Invited neighbor friends over

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Are you sure it wasn't luxury sweatwear?

https://www.ysl.com/en-us/jersey/saint-laurent-sweatpants-in-fleece-736739Y36ZO3064.html

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https://www.lefashion.com/2019/11/gigi-hadid-casual-cool-track-pants-joggers-outfit.html

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't know many adult women who wear sweatpants out of the house, and certainly not to any social event. So just an FYI--if you are invited to someone's home for dinner in NYC, do not wear sweatpants. You will stand out, and not in a good way.

She looks ridiculous.

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Anonymous wrote:

OMG. Is that an argument against sweats? I sure hope so. Looks like she's carrying around a dump in her pants.

[Anonymous]

During COVID with people working from home “business casual” turned into sweat pants. Sadly, for those suffering the effects of long term Covid “dinner casual” now means sweat pants.

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Anonymous wrote:I agree with you OP. Maybe I’m old school but I’d never show up in sweats. Jeans? Sure!

I don’t even own sweats! And I rarely wear jeans. However, I don’t care in the slightest what people wear to my house. I probably wouldn’t even have notice unless, of course, they were naked.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't know many adult women who wear sweatpants out of the house, and certainly not to any social event. So just an FYI--if you are invited to someone's home for dinner in NYC, do not wear sweatpants. You will stand out, and not in a good way.

Yeah...I wouldn't use a woman who had the poor judgment to marry a mentally ill anti-Semite as my role model, but carry on.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OMG. Is that an argument against sweats? I sure hope so. Looks like she's carrying around a dump in her pants.

If I invited someone to my home for dinner and they came dressed like that, I would think they'd lost their tiny mind.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't know many adult women who wear sweatpants out of the house, and certainly not to any social event. So just an FYI--if you are invited to someone's home for dinner in NYC, do not wear sweatpants. You will stand out, and not in a good way.

I see women wearing athleisure out all the time. Hint: "joggers" are just fancy sweatpants. People wear yoga pants out. It's really not clear if the neighbors were wearing athleisure or ratty old sweatpants.

every single celebrity is wearing sweatpants at nearly all times atm except on the red carpet. Fingers crossed they get OP's memo that they can't come over to eat dinner at her house in chevy chase or wherever unless they swap them out.

And most of them look terrible.

[Anonymous]

Dh wore his ugly sweat pants when our friends whom we don't see often came over. I told him to not wear those again in front of non family members. They are fugly.

As long as they were "nice" sweat pants, I'd be ok with it, but not the really fugly ones.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like a lot of the posts on dcum lately all fall into the category of people not realizing how massively unimportant and uninteresting they are to most other ppl. This one and the post by the person who said 'do people not retain things they are told anymore' in off topic. Like - NO! Most people are not thinking about you or wanting to impress you or caring what you think. I am at peace with that and think it's super weird that others are all like 'DONT THEY KNOW WHO I AM?'. No one cares who you are! They have other sh*t going on. Get TF over it.

Then why accept a dinner invitation, if your general feeling towards someone is "f8k you!" Like I'd really rather not clean the house and cook for you if there's other stuff you'd rather be doing. You know, rearranging your sweatpants drawer or the like.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like a lot of the posts on dcum lately all fall into the category of people not realizing how massively unimportant and uninteresting they are to most other ppl. This one and the post by the person who said 'do people not retain things they are told anymore' in off topic. Like - NO! Most people are not thinking about you or wanting to impress you or caring what you think. I am at peace with that and think it's super weird that others are all like 'DONT THEY KNOW WHO I AM?'. No one cares who you are! They have other sh*t going on. Get TF over it.

Then why accept a dinner invitation, if your general feeling towards someone is "f8k you!" Like I'd really rather not clean the house and cook for you if there's other stuff you'd rather be doing. You know, rearranging your sweatpants drawer or the like.

we have answered this for you many many times.
if your neighbor invites you over you basically have no choice but to say yes. anything else is super awkward.
I really dont invite my neighbors over for this reason - just creates obligation. but if i did and they came i would give zero fs what they wore.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't know many adult women who wear sweatpants out of the house, and certainly not to any social event. So just an FYI--if you are invited to someone's home for dinner in NYC, do not wear sweatpants. You will stand out, and not in a good way.

Yeah...I wouldn't use a woman who had the poor judgment to marry a mentally ill anti-Semite as my role model, but carry on.

no one said she was their role model. But her $1.7 billion dollar net worth suggests that it is indeed socially acceptable to wear joggers out of the house.

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Let me guess: Chevy Chase, is that you?