explanation is they don't agree with the principle that tracking is a good idea. That's all.

They’d better never leave the house then!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If someone doesn't want to be tracked, the most logical explanation is they don't agree with the principle that tracking is a good idea. That's all.

This. Some people don't mind it, other people see it as intrusive. There's nothing intrinsically suspect about preferring not to.

[Anonymous]

We don't track and we also don't share phone passwords - again for no reason other than we just don't see the need and we like our privacy. We like still being two independent people.

It has never really been an issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We share. We have nothing to hide. If you are freaking out—that shows me you have something to be worried about. If your lives are as boring as ours it’s no big deal

Do you feel the same way about government surveillance?

Are you equating the father of my children and life partner of 28 years to a complete stranger?

You are the dumbest person I have encountered today. Congrats!