Sister Incorporating My Son into Her Wedding

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Anonymous wrote:Im 28 and I work in big law

No you don't. Good troll though.

Come on, don’t all teen moms graduate college and law school and land in big law by age 28?

OP never said she was a lawyer, just that she worked in big law. So do I and I'm not a lawyer.

She said she went to law school and passed the bar. Did you do that also?

No but I still don't understand what is so unbelievable about that. She said she lived with her parents and sister when she had the baby so with enough help, she could have gone to law school and passed the bar. I know people who went to law school while having a child (and working). I don't see why its so unbelievable that she could work as an associate at 28.

She should be making more than enough to help the sister out if that's what she wants to do.
But the OP is not so the financial scenario as well as the age maths seem very off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:First Look?

Gag, especially if just one person, and a kid at that

Just do the first look with your immediate family

I thought first look was only for the groom (or bride) seeing their bride for the first time. Not for family or anyone else. This is so weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He is YOUR son and you have every right to do whatever feels right to you for your minor child. You can tell her that you feel this is inappropriate and while standing in for his late relative can be an honor for an adult, it can be an emotional burden for a tween. She can't decide it for him because you are alive and his mom/legal guardian.

+100 this is it! Well said, take back your power, you are the mom.

[Anonymous]

Haven’t read any replies beyond the OP but my thoughts are that you’re all a bit weird HOWEVER you should also think about the effect your decisions had on your sister. I can’t imagine needing to grow up with a newborn in the house because my sister got pregnant and my parents had to raise her kid too while still finishing raising us. Maybe she feels like she should get something out of the deal. It must have sucked for her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:A bit sexualised

how?

It is about coveting the spouse.

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Anonymous wrote:Im 28 and I work in big law

No you don't. Good troll though.

Come on, don’t all teen moms graduate college and law school and land in big law by age 28?

OP never said she was a lawyer, just that she worked in big law. So do I and I'm not a lawyer.

She said she went to law school and passed the bar. Did you do that also?

No but I still don't understand what is so unbelievable about that. She said she lived with her parents and sister when she had the baby so with enough help, she could have gone to law school and passed the bar. I know people who went to law school while having a child (and working). I don't see why its so unbelievable that she could work as an associate at 28.

To be the unbelievable part is the big law associate part. Went to law school, passed the bar, working as an attorney- difficult to do after having a baby at 16 but certainly not impossible especially if grandma basically takes the baby for the first 10 years. The big law part is less so. I can google exactly one big law associate who was a teen mom. It's possible that person is OP. But it is one person, in the entire country.