I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it will be (appropriately) called Missing Boyfriend, but I wish it would be called Poaching Bobcats, and I do hope PB finds a way into the DCUM lexicon.

Poaching Bobcats is the new "hiking the Shenandoah".

Lol

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Anonymous wrote:I still don't understand why you didn't just email the uncle. I found his yahoo address with about 5 minutes of googling.
Listed his street address, phone number and a yahoo email.

Heading "Urgent, please read regarding SV"

OP here: Idk where you found the yahoo email because all I found was his work email which I don't necessarily want to send info to because idk who actually checks it at his business. Also, the only number I found was his work one..not a personal one.

Just type in his name and yahoo in google and it is the first result!

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Anonymous wrote:I'm about 40 pages behind. Can someone direct me to what page the bad stuff comes out on? When I read last night, he was still not home and the general vibe was concerned about his safety. Now apparently he is safe, but horrible?

Nope, still "MIA"...still dont know where he is but second guessing whether he was ever in Maine to begin with

OK, I'll bite - why? If he's still MIA, why are we not concerned he's dead in a ditch somewhere?

Has anyone posted to Uncle McIceFish's wall asking if his nephew is okay? It could be signed xoxoDCUM - that should get his attention.

How does everyone/anyone besides OP know how to find the uncle on FB? What is this about a video? I'm so confused.

[Anonymous]

WTF happened?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What if we've been fueling the fantasies of a crazy stalker for 70+ pages!

I'm starting to feel bad for bobcat boyfriend.

+1 for Bobcat Boyfriend

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This can't be real. I found the uncles yahoo account in seconds and OP claims now she didn't want to send an email about a possibly dead/injured nephew to a work email because she didn't know who was checking the email?

If you really were concerned and this is not made up, you wouldn't care who read the email.

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"My daughter SAID she was going upstairs to do her homework, but I'm sure she's poaching bobcats."

"poaching bobcats"=any unknown activity performed in place of whatever action was specified/intended to be performed in that time.

"DH claims he did some chores last weekend while I was out of town, but I think he's just poaching bobcats. Nothing was and the kitchen is a mess."

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Poaching bobcats = Bunbury-ing?

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Oh, he's out poaching a bobcat alright. Whoa nelly.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm about 40 pages behind. Can someone direct me to what page the bad stuff comes out on? When I read last night, he was still not home and the general vibe was concerned about his safety. Now apparently he is safe, but horrible?

Nope, still "MIA"...still dont know where he is but second guessing whether he was ever in Maine to begin with

OK, I'll bite - why? If he's still MIA, why are we not concerned he's dead in a ditch somewhere?

Has anyone posted to Uncle McIceFish's wall asking if his nephew is okay? It could be signed xoxoDCUM - that should get his attention.

How does everyone/anyone besides OP know how to find the uncle on FB? What is this about a video? I'm so confused.

Several hours ago, OP unwisely shared some very personal details about BF's family, and the DCUM sleuth team went to work on them. Within 3 minutes Jeff had them removed, but many of us can't unsee them. BF has a lovely uncle J, a dogloving icefisherman and outdoor guide. Sorry you missed out on that PP.

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Anonymous wrote:OP Im so sorry you met and fell for this douchebag. I feel for you because as a 40 something married woman with kids I still very clearly remember how painful and confusing dating was for m. my sisters and friends at your age. It transforms you into a wiser woma n who cynically and realistically evaluates all future potential husbands.

In my twenties I thought love shoiul be mythical, passionate, addictive, confusing and hard work. Told myself the harder i work at this relationship the more it proves im so committed to him After the inevitable divorce that followed the most romantic wedding EVAH i sobered up. When I stopped thinking of dating/marriage as something mythical and instead looked at it like a partnership with someone ill have to manage a life with, the irresponsible d ouchebags were no longer interesting to me.

Stop asking yourself if hes the one and instead start picturing daily life with this man (although sorry to say hes breaking up with you). My DH and I dont have an epic love story but damn were straight with each other, sex is good and we see the world in similar ways. Its easy.

Eyes wide open now..could he be visiting you in your city because its a haven for buying/dealing certain drugs...anything ever go missing from your place after a weekend together?

Good luck



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+1

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Anonymous wrote:Poaching bobcats = Bunbury-ing?

I love you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh, he's out poaching a bobcat alright. Whoa nelly.

hahahaha! ohmygod, I am gasping for breath!

[Anonymous]

Well damn. They found the Uncle's site. I think Steve's goose is cooked. But good riddance, at least his name will be mud to the 5000 people that read this thread today! That's something. OP, take a Xanax and get some sleep and regroup your life. Anyone can tell you what you want to hear. He did and now you've got 40k views on this. I'm pretty sure I was at least 1000. This and your previous thread add up to a flawed approach to finding love. Sorry, but you have to change things or you'll be right back on here in 3 months about this same guy (at which time we may hunt you down and throw you in a locked cellar) or a different asshole. The point is, you have to do some work - hard work. Not to end up in this place again.

[Anonymous]

Calling this the winner:

Missing Boyfriend, Poaching Bobcat.

Sounds like: Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon.

Well, done!!