Would you date a bisexual man?

[Anonymous]

No. Bi men are gay. Period.

/mom of a bi son who agrees 100%

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.

Every straight man I’ve dated has asked for anal sex so you are really limiting your choices here

Just because they ask doesn't mean you have to do it...
Do you do anything someone asks for? Odd.

Can you read? Not PP but she didn't say she complied.

Yes, can you? She clearly implied she thought she couldn't be with them if she didn't, when she said "limiting your choices." Don't be dumb.

Nope. Not al all. She did not imply that. She said you are limiting your choices if you don't date guys who asked/are in to butt stuff. That doesn't mean the guys would dump her if she said no. Just that you would be limited if you automatically ruled out anyone who was interested. Not that you have to comply, my sweet little dear.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. Bi men are gay. Period.

/mom of a bi son who agrees 100%

So is your Bi son gay or Bi. Troll FAIL. Or did you mean Bison? 🦬

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. Bi men are gay. Period.

/mom of a bi son who agrees 100%

So is your Bi son gay or Bi. Troll FAIL. Or did you mean Bison? 🦬

Definitely not a troll. My son had been in a serious relationship with his boyfriend for four years. (He is a young adult). He has had sex with women. Usually after a few drinks. I remember talking to him about it when he was younger because I was concerned. He says it’s “fun and different”, but he could never be in an actual relationship with a women. So, he is sexually attracted to some women. But, he is gay. There is no “bi”.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. Bi men are gay. Period.

/mom of a bi son who agrees 100%

So is your Bi son gay or Bi. Troll FAIL. Or did you mean Bison? 🦬

Definitely not a troll. My son had been in a serious relationship with his boyfriend for four years. (He is a young adult). He has had sex with women. Usually after a few drinks. I remember talking to him about it when he was younger because I was concerned. He says it’s “fun and different”, but he could never be in an actual relationship with a women. So, he is sexually attracted to some women. But, he is gay. There is no “bi”.

No we exist.
Sigh. I'm not going to argue how your son identifies. But Bi isn't 50%/50%. Many Bi people have a tendency towards one sex or the other but are still into certain individuals of the other sex. Also there's a difference between being hetero/homo/bi romantic vs sexual. I'm Bisexual but I tend to fall in love with men way more often.

[Anonymous]

Gen Z and younger Millennial women seem to be really OK with this. In fact, some of them explicitly want a bisexual male partner/husband so they can bring another man into the bedroom. A threesome with two bisexual men seems to be a huge fantasy for a meaningful portion of that generation of women.

[Anonymous]

Michael Barbaro, the guy from the New York Times podcast “the daily” was married to a man. He divorced and has been in a relationship with a woman for several years. They just had a kid.
Personally I’d love to date a bi-guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Michael Barbaro, the guy from the New York Times podcast “the daily” was married to a man. He divorced and has been in a relationship with a woman for several years. They just had a kid.
Personally I’d love to date a bi-guy.

Why?

[Anonymous]

My husband is bi and I love it! We’ve been together for 10 years so I’m pretty sure he’s not gay because we’ve had sex thousands of times. I’m a millennial and I find the idea of a MMF threesome very hot. I doubt he has ever been unfaithful because we are very open about the fact we are both still attracted to other people but monogamy is a choice not the result of lack of options.

But my favorite part of my husband being bi is that it really opened the door to challenging other gender stereotypes. My husband makes the $$$, works as an executive, vacuums and does the laundry without being asked, grocery shops and cooks without being micromanaged, and is great with kids. My life is easy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband is bi and I love it! We’ve been together for 10 years so I’m pretty sure he’s not gay because we’ve had sex thousands of times. I’m a millennial and I find the idea of a MMF threesome very hot. I doubt he has ever been unfaithful because we are very open about the fact we are both still attracted to other people but monogamy is a choice not the result of lack of options.

But my favorite part of my husband being bi is that it really opened the door to challenging other gender stereotypes. My husband makes the $$$, works as an executive, vacuums and does the laundry without being asked, grocery shops and cooks without being micromanaged, and is great with kids. My life is easy.

PP, you said you like the idea of an MMF, but have you done it?

[Anonymous]

"Bi men are really gay but won't admit it."
"Bi women are really straight but want attention."

Both of these statements assume that a female partner is the lesser option. It's insidiously misogynistic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Bi men are really gay but won't admit it."
"Bi women are really straight but want attention."

Both of these statements assume that a female partner is the lesser option. It's insidiously misogynistic.

From the same sad poster who thinks people are bi-phobic because someone won’t date her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. Bi men are gay. Period.

/mom of a bi son who agrees 100%

So is your Bi son gay or Bi. Troll FAIL. Or did you mean Bison? 🦬

Definitely not a troll. My son had been in a serious relationship with his boyfriend for four years. (He is a young adult). He has had sex with women. Usually after a few drinks. I remember talking to him about it when he was younger because I was concerned. He says it’s “fun and different”, but he could never be in an actual relationship with a women. So, he is sexually attracted to some women. But, he is gay. There is no “bi”.

Makes sense why some g a y men hit on a puzzled me

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What about guys who are into ladyboys?
I think that is still in the range of into feminine, right?
So maybe that is fine.

I assume you mean ts? No gay guy is into ts girls regardless of the equipment they are packing. That is a straight guy thing only.

So if a guy is into fem ts's (i.e chicks with dicks)... do they count as bi or straight?

Gay

So which is it? Ladyboys are for straight guys only, or gay?

[Anonymous]

Core issue for OP is:

- how can you stay married for life, and exclusive, with a man who has unfulfilled sexual desires involving a whole gender you do not possess?

Sounds like a recipe for disaster.